I hope you told him. I would never date a stripper. It disgusts me. It crosses EVERY conceivable line of boundaries and intimacy I could ever want in a relationship. I would never date and or be in a relationship with someone who stripped and did those things for complete strangers to sexually excite them and please them for money. It wouldn't matter how long together we were, the moment I found out she was stripping it would be over and I'd seethe over how she had lied and kept it from me for so long... kind of tricking me into staying with her by hiding the truth from me.
My moral code denies that, that is even a "job". I'm pretty black and white on this issue. It would violate me to me core to have feelings for anyone and than learn they undress for other men, flirt with other men and talk with them all night pretending to be interested in things they say and talking dirty to them to get more money, climbing on other men's laps and grinding against them, sticking your nude chest in their faces these things you are describing you do at parties and VIP. That disgusts me so much I'd mourn that I had ever met you or ever gotten to know you. I'd want to forget we'd ever met.
I hope you told the guy.0 1 0 0Personally, I wouldn't go so far as ditching the girl because she has to strip to support herself in school, but I'd have some trouble with the bachelor party/VIP room part. Like, WZ said, you're going to have to prepare yourself for questions he may ask regarding the activities taking place in there. While you do not want to lie about anything, don't give too many details about what goes on.
You're doing the right thing about telling him about this and if he trusts you as he should, you two should be able to talk through this safely. Offer to back out of future bachelor parties and VIP room events and say that you don't want him to feel uncomfortable.
Here's to hoping for the best, good luck!1 0 0 0
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I wouldn't tell him. You aren't cheating but he'd still get jealous of other dudes fawning all over you.
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0 4The biggest problem I see is that he's going to have lots of questions about what goes on in the VIP room. How you answer those questions will likely determine things.
1 1 0 0Agreed!
Yes, because you're not loyal to him and you're sharing your body with ever other guy around.
0 0 0 0no we usually look up at them. they are on a stage jeeze this was easy to answer
1 4 0 0what happens in VIP rooms? just wondering
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