Why don't guys want to date a virgin?

[Anonymous]

Why don't you want to date a girl who is a virgin? I thought all guys would prefer virgins? I feel like it is the asshole guys who wants a girl who is not a virgin? .. What are your thoughts?

[PatrickMK]

If your looking for a guy that is going to marry you and be your one and only then you're most likely going to have to be patient and suffer through many attempts of deceiving and coniving guys. I think almost EVERY HUMAN BEING is like this to some extent, but some realize it and some don't. Don't sacrifice YOU to make someone else happy, If something is real, happiness will result naturally. if you have faith someone will come into your life. follow your heart, but don't close it off either. A lot of people nowadays are just weak, cowardly, self-serving, self-entitled sheep that have no concept of GROWTH. Peace out!

[G-Daz]

I don't see why a guy would reject a girl based on her being a virgin, some guys are put off by them not because they are virgins sepcifically speaking but just the fact that they would generally get attached to them after taking their virginity. If the guy wants a quick fling than that will not be appealing to them.

[Anonymous]

Guys do date virgins, unknowingly, as they should in the beginning.

I don't know that I understand your situation. Are you purposely making it a point to tell dudes on a first date that you're a virgin? Because than that's just weird. You shouldn't be discussing sexual status early on when you're dating someone.

[Asker]

No this question has nothing to do with me personally. I was browsing the internet and readings men's opinions on virgins and half of them said they would prefer a non virgin girl. I know a lot of men out there want a virgin but I was confused as to why some wouldn't. And my guess to why men would prefer a non virgin would be because they just want to have sex and leave.

[Opinion Owner]

From my experience, and dealings with this site in particular, guys would rather a virgin/inexperienced girl compared to one who has a sexual history. No risk of STDs, no pressure to perform well, being with an 'innocent' girl. Plus they get to show her the ropes.

[katiesmuff]

You make it sound like guys and girls run around with a sign on their foreheads stating virgin or sexually active.

In most cases as a couple first began dating they would have no idea whether the other is virgin or not.

[peace-love-couture]

Most don't care.

I know you're trying to make yourself feel better by calling guys who have a preference "assholes" but no,it's called a preference.

[sss1111]

I think this might be beyond the fact of your virginity...

[Asker]

What do you mean?

[dave216]

Virgins have never had sex, and the chances that they will suddenly change their mind on the issue is rather slim. Well guys are wanting sex. That is why we talk to girls. With those thoughts in mind, doesn't it seem like dating a virgin is going to be time wasted? It is not nearly as likely to pay off as a nice experienced girl.

[Asker]

so what would you prefer?

[dave216]

I can make due with just my wife. She has been sucessfully adressing all my needs for 35 years. I am quite satisfied with her. :)

[TC123]

No guy is going to reject a girl because she is a virgin; rejection will happen because they want different things out of the relationship or because they are just too "different."

[Thiezz]

What makes you think guys don't want to date a virgin?

[Asker]

reading some mens opinions .. I was just kinda shocked that some guys would prefer non-virgins

[sovetskii13]

Not true.

[TheGodEmperorLeto]

Guys will, you're probably just finding guys who only care about sex and want quick easy good sex so they want experienced girls who'll "know what to do" (even though the experience doesn't necessarily mean they'll know what to do). Go after a guy who isn't so shallow and sex focused.

[I_am_repulsive]

That's not true

[dudeman]

id rather marry a virgin

[snackeyg]

I prefer a virgin. I am one though. And I don't think it's only assholes. Just some guys don't want to take a girls virginity and/or would rather have a girl that knows what she's doing.

[Asker]

Well why don't some guys want to take a girls virginity? is it because they girl would develop more serious feelings for them?

[snackeyg]

Exactly.

[AlyRobinson]

Guys probably think girls will get attached if they take their virginity.

[dcrouch2]

Dating a virgin should not matter, if the guys really likes you and not just trying to deflower you (nice way to put it) it should never be a problem. The only problem is that guys 18 to 25 are really impatience and all they really want to do is bang and move on but there are those select few who would try to make you feel like your the world. For those asshole guys their the ones I'm talking about that just want one thing. And since your a virgin, your not going to give it to them and if you are it's going to be way to much damn work. You should try and start a converstation with a guy who is quiet and shy. Since your a virgin and their shy at least you know he's getting to know you and vice a versa. Hope that helps

[youssi21]

you are totally right but acoording to

if guys search for girl to love and marry he will prefer her vergin

so he can trust her love her touch her and know will that she will be his body and he will be her body

but if guys are searching for pleasure they usually don't love virgin girls they search for a girle to give him good BJ and to make him horny

so don't worry ...you are on the right track

personally I love virgin girl..

[Anonymous]

Worried about she does not forget before.

[Asker]

what?

[Anonymous]

I feel like it is the asshole guys who wants a girl who is not a virgin\

Then why do you care what the assholes think?

[Asker]

I was just stating what I think what type of guy would prefer a non-virgin which be an asshole. It's not that I care.