Why do guys think that girls like rough fingering?

[Anonymous]

Yeah, sure, it's okay at first... but vaginas are mucus membranes and they're freakin' sensitive! Fingers have nails. Nails scratch delicate skin. Fingers are also not shaped like a penis, and usually one will suffice. Guys - why do you go so rough? And girls --- do you like being fingered softly or rough?

[justsmile326200]

oh yess I hate the long nails :/ I think they think girs like it rougher because theyre imagining that theyre substituting thier fingers for thier penis, and in thier midns all guys would rather use thier penis rougher and harder, and they just imaging it like that. and I like it when it starts of slow and progresses to more rough

[LillyBear]

Oh, they should always cut their nails first, I agree with you there. Plus, it looks gross when a guy has long nails, they look like a girl in my opinion. Just tell them to be gentle if they start doing it too rough, you have to communicate, men don't read minds.

[thatoneguy5001]

What kind of man touches a woman like that without trimming and filing his nails? (Shakes head) The ignorance...

We do go rough sometimes, and there really isn't a complex psychological motive. We just get excited. Excited people move faster and more jerkily. Try telling him to slow down. Bring him back into the moment.