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Is masturbating in front of your girl friend normal?

My boy friend and I are living together, we have sex once or twice a week , rest of the days he masturbates watching p*rn or sometimes me giving him hand job, he finds intercourse more pleasurable though more tiring finds masturbation more relaxing and easier. My question is , is it really common in guys? and another thing that bugs me is , he masterbates in front of me most of the times... like if we are sitting in a same room and am watching TV or am on phone with my friends, he is on laptop doing some work or playing games online, suddenly I see him jerking off.when asked he says he was aroused or felt like doin so and there is nothing wrong in it. he says he is at comfort level and intimate with me so he is not feeling awkward doin it in front of me . so my questions are... how often normally a guy masterbates when he is having a live in partner and is it normal to do it in front of your partner?
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  • Maybe he just likes to wank. Some guys just get In the habit of doing it to relax. Some of us have a hard time sleeping if we don't orgasm, so that might be it too if it's close to whatever time you guys sleep. Doing it in front of your partner is a little wierd, but it might be a turn on for him, or he might just be comfortable around you. If it bothers you you can probably ask him to go in the other room (Be sure to explain to him why you're uncomfortable with it), or of you're not adverse to a bit more active of a sex life you could ask him if you could join in. He'll probably accede to either request. Hope this helps.

    • yeah I often join him and give him hand job , but sometimes you know am doing some work and he all of a sudden starts doing it , I find it weird, I tried to tell him in a nice way couple of times but then still he feels offended we end up in silly arguments. but as per what you said , and as per some other members in here I feel it OK and I shud let him have his space.but I just wished we had more sex than masturbation though.

  • I don't think it is. to me masturbation feels kinda primitive - I'm not putting anyone down that does it- I'm just saying I don't do it. If I had a partner that just randomly started pleasuring herself in front of me I would think that's a little weird. I would want to be the only one in her life at that point that brings her sexual pleasure.

    I don't think its very normal. I'm sorry :/

    • thanks for your reply ... I appreciate it !

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  • I find that kind of weird. If my guy was jacking off and not having sex with me when I'm right there, it would p*ss me off and turn me off. I like sex and sex is important in a relationship. It's also weird that he prefers masturbating to sex. Everybody masturbates (or at least most people) even when in relationships but I usually think of it as something you do when your partner is not around or cannot get you off for some reason (not in the mood, etc.).

  • Does sound a bit weird as often as you make it sound. About the only time guys around here are jerking themselves is when we are playing together in bed.

    Most of the time if we are not having intercouse I will suck them off. Do this a lot while we are watching TV etc, and it is very relaxing. If they don't want to play with me at the moment it is fine and I will still suck them off

  • Rather than being turned off, be the object of his fixation and go join him.

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  • Hahaha! I don't know if this is "normal" but I'm sorry I found this a very amusing read. I can't wait to read the replies.

    Ps. I guessed the age group before I even finished reading ha ha XD

    • yeah it might be amusing but you also can give your views , your personal thoughts ( in amusing or hillarious way as well ) Ps. by the way he isn't fat or have any health problems ( clarifying for your age group prediction)

    • No, with the age I was implying more maturity level than anything. High 20s is like a solid in-between for the wide scale of maturity. Anyway, I do agree with "ihatework" that it shows he's very comfortable with you, but I still see it as somewhat selfish, inconsiderate, and disrespectful to you...

  • Well it sounds like you guys are having a steady rate of intimacy in your relationship so I suppose it wouldn't be not normal.

    But I agree with ihatework too. That must be an excess level of comfortablility you two have.

    • thank you for your feedback!

  • he must be really comfortable, I don't think I could whip it out at random times like that.

  • weirdo. I'd never do that in front of a girl

  • If she’s not in the mood and wants me to just do it. I like having company.

  • it's very normal and common. he's comfortable enough around you that he doesn't feel he needs to hide anything

    • yes indeed.

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