I posted and ad on craigslist to lose my virginity. Am I beyond desperate?

[Anonymous]

I'm sick of being a virgin. So I thought "why not?" Am I too desperate?

[izzaboo]

how about you just look for someone you care about?. because I know plenty of girls who actually find it a turn on and want to take a boys virginity..

and IF you are a loser find a way to change that.

umm switch up your style cause chicks look at clothes & hair

but find something that fits YOU and not some juicehead who you thinks girls are "inlove" with

secondly be JUST BE YOURSELF && don't discriminate because one man's trash is another's treasure.

best of luck to you! && yes sorry that's VERY desperate just tone it down a few notches

[Asker]

Yeah I decided I'm retarded and had a desperate moment. Now I'm just leaving it up to have fun seeing the responses.

[alexajade30]

Think to yourself why you haven't lost it...then fix that issue. Craigslist is a sure way to get an STD and in reality what may be stopping you from losing your V Card will turn off some random craigslist girl. Try to find a girl that means something to you then have sex. If worst comes to worst you can pay for it, NSA but I would not recommend that either.

[Asker]

I don't know why. Girls are super picky who they have sex with. I can't fix that. I don't care about meaning anymore. Starting to not care about STD's either. If I got some from the ad it would probably only happen to me that time anyway.

[Anonymouser]

Well, I think you need to be really careful. There is absolutely nothing wrong with being a virgin, and you may regret losing your virginity this way. I would suggest just concentrating on finding a girl that you would actually want to lose your virginity to.

[Asker]

That's extremely difficult and probably not possible. Girls are too shallow to give me a chance Especially when all the guys around are better looking like at parties and stuff.

[Anonymouser]

What do you think is going to happen after you lose your virginity? If you think girls are all shallow not, you're still going to think that after you lose your virginity. Not much will change.

[Asker]

I'll haven't gotten some at least once and I can die happy. I doubt I'm ever gonna a get a Girlfriend so I figure I'll give up on that and go for sex.

[Anonymouser]

Why does losing your virginity mean you will die happy? If you aren't having good sex, you might as well not be having it at all.

[Asker]

Because who wants to die having done nothing at all with a girl. That's a horrible life to live. Who says the sex would be bad?

[Anonymouser]

Well, if you're going for just anybody, the person may be horrible. They may have a disease, or they may just have know idea what they're doing.

[Asker]

It's still gonna be better then no sex. It's my first time anyway.

[Anonymouser]

I would rather die knowing that my first time wasn't with some random person who probably cared nothing for me. You might regret how you lost your virginity later on. If you contract certain STDs, no one will want to have sex with you anymore.

[Asker]

Besides the STD's I doubt I'd care. The older I get the more I get sick of being a virgin. My mindset is going in reverse of most people. The older I get the less my focus goes on finding my first Girlfriend and more on just finding my first lay.

[Anonymouser]

Your age range is 18-24 so even if you are 24, there are a LOT of 24 year old virgins. I don't know if it's worth it just to have sex with someone that could ruin the rest of your life.

[Asker]

Different opinions I guess. I've actually said to myself years ago if I haven't had a girlfriend or sex by 25 I might as well die anyway.

[Anonymouser]

Just know that having sex isn't going to change anything. If you're depressed, sex won't erase your sadness. It may actually make you more depressed.

[Asker]

No it won't. It will fix it. I'll have gotten one out of two things I'm missing out on.

[Anonymouser]

Ok

[Anonymous]

Yeah you're desperate but I don't blame you. I just want to get it over with because women think there is something wrong with you if you're a virgin and they think you'll be overly attached if they sleep with you. I recommend paying for any women that answer to get tested for diseases before you have sex.

[joraz]

Are you giving it away? Or selling it? A young woman put it up for bid on Ebay and got close to $250,000 for it.

ANd the guy didn't really want to have sex with her...he wanted to help her with her education, which is why she said she was doing it in the first place.

[Asker]

I'm a guy. That sh*t doesn't work for us. lol

[joraz]

My bad...good luck.

[italykam]

I would suggest just letting it happen as it falls into place. It's not a good idea to have some total stranger for that kind of thing, especially from online cause that's worse than the lottery.

[Asker]

It's not gonna "fall into place." So I just want it gone.

[italykam]

I wouldn't do it with a total stranger. Online is a whole other world.

[Asker]

Yeah I think I just had a depression fit and this is what came out of it. I realize I was being stupid. :/

[italykam]

Hey, it happens, I hope the depression goes away soon! It's a terrible thing.

[SweetestSinxxx]

LMFAO

You answered your own question :-P

[Asker]

No I didn't.

[SweetestSinxxx]

yeah he has, if you think you may be desperate or a loser because of your behavior, chances are that you are!

[Asker]

I never said I wasn't.

[SweetestSinxxx]

so don't be defensive, it's a stupid scenario and does answer for itself.

[Asker]

I'm not being defensive. Just saying I didn't answer my own question. I said BEYOND desperate.

[SweetestSinxxx]

yeah you did

[Asker]

Nope. Apparently you can't read.

[Anonymous]

big girls need lovin too lolol

[Asker]

I bet it's not just big girls on there.

[Opinion Owner]

in other words lower your standards then maybe you can get some ass

[Asker]

I already am by posting the ad and my standards are all kinds of lowered. I was just saying that's probably not all that's there.

[Opinion Owner]

loser

[Asker]

Thanks. :)

[Opinion Owner]

suuuuure. glad to help you :D

[Anonymous]

you are WAY to desperate

[Asker]

Figures.