If you imply you want to have sex with a girl and she says "maybe"?

[Anonymous]

I've been flirting with this girl, I really like her a lot she's funny and nice and beautiful and... =3 but enough cutesy talk because really it's a question about sex and so not quite so cute :p Let me explain: I was talking to her like normal and I asked her if she wanted to come over to mine around Xmas time (alone), she was like "yeah sure :D" (she hangs out with guys she's just friends with though so no surprise), I told her jokingly she'd have to get me a present so she was like "what would you like for Xmas?" So I told her that she should gift wrap herself... She laughed and said that I wouldn't want her etc etc... I ended up telling her that she's interesting and really pretty too and she was like aww etc etc... Anyway I told her that when she comes over I would prove her wrong about not wanting her (in other words have sex with her or whatever but something along those lines) and she said "hahaa maybe maybe" so I'm not sure what it means... It was through text too so I'm not sure how to take it... Thanks for your answers gals! If it makes any difference I said something similar to her before and she told me to cook her dinner then, and I was like "so you'll do the things I want if I cook for you?" and again she was like "maybe depends how good the food is" but that was a few days before.

[toulouse]

just curious do you like her or just want sex, I mean do you want to keep moving things forward after the sex or just sex?

i can't help you because I wouldn't say maybe to sex lol id say yes or no but I wouldn't have sex outside of a relationship anyways.. um a guy said maybe he'd kiss me later & he did try to later.. if that helps lol

[Asker]

Yes I like her I want more than sex BUT I am very sexually attracted to her too... We aren't currently in a relationship, but have been friends for a while. Thanks for answering :)

[toulouse]

right that's better, lol I feel better about it and if she's getting you like' her' vibes, then a maybe probably is a good sign for you. 'Maybe well see how it goes so far I like you but well see'- Which is ya know reasonable):

[toulouse]

hey I have a Q for you about sex but I don't want to ask it non anonymously, can you friend me so I can ask- not about having it lol but about behavior around it.

[Asker]

Okay, I only signed up now so I don't know how this site works really, I managed to friend you though :p

[illwriteaboutit]

Thats just play, she's into you just basically saying however the date goes if on how she'll respond to it.

[Asker]

Thanks for your reply! :)

[cuteshark]

It's all part of the game, where would be the fun in saying "yes of course I'll have sex with you" instead of leaving you on the edge? Play your cards right and sounds like she'd be down.

[niesha118150]

It depends how the date plays out.

[Asker]

Okay I think I should stop thanking everyone or there's going to be a HELL of a lot of these "Question Asker" replies, but thanks :p

[Anonymous]

if I wanted to turn down a guy for sex I'd say maybe, but it really depends on the girl and what she wants..ivknownthis doesn't reallly help but it depends ont he girl and what she wants