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Want a one way open relationship. How do I ask?

My girlfriend of 2 years and I are very much in love. I was her first and I enjoyed my sexual fun with girls before her. She has only kissed a couple guys before me and I want her to have her fun too. I would love for her to hook up with a guy she finds hot or experience oral with another guy. The thought of her getting pleasure or pleasuring a guy is just hot! I can't help thinking that. I just want to her to have fun! She is conservative, but we have a great sex life. Would girls hate if their boyfriend asked them this?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Well in my opinion I would kinda freak out...but I love trying out things..(sexually)...but if you say she conservative..most likely she is going to feel awkward about it ..what you can do is ask if it has crossed her mind to make out with other guy (just to kind of get a feel of what she might feel towards other guys beside u) ..and if yes..then tell her babe it really turns me on to think that you can pleasure other guys are willing to try that..its just a little fantasy I have...

    IF she doesn't like the idea just don't ever mention it again

  • No I wouldn't hate it but it def would be a bit awkward. I most likely wouldnt. Even if he wanted me to and brought up the subject and he is totally 100% okay with it, I would feel like I am betraying him and sharing something that was only special to me and him. Then again I am very loyal and would never have the heart to cheat and absolutely hate it when other people do. The question how do I ask: there is no easy way to ask this question but ask it tactfully not so direct and blunt. hope this helps :)

  • I'd be asking myself why you ask me this:

    1. is he cheating on me? or does he want me to..and wants like this an excuse to do so?

    2. is he not happy with me/our sex life? Am I not good enough for him?

    3. does he want to get rid of me?

    Even when you think it in a good way in the sense that you think it is hot... especially because she is conservative I'd watch out how to approach her with this.

Most Helpful Guy

  • I think that you're really twisted in the head, what you are talking about cuckolding

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  • Yes I would be freaked if you asked this. If you two are honestly in love and it has been 2 years, I wouldn't understand why you would even ask this. You shouldn't have to ask her this if you honestly love her.

  • It sounds kinda twisted but hot at the same time. I think if I was with a guy and he gave me that option I'd probably do it.

  • i personally wouldnt...most girls are really monogamous and possessive about their boyfriends because they love them

  • my boyfriend of 6 months asked me this about 2 months ago because he knows I only want him , I love him and he loves me but we have had many arguments which I have ended up in tears because of this, so if you think she is the type of girl who will be like me, ask how she would feel about it,IF you were going too,

    we are stll together but he still wants too, I worry he is going to behind my back :(

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