How does one transition from frat party to college dorm hookup?

[mattSmart]

I'm a freshman right now. How do I go from frat to room with a girl? I've been decent at chatting girls up while dancing with them and even make out on the dance floor, but what can I do to get some? It seems that asking to go back to my room is just too foward, or are you suppose to just keep being blunt until you get lucky? Or am I suppose to be innocent about it and make it as least obvious as possible? How do I go from A to B?

[goforthegusto]

First of all - DON'T if either of you are too drunk. It just leads to trouble.

However, if you're at a party and things get hot with a girl and everyone's still sober enough to function, maybe during some of that kissing, ask if she wants to go somewhere more private. Perhaps a corner of the house (all houses that know what they're doing have a good place out of the way, but not totally (dangerously) secluded for such purposes.)

After a bit of alone time, ask if she'd like to come back to your place. Don't bullsh*t about music, movies, doing some shots, she knows what you're asking. If yes, then great. If not, ask if you can make sure she gets home OK and be sincere about it. Maybe ask her for her # in there somewhere or just see to it that she gets home OK and move on.

You might hook up with more girls by being a jerk, but remember: 1. you have to face yourself in the mirror and 2. girls talk. A bad rep on a college campus (esp. a smaller campus) can be as lethal to your sex life as losing your genitals in an elevator accident.

Good luck and enjoy college!

[Brando]

Girls- just add beer. If they're playing tough, you might consider adding music to dance to like you've experienced. I don't know what it is, but girls get stupid with beer, and crazy with music.

[iluvcartman]

Ask what she's doing later or ask her if she wants to leave. I see this happen every weekend and if the girl's into the guy then she rarely says no...but granted most girls I've seen who go home with guys after parties are drunk stupid freshman who somehow think that they're going to get a boyfriend out of the situation or (even worse) think sleeping with a bunch of frat guys will help them get into a sorority later (99% of the time it just makes it harder for them). But if she's not into you don't bother or else you'll just sound like a creep and/or make her uncomfortable.

[Lucky1227]

If your room is far don't bother going back there just do it in the frat house (tons of people do it) go upstairs or in their bathroom or something

[katiesmuff]

Very carefully!