If I invite a girl over for a movie, she knows what I really mean, right?

If I invite her to my house alone for a movie after showing her that I'm sexually attracted to her, she's well aware that I want to have sex with her, right? And her saying yes is basically her saying she wants to have sex too?
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  • Easy tiger, "yes" to a movie at your place, means yes to A MOVIE. beyond that you have to work for it.

    Think of that situation like "who wants to be a millionaire". You get past the first stage, and you've only got 100$ hardly the grand prize. You have to keep elevating and graduating at the various steps of warming a girl up before you hit a home run.

    If it were that simple p*rn wouldn't be a billion dollar industry because there would just be on giant global orgy all the time.

    The secret is to press your luck just a little bit until you get a NO/STOP. then respect that and back off, but feel free to try again after you've let things get comfortable again. Ultimately any girl will go AS FAR AS SHE IS WILLING. which means keep trying till she makes it clear that's where the line is. and when you get there, RESPECT IT.

    • Thanks mate! :D Great answer! She's interested though you'd say?

    • At least curious enough to agree. A girl "enjoying your comapny" is the first step whether more is in her mind or not. That's why I preech the test and measure method. Push to the boundaries and know that next time you will most likely go further. always seems to work well.

  • Probably, but you also have to respect that she may just want to so something mild with you, like make out, rather than have intercourse with you. It sounds like you're thinking about the very short-term. But most girls are interested in - and expecting - more than just a quick shag.

    • That's fine I'm willing to have her as more than a quick shag, as long as she wants to do more than watch a movie too :p

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  • Actually, No.

    You asked her over for a movie, and if she said yes, then yeah, good for you, she probably does like you a lot. That doesn't mean that she is completely willing to have sex with you.

    For me personally, and maybe some girls would agree, when a guy asks us to come over to their house for a movie, then it's just a makeout session or even just cuddling in my eyes. So don't rape her or anything, because she probably isn't getting the hint that you want to do more than just hold hands on the couch. Wstch what you do and what you say, because if I were her and then all of the sudden you wanted to get it on and I didn't, I wouldn't talk to you anymore.

    • I'm quite happy to cuddle her watching a movie. If she wants to have sex with me, that'll be incredible! But I'd enjoy cuddling and kissing with her too. I basically just want to be more than friends with her.

    • this is your best answer.

  • You should assume nothing. She might think you are wanting to get to know her better and that is why you invited her. I am not sure what your background is with this girl but that might make a difference too if you two are friends or if she is practically a stranger might make a difference. If you have already been on a date with her things like that make a difference too.

    • We're friends but been flirting heavily with her lately. She knows I like her because I have told her I think she's pretty, beautiful and even sexy at another point... I even told her "I want to do more with you than just watch movies but you're too young :p" (I was joking by the way, we are both 18 but she's about 6-7 months younger) and she said "I'm not :o" (as in saying she's not too young) I ASSUME she got the hint there I thought it was quite obvious.

  • Depends on how obvious you've made your intentions aside from that. She may still think you want more.

    Also, no, it does not mean she's saying yes. It could mean she's open to the idea, or to fooling around in lesser ways, or that she simply wants to feel you out first, or just wants to spend time with you.

    • Read the comment I left for the below answerer :p We know each other quite well already btw.

    • Then she knows you're interested, sexually. She may also think you're interested in more, though. It still doesn't mean she's willing to do anything, though, even if she's aware of what YOU want. Go for it, but don't get bummed if she doesn't want to go "all the way"

    • I don't mind if she doesn't want to go all the way, but I'd still like to makeout with her or something. Tbh I wouldn't mind having a relationship with her I mean I do feel for her...

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  • for your sake I hope she understands some girls are a little oblivious. but I don't think you should worry. if you made her aware before hand, a gesture like that is pretty obvious.

  • I wouldn't. I'd just want to watch a movie.

  • Believe it or not, some girls do actually just go over to watch a movie... It's abit different if it's got a big hint, when my partner asks me if I want to come over and watch a movie in her room... then yeah that sort of hint is obvious.

    • Wow, you're good.

  • You shouldn't assume anything, as for me and my friends, we'd only be thinking about the movie. I might be attracted to a guy, but I am not so fast in having sex with him because I'd like to get to know him first. One guy tried that and he scared me D: wtf...never spoke to him again.