Depends on the guy. To be simple, we'll lump guys into 2 categories, the teenage players and the shy guys. The players are just eager to stick it in something and will run through tons of girls just to find one who will have sex with him. He wants to experience more than just masturbation, he wants the real thing.
Then there is the shy guy. If he's comfortable with himself, then he'll want it to be a good first time and try to figure out how best to do it so that he doesn't screw up. This could lead to the second situation for this type of guy- he could fear his first time. If he either has it planned out, isn't sure what to expect, or doesn't think he measures up to other guys for whatever reason, then he could dread it or even avoid it for as long as possible.
We don't want it to be special in the same way women seem to want it all planned out and perfect. Planning it too much might even make a virgin guy nervous about performance and he may have trouble performing if you know what I mean lol.
Honestly I think a lot of guys just want to get it over with and lose their virginity as soon as possible because women expect guys to be able to take control and know what we're doing. For that reason being a guy virgin is not attractive and something we don't want to be. I would say guys start really thinking about sex around age 13.
Why don't guys want it planned out like girls? I don't get that, isn't losing it suppose to me special? it's a one time thing.
Because planning it puts stress on us to perform and if we're stressed we can't get an erection which means no sex is going to happen. I'm not saying that is always the case but that is how it can be for a lot of guys. It doesn't have to be planned out to be special and it won't be perfect no matter how much you try to make it be.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I've always cared but the older I get the less I care. I'm 21 and a virgin and I care less and less as time goes by about it being special. As for age I'd say 14-16. For me it was around 16.
at first I was waiting for marriage. but I realized I couldn't take it anymore. also, my first time was to prove a point to someone I now hate. :D my first time was good but not great and it was a hookup. not the best idea. but..its w/e just something I have to live with the rest of my life. ya know?
wellllll...i started masturbating before 14. so. that's pretty much when I started thinking about it but..i was 20. when I lost it. so, its not like I was in a rush to do it
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