My boyfriend feels more masculine when I sleep naked, while he doesn't?

[Anonymous]

He told me he thought it was great, when I sleep naked while he sleeps with sweatpants and T-shirt or sometimes even sweater. And when I asked him why, he said it's make him feel more masculine. I don't mind it, so I guess I'm gonna do him that favor but I think it's kinda odd. A while ago he told me, he likes the way my body feels against his, so wouldn't it make more sense if he was naked too? Its also not cold or something, I don't know why he needs to wear a sweater Do any of you guys feel the same? And girls has your boyfriend ever asked you for anything like this?

[jimi_s]

This may be way off, but I can only go with my own experience. When I sleep in a hotel on business trip somewhere shady, I like to sleep with my jeans on. That way, if something happen, I can jump off the bed and act on it right away. Silly, eh?

I can imagine, your guy may feel that by him being clothed, he would be ready to fend off anything that may endanger his naked, hence more vulnerable, woman. For example, there is a fire. He won't have to scramble in the dark like an idiot to find clothings, he can just jump and carry you to safety (wrapped in blanket, of course) and fulfill his manly duty to protect and care for you.

I may be waaaaay off on this but many men may have fantasies of being the hero for the loved ones .

[Asker]

You sleep in jeans? Isn't that really uncomfortable? and thanks for your're answers, it sounds weird to me though

[tt840537]

Its kind of odd. Maybe some sort of fetish.

I guess in this circumstance, I can only think of like a slave girl relationship, like you my sex slave and toy, I f' you whenver I want and can do it whenever I feel like it.

This isn't really normal per se but if you two are okay with it, that's cool.

[Amandax3Leigh]

Its kind of like a dominant thing. The fact that your naked kinda makes you slightly more helpless and the fact that he's clothed gives him some type of idea that he has more power? That's the only thing I can think of. My boyfriend would rather be naked with me. Also your guy may just like being able to feel your body.

[Asker]

I see what you mean thx. I actually thougt bout that 'feeling my body' thing too but wouldn't he feel much more if he was naked (or at least half naked) too?

[Amandax3Leigh]

He would, but maybe he only wants to feel you with his hands?

[katiesmuff]

That does sound a bit odd for sure. Have spent the night with many guys and I am always naked and at the worst I have had guys come to bed with shorts and maybe a T on, but mostly they like being naked next to me.

[rose21]

No actually he likes it when I wear a tea shirt of his to bed?

[Letsbereal]

LMAO that is weird but that's just his thing I guess. That's not a common but I am pretty sure every guy has a one werid thing they do

[The-Romanian]

What..theee..eff...? If I'm in my own bed, or in my womans bed. If she's butt naked next to me, I'd be the same way. Hell, I'm that way regardless. :)) I don't see where you sleeping naked next to him makes him feel masculine. That sounds..retarded.

[Asker]

He's not retarded, I guess it's just some kind of weird fetish?!

[The-Romanian]

I didn't say he is. I said it sounds it.

[dave216]

I agee, kinda odd. I think he is wanting to feel superior over you. Perhaps like you are his slave girl, but it is just a guess.

[Asker]

that doesn't sound nice, should I be worried?

[dave216]

No, there are enough real problems in the world to worry about. Don't concern yourself with this unless he starts exhibiting other odd behaviors.

[TheManHimself]

Girls should always be naked in the house, that's a given; guys naked or not, it doesn't make a difference.

[Asker]

lol, well he insists not being naked himself so I guess it does make a difference to him

[ihatework]

that's odd. if she's naked I'm gonna be naked too. duh.

[Asker]

right, that's what I thought too

[ihatework]

it's only logical to me