First time going to his house and hanging out. I don't know if he actually wants me or just wanted my body.

[Anonymous]

Me and this guy were planning to hang out but we had to cancel a few times. We were texting and he said to me that we werent going to f*** becuase 'thats a once a year thing" so I finally went to his house and we were in his bed watching a movie and we hooked up and he kissed my neck to my boob theh he was toouching my leg and my vagina. This was great and then he put my hand down his pants and I gave him a blow job. But during this we barely talked and I want a relationship with him. Did he just get me to his house for his pleasure? Or will he come back for seconds?

[GuyAskingGirls]

Depends how good the blow job was lol It all depends. If he wants to keep hanging out then he might want a relationship. You should hold out on the sex long enough so you can get a feel for what he wants. Whether he just wants to be f*** buddies or a relationship

[Asker]

well he seemed to be really enjoying it. But even if we just continued to hang out would it be wrong of me to ask him to go down on me?

[GuyAskingGirls]

Not at all. Especially if you're blowing him every time you hang out. He should return the favor at some point on his own. If he doesn't and you ask and he won't do it, you need to forget about him. He's obviously only looking out for his own d***

[katiesmuff]

Depends! Did you suck his penis really really good and swallow? If it was good YES you will most certainly be asked to return.

On the other hand if all the playing was good or bad, but he cares for you as a person again you will be asked back.

[Asker]

yeah it was good I mean I don't know if it was like amazingly good and whatever but yes I did swallow.

[katiesmuff]

Bet you that you already talked to him since you posted this!

[Asker]

wait talked to him when? after I was at his house I haven't talked to him since.

[Anonymous]

It's possible he wants a relationship, but I doubt it. More than likely he's just after sex. Wait and see if he's still around.

[Asker]

hes said he wants a real relationship but that was before we did anything. And my guess is he was just saying this to get me in his bed

[Opinion Owner]

Yep. Don't trust him. And don't go to his house again unless you're prepared to do sexual acts. I wouldn't go personally, you'll just regret it.

[Asker]

And do you think it makes a difference that his mom and sister were home. So he's obviously done this many times before.

[Opinion Owner]

No. Most parents are way too lackadaisical when it comes to boys being alone with girls in their room. Just forget about this boy and find one who wants a relationship with you and not your body.

[peace-love-couture]

You basically are allowing yourself to be used.I doubt he wants a relationship.If he did it wouldn't have been so rushed.

[jenlovee]

has he talked to you since that night?

[Asker]

no we have not talked since :(

[jenlovee]

then I'm sad to say, he probably used you :/