Pooped during anal...

[Anonymous]

So this wasn't the first time me and my boyfriend had anal sex. I know what to expect by this point and I do enjoy it quite a lot. My problem is, we were going at it when he stopped, pulled out, said "I can't put this back in your P****" and ran to the shower. Now, I am very glad he didn't put it back in me since I had sh*t on him. I never felt it come out though. I didn't go to the bathroom before hand, my whoops. After his shower, he came back ready for more, but by this point I was feeling so gross. I went and cleaned up. Came back to the room, we started having regular ol intercourse again, but I had to make him stop because even in my va j I still felt like I had to poop! I was very embarrassed about it all. He seemed fine with it. My question is, Guys, do you go into anal sex knowing this could happen? and if it does how do you feel about it? I want to ask him about it, even though I'm sure he'll say its fine. He really didn't seem too bothered by it... but I am. I feel way less than sexy now.

[sa230e]

He said "I can't put this back in your P****" not because he was grossed out but because it would actually be dangerous to do so. Fecal bacteria can give you a vaginal infection. Whether for penises, toys or fingers the rule is that nothing that's been in the anus can go back into the vagina.

There's no need to feel gross or embarrassed about it. If you engage in anal sex, this sort of thing is to be expected. It doesn't mean you had a bowel movement, there was just probably a little bit of left inside. Some women give themselves an enema beforehand to stop it from happening. Some guys use a condom.

Kudos to your guy, he handled it exactly as he should have. Any mature guy knows and accepts that girls poop too and it's nothing to get freaked out about. If a guy can't handle a little poop he shouldn't engage in anal in the first place. If he knows what to expect and is willing to do it anyway then he's probably not going to get grossed out if some gets on him.

[Asker]

yea, I know not to put it back in my vaj after its been in there. he always wipes it clean first. That was just his immediate reaction when he jetted for the shower. and yes, my man handled himself and my feelings perfectly. I feel very fortunate to have a mature man. Thank you for you post. I was waiting for more guy responses, and yours def made me feel better. Although, I'm actually over it now. We talked about it, as I'm sure you read, and he reassured me that its all okay.

[MarcusDavis]

By the by, most of the time, the girls never felt it coming out either. Compared to the anal sex, a little poop coming out is not so big a feeling, I guess. One girl pooped a lot, but we were outside. She was actually cumming and pooping at the same time, so I did not mind. Easy clean up cause out doors. No biggie. I had a huge orgasm too.

[JonJames]

Have you ever thought about sucking it clean -- then going back to vag? Saves time.

[MarcoUSA]

If you had to go again during vag, you just needed to clean out. I keep a small bulb syringe in my bathroom -- you know like for ear wax -- but a bit bigger? Nothing hi tech about it. Suck luke warm water into the bulb -- have her spread her ass -- fill it up. Have her hold it for a bit. Now when she has to go, she really has to go. Because we are so comfortable, I'd have her suck my dick as she evacuated --- her sitting me standing. It showed her to not worry about it in the least -- and you know what? I got one hell of a BJ!

[katiesmuff]

Just another very good reason why I would never do anal! If only girls would read up on anal sex through real medical articles they would see that this does happen and worse than that continued anal sex causes the muscles to relax and you will find yourself sh*tting yourself when nothing is going on. That sure is something I would like to have in the back of my mind as I was sitting down to dinner in a fine restaurant. "OOP's Honey, I just SH*T Myself"

[YobootyStank]

lmao omg seriously?

[BabyJenks]

Precisely. We had one girl on camp who had to leave active service to due "intensinal problems" as stated by the MD, but truth was that girl couldn't hold it in any longer due to having her back doors smashed in one too many times. Plus it can cause major UTI's and kidney infections..not good! Stick to the front door and leave the tradesman's entrance well alone!

[peace-love-couture]

Aww,hun.

Mature men go in knowing that can happen and he handled it in a very mature way.I mean,think about it,he could have have pulled out and made you feel embarrassed and the fact that he still wanted to have sex with you shows that a)He didn't care and b)He handled it calmly and mature

[Asker]

yes, he was very mature about the whole thing, which was no surprise to me. He is great. We are very open and talk about sex easily, but nothing was said about it afterward. I mean you gotta admit... that's seriously embarrassing for us girls. I guess I'm just looking for a few strangers to make me feel better. lol Thanks Evangelina! :)

[JonJames]

Jeez! Don't take it so hard! If you're gonna play in the mud -- you're gonna get dirty. Most guys accept that part of anal. It is not usual for you not to feel the "slippage." Lot going on, and it's easy to slide out around his cock. Try to focus on the fantastic orgasms that you give him. He has cum in your ass more than once true? Honestly when it happens -- I try to keep going if at all possible so she can finish and so can I. I look at it like, there is shit on my dick. So my dick can't smell any MORE like shit. The worst is over. Just finish up good and hard. Plus my cum just may help flush out any left over shit -- and we hop in the shower. Almost always, after some rest, back at it.

[Gazzoo]

If you're gonna play in the mud puddle, you're gonna get dirty. Nothing to make a big deal over. If you want to minimize any chances of mess, take a bowel movement before sex and then take a small Fleet enema that you get at the pharmacy. Do your clean out an hour before your date and you'll be good.

[MarcusDavis]

Shoulda went right back to anal. You know...hair of the dog that bit you? When you feel that "gotta poop" feeling -- just gotta relax and let butt open. I know it is hard, but once you do, that feeling can change into some thing that can really help you come hard. Have you tried anal since?

[MarcusDavis]

I've had it happen a few times with a few girls. But I did not even rush to shower. Just finished as usual, and we showered together. One girl would sit on the john and clean my d**k with wipes while she pooped and pushed out my cum. Then we both showered. It has happened maybe 12 times in 500 anal sessions. I will take those odds!

[JH5022]

I would just go with it.

[EllieLovesUall]

I find anal sex so disgiusting this is a major reason why I will NEVER have anal sex

[G-Daz]

Yeah, its a little nasty. I don't see why guys can't just stick to the vagina, after all that's what it was created for. Plus the girl holds the bad side effects from it, the guy gets nothing. THe girl is the one who could potentially tear the inside of her and if that happens you will get an infection. It increases your risk of developing rectal cancer. You can evelop 'pink sock' which results in your anus being too weak to hold anything in and pretrudes outside your body. is it still worth it?

[0ddjob]

Don't sit and grind on this. If you do it often enough, something like this is bound to happen.

Both of you seem to have a reasonable attitude about it.

Just mark that one in the "L" column and keep playing.

[sylar]

Poop weiner is always a risk with anal, but I sure do want to try it sometime.

[Anonymous]

Welcome to the world of anal. I never do it.