Anyone else have the same morals about strip clubs and p*rn?

[Anonymous]

I'm pretty sure this must make me the girl from hell but I HATE STRIP CLUBS AND PORN . Its not really a self confidence thing or anything I just can't stand them. I can understand guys watching p*rn if there like 12 or 13 and just getting intrested in sex and stuff or if there not in a relationship but I find it really gross if a guy is in a serious relationship and he watches/jackes off to p*rn if he's not getting his sexual needs taken care of and he's not satisfied then he really should'nt be in a reationship with that girl anyway. Same with strip clubs if I'm dating a guy I would be okay if he wanted to go, not a lot though and he could look but not touch. I could'nt have sex with a guy though after he came home from a strip club all horny after being touched and getting lap dances from other women. I find it discusting . I'm more then willing to try anything at least once and if I'm in a seriouse relationship with someone I trust and they want to have sex every day then I'm more then willing to do that :) aslong ass he is'nt watching p*rn or going to strip clubs because it does'nt feel right if he is. Does anyone else have these morals . Don't leave a reply saying I'm the girlfriend from hell though I kinda already figured that out lol

[Styles_12]

Strip clubs and p*rn are gross. Degrading to women. But I suppose they put themselves out there because of the fact they want to make money on sex. Which isn't really a decent human-being. Someone who gets filmed to do such an act (obviously talking about p*rn) and exploits the men watching by only fancying guys with the 10"+ penis'.

I think to anyone feeling they need to watch p*rn in order to get off whilst in a relationship should think of other things. Make a sex tape with your girlfriend only you two watch? Something like that? But yeah, I agree with you girl. I hate strip clubs and p*rn.

[derrick112]

Dang girl, your "under 18" and already thinking about this kind of stuff LOL? Something isn't right. Anyway, you bring up a good point as far as going to the strip club, I personally wouldn't be going to strip clubs out of respect of my partner. My views on p*rn is that it's just fine, everyone will have an urge at one point or another.

[Asker]

with what's on T.V today and in ads and movies nothings right , people are exposed to stuff like this at a young age and I'm not under 18 by very much lol I'm 17

[Anonymous]

I understand what you are sayingbut going to stripc being a guy single or not is quite normal as long as he lets you know and you are cool with it or you can go with him at times. Its a relaxation for them and if he goes once in a while that's cool. You have to trust him is the key here. Be open and less dramatic about things like that. Make him feel like he can have some space. Your opinion is your opinion but if your guy likes that, he is going to go whether you like it or not. Would you rather be OK with it or have your guy sneak to do it? Your not his mom, nor his wife, your his gf

[Asker]

Ya he could go but he could'nt touch and I don't go to strip clubs but if I ever did I would ask him if he was okay with it and if he was'nt I would'nt go and the same should go for him I would never date a guy I did'nt trust , I would trust him not to go

[Opinion Owner]

Well if he says he wants to go then you have to trust him when he says he will not touch them. No sneakin up on him to see or going by hearsay. Don't question why or what happened at the club tonight. Guys get annoyed with this and feels you don't trust hima nd have insecurity issues. Just be cool and happy with your man and until he shows you he is not trustworthy then you can be that way

[Asker]

You just pretty much repeated what I replyed to you ..

[Opinion Owner]

I was being specific on what not to do since you claim you trust you may still say or do things that may contradict that and said don't worry about any of that and just be with your man. You never said any of that. All you said was you would let him and you would trust him not to go. I'm talkin about when he does go, never bring up what he is doin altho you may have told him already.

[Mesonfielde]

Strip clubs are pointless and stupid, p*rnography is necessary to satisfy necessary needs in case there is no alternative. In a relationship, p*rn might be useful in case that the girl is on a period or she's just getting bored. Unfortunately such actions should theoretically be limited as it can get "boring and repetitive and unexciting" after a while, and then everyone's screwed.