Re: "so why is it most women on this site always state they like a preference of 7 to 9? :/"
Well, I'm sure there's a number of factors involved:
First consider that the misconception that bigger is always better affects both men AND women. The same things that make guys think that a bigger penis = more pleasurable to women affect women too---porn, social pressures, etc. Imagine a group of women sitting around talking about their sex lives. First, most people don't want to admit it if their sex life is unsatisfying because they don't want people to look down on them or feel sorry for them. So everyone's sex life is "amazing!" Say the conversation turns to penis size. Since in general, people look down on small penis size, even if a girl has an amazing sex life, there's a lot of pressure there to exaggerate the size of her partner's penis because she doesn't want people to think that there's something wrong with her for enjoying a smaller sized penis, or for them to look down on her partner, or for them to assume she's lying about how good her sex life is because they think that penis size is an indicator of whether or not sex is good. I'm using this example to show that people lie or exaggerate about their sex lives (including their partner's penis size---and of course, there's a lot of guys who exaggerate/lie about their penis size as well). The way we view and talk about penis size might not be based in reality.
With that in mind (that a lot of women are just as disillusioned about penis size as men are), also consider these other factors involved when a woman talks about what her "preference" is for penis size:
1. How much experience does she actually have with a variety of penis sizes? A lot of women only have a handful of sexual partners in their life time. They may have only had experience with larger partners and just assume that smaller isn't going to be as pleasurable. They may have only been with smaller partners and assume that larger would be more pleasurable (because we're told that it is). They may have been with a couple of larger guys and a couple of smaller guys---but is it possible that it wasn't the guy's penis size that made it a positive or negative experience (since there's tons of other factors that make someone a good or bad lover)?
2. How many women actually know the exact measurement of their lover(s)' penis? Unless she's measured it herself, she's usually going based on what the guy told her (which may or may not be an exaggeration), or based on an estimate (which could be off).
3. Who are the people answering these "penis size preference" questions? The same questions about penis size are asked daily on this site. I've noticed a lot of women either say they prefer "average" or say that size doesn't matter to them and even take the time to explain why. But most guys don't believe them. They think these girls are just lying to "make them feel better" or to be politically correct. And the question continues to be0 0 0 0asked, again and again. So we get sick of answering these questions and stop answering them. For the most part, I don't answer these questions anymore because I think, "What's the point when guys don't believe me and keep asking the question over and over again?"So really, who are the women saying their preference is 7-9 inches? a) women whose only experience is with guys on the larger side, so they assume that smaller won't be as pleasurable; b) women who assume bigger would be better based on
what they're led to believe about size, but haven't actually been with a guy that big; c) women who realize that people will assume they're lying if they say something smaller, so say they prefer larger guys as a joke or in spite; d) "size whores" - women who actually do prefer larger penises (but aren't representative of the majority of women).
A study by Masters and Johnson found that typical vaginal depth ranged from 7-8 cm in an unstimulated state and 11-12 cm during sexual arousal. That's only about 5 inches when aroused.
Average penis size is 5-6 inches, so wouldn't it make sense that most women also have average-sized vaginas?
When it comes to penis size, girth is actually more important than length, since most of the pleasure that a woman experiences during intercourse is from the pressure and friction of the penis against the vagina wall, not from a penis being able to hit her cervix. Also keep in mind that, whether you're talking about length or girth, most women usually have a limit where a penis would be too big and feel painful.
Obviously penis-size questions get asked a lot on this site, and I think that men actually care more about their size than women do and don't listen to the women who say that penis size doesn't really matter or that bigger isn't necessarily better, etc. or they think these women are just lying to make guys feel better.
Yes, there are some women out there who do want a guy with a huge member, but I would suggest that this might be because:
1. She's had a previous partner who was quite large and got "used to" his size.
2. Just as there's social pressure on guys to have a big penis, I think there's a similar pressure telling women that they should want a guy with a big penis or that it will be more pleasurable.
3. She has a larger-than-average vagina.
4. She finds a larger penis more aesthetically pleasing or is excited about the "challenge" of taking a large penis or being "stretched" by one.
Personally, I think 6 inches is great.1 2 0 0so why is it most women on this site always state they like a preference of 7 to 9? :/
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You obviously have no idea how to pleasure a woman; you should be embarrassed for posting this. You can get them off with no penetration at all, and if you do use penetration, the g-spot is only 1-2 inches deep.
When they say bigger, they mean bigger AROUND (girth), because it makes more contact with the g-spot. Length is pointless.1 0 0 1im a virgin dumbass
Yes, yes you are.
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