I felt somewhat guilty. My Mother raised me to value it, and without saying it, she constantly implied she would be disappointed if I didn't wait until marriage to lose my virginity, and I didn't.
I'm not totally sure if she even knows I didn't wait, because we've never really spoken about it, but I felt as if I'd let her down to some degree, and after spending my childhood trying to make her proud of me I wondered if I'd made the right choice.
As for feeling bad and dirty, I don't know if that's how I'd describe it, more confused. I didn't really want to, but I didn't care about much at that time and I got tired of rejecting my boyfriend so I said yes. If I could take it back, I don't think I would. But the feeling did stick for a while.
ok thanks, that actually really helped
i lost my virginity a few days ago and I felt the same but I think I realized after a wile that it wasn't guilt so much just that 'virginity' had been talked about and how losing it is so important and you need to do it at such a time and stuff that after I did it I thought I felt guilty but it was just that the whole thing had worked up in my head about how losing it is so precious that I was kinda like wait ...thats it? (after I did it) all of those lectures about it and stuff and that's all? was it too easy for me? the answer is no. so as long as you wer ready and safe. its just shock that its over with so easily after everything ud heard.
I did yeah, mine went away by the second time I had sex. I didn't do anything to get rid of it, just told myself I loved him, he loved me, we were old enough and that there wasn't anything dirty about it.
sex hmmmm if you hav sex as a human its good..but if you are going another way lik blue job anal or leaking etc...thats really bad and makes you feel guilty ... be nice and gentle while having sex with your partner specially when its 1st time...if you knw wht I mean :)) sorry my englishhhh :\\
whata 'leaking'? So I guess you didn't feel guilty after your first?
leekin = sucking...get that ? no no no actually I am muslim and virgin yet...i will sex after marriage with only my wife...i hav sum statute...!
yah the first time was embarrassing, but it gets much better very quickly
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i did... but my first time was with a stripper at a strip club
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