Insecure and nervous about being naked with a girl

[MattAngelo]

I'm 25 and virgin. I'm Italian, so I was not circumcised. I've heard about how girls think natural guys' gear look less attractive and I'm afraid she'll be turned off or she won't be interested in my body. I hit the gym 4 days a week and I was always proud of my body, but lately I feel weird because of some comments I've heard and I'm afraid to take my clothes off in front of girls. Are there some women who like a man to be natural, like girls from certain countries? Maybe I can know to avoid certain girls who don't like it? When I'm with a girl how can I warn her that I'm uncut and how can I know that she's okay/not okay with it? Thanks

[Anonymous]

first of all, one of the coolest things of guys is how they just don't care bout being naked with a girl and they just walk around naked and carefree, cause it shows confidence and it shows your a real man and that's what we like (girls are the ones who are always self-conscious when it comes to sex and being naked, NOT GUYS). It doesn't matter if your fat, skinny, pale, tan or whatever you r! Even If your not comfortable being naked in front of a girl, just pretend like you r, otherwise it will be failure cause u'll make her feel uncomfortable as well and (trust me) it is not gonna work.

And about being circumcised, that's not an issue (not at all!), and if a girl tells you she's not gonna have sex with you because of that, that's a lie and there must be another explanation. Think about this: if someone's gonna have sex with you is either because they like you (have feelings for you and stuff) or just because they're horny! So, being circumcised is not gonna stop them for having sex with you (there's just no way).

And.. I don't see why you should tell girls your "uncut"...come on! that's not something you say! You shouldn't care about that.

And just in case you feel like you really need to say it and find out if the girl has a problem with it, you just gotta be "casual", and if she's a total weirdo/loser/retarded and has a problem with it, you gotta remind her that being good at sex its not about being or not circumcised.

And hey, you hit the gym 4 days a week! Why are you worring bout being naked at all?!

use your italian charming and be proud of yourself!

[CuddlyCarla]

Honestly, any girl that judges you on whether or not your penis is circumcised isn't worth being around. Guys make a much larger (pun intended) thing about their penises in general than girls are. Guys worry about whether it's cut or not, size, etc. Girls honestly don't place a big emphasis on any of that. We like what it's attached to (meaning you). It's OK that you are 25 and a virgin too, most women will not judge you for that, it's respectable. That you work out in the gym half the week is really sexy, a girl will notice that and be pleased to be with a man that can take care of himself. Stop worrying about what she'll think, many guys aren't circumcised. Be a good man to her and a good person, that's far more interesting and important. How you use your penis will also be far more appealing to her than what it looks like. Stop judging yourself.

[Anonymous]

Circumcision is the equivalent to clitoral mutilation. It shouldn't be done in the first place. 1. be lucky that you have your foreskin. Some men would kill to have it back. 2. If a woman cares about your foreskin enough to comment or mock you about it, then she doesn't deserve to have your company. Be confident in yourself and don't let ignorant women get you down. =]

[beauwalnut]

once you have been with a few girls you will lose your insecurity and hopefully you will be proud of your body. you need to get a box of condoms, keep your hygiene up, and start asking girls out on easy dates (lunch, coffee etc)

[only_human89]

Dude you're from Italy? I thought Euro chicks preferred their men uncut? and most of the world for that matter.

[Tigerlily]

I'm pretty sure it's just America that like their men circumcised. Unless you want to marry a Jewish girl, it's really no big deal - anywhere that isn't America and we're not going to think anything of it!

[lelebear]

I admit the first time I saw an uncircumcised penis I did think it looked a little strange but it certainly did not turn me off or make me not want to have sex with him. We all have things about our bodies that we don't like but I can assure you that no one else even cares about them.

[Thiezz]

I thought being uncircumcised was standard in all civilized countries? I doubt more than a few percent of men is circumcised in Italy, why worry?

[jarhead]

You are already 25, do you want to be the real life 40 year old virgin? Don't worry about what a girl will think about you being cut or not. Whip it out and do what you have to do.

[ilovenursing]

personally, I could care less what a guy's junk looks like. but if the girl truly loved you, she would love it just as it is :)

[cutekid]

I don't think its resistable when its erect..

[greenout420]

its all good bro you just gotta find a girl who doesn't care about tht if your just looking for a girl to f*** I don't know what to tell you on tht but if your looking for love then she won't care if she honestly loves you

[nettesweetie]

You sound pretty cool. I'm 24 and a virgin also. Don't worry about what people will think sexually. If you find a girl like me, she will be so focused on having a happy relationship and loving you that she won't care that you are uncircumcised.

I wouldn't circumsize a child of mine. My ex boyfriend wasn't circumcised and it didn't bother me. Just be yourself and the girl that is worth you and your virginity won't care much about how you look down there.

[mkgo24]

hahaha, if your a virgin why would you say you didn't mind your boyfriend not being circumcised?! HAHAHAHA go have sex and then talk! hahaha n of course your not gonna ciscumsize your child, there's no way your a surgeon! hahahaha your funny though

[nettesweetie]

Apparently I'm funny even when I'm not trying to be lol

[Anonymous]

If she really likes you,she won't mind.Dont worry about it.