My fiancé and I have this same fantasy. However, we're getting married in the very near future and when that time comes he will be raising the child right along with me. Because I know that, I know he is a good man. I'm not so sure that it would be a turn on for me otherwise because I can't get turned on if I don't feel secure even in the smallest of ways. Also, because he is a good man, I don't think he would get turned on if he knew he wouldn't be around to help raise him/her. I know that the unconscious urge to procreate in every man is present, so I'm sure that MOST men would still get turned on knowing that they might not be around to help raise the child for whatever reason. That's just biological. It's just not moral if it becomes a reality. It's all good if it stays a fantasy though. I hope you're the type of man that's similar to my fiancé though, because otherwise I would have to call you a boy haha! Men don't run away from their responsibilities. I want to think you're a man though due to your original post. You said an unplanned pregnancy would ruin your life at this time or the near future... which means you'd be taking on the tough responsibilities of helping to raise a child instead of bailing, otherwise your life would remain the same (unruined). In which case, props to you. Hope you can have a family when it's the right time and you're ready. In regards to your earlier question and reason for posting, you'd be surprised how many men fantasize about it. Potential (and future) family men and players alike. I've heard MANY men talk about it. At the grocery store the other day I watched a 9 month pregnant woman in tight clothing (although very adorable/tasteful) take a shopping cart to a worker (because he was rounding them up) and he smiled at her like he'd just stripped her down naked with his eyes. Then she turned to walk away and he checked her out from head to toe and silently smacked his lips with a hardcore look of longing. Made me giggle. :-P
5 3 0 0Yes it is a huge turn on. I used to think I had a weird fetish for it, but just realized that the instinctual desire to breed is normal & actually probably the most natural of all drives. The carnal urge to procreate & produce healthy offspring is built into our genetic wiring. I do get turned on by the thought of my husband taking control of my body through impregnation so easily, with just one moment of passion & his pleasure of satisfying release of seed into me. Knowing he has the power to make my body swell in certain areas due to pregnancy in order to accommodate his brood growing inside of me each day, closer & closer to full term is pretty hot. It might be uncomfortable & burdensome for me to bear his children. Even if it is a cumbersome, heavy laden, wifely fecund duty to conceive & produce the children he wishes to sire, that is the truest expression & sacrifice for love, to create something that is him & I together, and I know it is important to him to father children. Also it displays the greatest trust, that I allow him to put me in the vulnerale, risky position of altering my life by being knocked up, laboring & caring for our babies, but trusting he will be by my side the whole time committed to respecting, honoring, and loving me deeply, as well as providing & taking care of me & the babies I birth for him, as a result of his will to inseminate and spread his genes. Wow, okay now my womb feels like it's aching to be filled after writing that.
5 4 0 0Beautifully said.
Finally! Someone who was able to put my thoughts and feelings into words. Glad I'm not the only one out there who feels like this. -Michelle
Reading your response is incredibly stimulating both mentally and physically. Would make any man desire to fulfill what you describe so elegantly.
Yes it turns me on too. Like you said I would NOT want to get pregnant right now or in the next few years however I thought of getting pregnant does turn me on too.
First there's the coming inside me part, which I guess feels good for both parties. What turns me more on though is the thought of caring something inside me which kinda part of him and me.
Also I think women who are only slightly pregnant are incredibbly beautiful, but that's how far it goes, when it gets bigger I don't thinks it's attractive and must be a huge burden, but I guess worth the effort.
However I know what you mean.3 4 0 0i agree with you ~it's just the first 4 to 6 weeks that the woman's body is even more of a turn on... luckily science has given us the Pill to get rid of it at that stage... :)
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Yes, absolutely. Probably it has a lot to do with the male instinct to produce offspring. Making babies is built into the DNA, so to speak.
Actually, my girlfriend and I have been living together for 10 years and have three children together. The first two were unplanned pregnancies and once my girlfriend was pregnant it was like I went into sexual overdrive. I generally have a high sex drive but when my girlfriend was pregnant it was like I could not keep my hands off of her. Luckily, her sex drive went up and so it worked very nicely.
Still, there is just something about the thought of making my girlfriend pregnant - and once she was pregnant that feeling of having sex with a woman who was carrying my child drove me crazy. See her naked and pregnant made me horny as hell.
Like I say, I guess it is hormones and the instinct of the human male to make babies. Whatever it was - I am a lucky guy. Three beautiful kids and a girlfriend who rocks my world. It was scary when she got pregnant the first time - but now I would not have it any other way!!0 0 0 0Hahaha, yes, its crazy isn't it? The worst possible thing that could happen and the thought of it is a turn on! I think it is normal. We have had it before, and nearly died when she went to take a test afterwards!
7 2 0 0This is an absolutely huge turn on for me. Each time I’ve found out that I have gotten a girl pregnant, it’s such a huge rush.
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19 10Maybe it's not the pregnancy that turns you on just the ejaculating into a girl without protection? Which is pretty hot. And you could easily live this fantasy out with you have a girlfriend (and you're both STD free) if she went on the pill, or the implant etc.
1 2 0 0Well, okay, YES, I am turned on by ejaculating into a girl without protection, but the thought of her carrying all of my sperm swimming deep inside of her and then having her carry a baby from my seed, is what is turning me on lately (to be more specific). =]
Yup ^^^^
no ~if we knew she was on the Pill or whatever it would take away the element of horniness that comes with knowing she could get preg.. it is such a turn on... but then again so is anal... i suppose the best sex would be both ~start in the vag and then after a brief rest get hard again and in the other place... lol
yeah I totally understand where you're coming from, when I get really close to a guy and we're going at it, the thought of carrying his baby (baby boy pleases lol) really turns me on. and my boyfriend used to ask me whether or not I wanted him to wear a condom because he wanted the risk of me getting pregnant, of course I always told him to wear one! ha ha but I thought it was hot and kinda sweet that he wanted it that way.
2 2 0 1interesting to know you get extra turned on by the idea of getting preg. with a male child... wonder what's behind that ! lol
yes there is something very edgy about unprotected sex with someone you're really into that's s very hot. If it's a turn on for both it makes for crazy hot sex.
2 0 0 0The idea of accidentally getting pregnant turns me
www.trademarkia.com/.../superdry-85755268.jpg3 1 1 1Y’all are disgusting lmao
0 0 0 1it wouldn't really turn me on. but I would love the fact I could be pregnant. I am a 22 year old with a 12 month son he was planned and he is the best thing ever no mistakes and no regrets. I would do it all again. and my boyfriend still come in me and I could get pregnant but knowing I could get pregnant again is so exciting.
2 3 0 01) No, getting pregnant at this stage in my life is horrifying.
2) Yes, because I know he's clean and I'm on birth control. it's a turn on because I know he's satisfied and it's kinda animalistic as well, which is hot3 1 0 0It's not weird; it's what men are programmed to do. The reason men want to have so much sex is because they are programmed to father as many heathly children as possible. Our species wouldn't have survived if men didn't have this desire.
6 5 0 0Gettin pregnant to me is the absolutely the worst possible thing that could happen but then again the sex sounds very hott!
1 0 1 1Definitely. Just knowing a woman is fertile is super sexy! Being the man who she allows to ejaculate in her, fill her womb with seed and fertilize her one egg is both an extremely hot turn on as well as an intimate, amazing privilege.
2 1 0 0man, sometimes I think my girl wants me to come inside her to get her prego. I'll be doing her, and I'll tell her I'm cuming and have to pull out and she sometimes tells me to just come inside her, but if she's not on the pill, I pull the phuck out.
it does feel amazing when I come inside her though.2 2 0 0yeah when I was with my boyfriend whom I loved I would fantasize about having his baby mmm that would be so good, the idea anyway :)
1 3 0 0I believe that would be your whole 'reproduction instinct' kicking in.
5 1 0 0sometimes,
0 0 0 0Yes... it's a major turn on for me. My biggest turn on in fact
2 1 0 0Yes, very much so.
0 1 0 0It is a normal for a guy to be like that,its also normal for a male to like girls with large hips and large well boobs because its good for rasing a baby.
2 3 0 0that's the theory and i am sure it is valid... but then again most men i know love to have or ache to do anal as well as vaginal... i wonder what the biological imperative is to enjoy anal penetration of the F? :) just a thought !
It's a huge turnon for me and my boyfriend. We love eachother and are crazy about eachother, and have a lot of hot sex. At first we were just talking about the possibility that IF it should happend by a mistake it wouldn't be so bad, cause we want to have kids together at some point. But eveytime we talked about it, we just became super horny, and we even started to use baby talk as dirty talk😜 Now we are actually trying to have a baby, cause all the talking about it doesn't only make us horny, but also feel like we are ready for it, and that it would be nice to actually plan it and have a lovechild together. Neither of us has ever felt like this before. My boyfriend can't wait to see me pregnant and says we will be so proud and I'd be a milf, and even hotter as a mom. I know that he will love us and take care of us and that's so sexy for me, a responsible man, and thinking about what all that good sex did with my body..
3 2 0 0Well being 35 years old and a virgin, trust me there isn't a woman stupid enough to get near me, which holds true because I'm a virgin still and will leave this earth a virgin, so no I don't think about something that will never happen for me, I just don't appeal enough to women and I'm extremely shy and honestly can't picture myself being anybody's anything lol I leave all that kind of stuff to the rest of the guys and girls I stay in the background left alone and I like it that way
0 0 0 0The thought of getting a woman pregant is a big turn on when ejaculating inside her. The thought that, at the moment of most intense physical pleasure you can ever experience, you are also starting up a new potential life... awesome !
But tbh, actually doing so is an even bigger turn on.
I have done it three times now, with the partner agreeing to get an early Pill abortion.
I had to take them to the clinic and pay for the pills and so on ~but it was more than worth the cost. I know some won't like our choice but we wanted to experiment with how it would feel and it was just fantastic.
While they were pregnant for just a few weeks the sex was fantastic also, and very frequent ~ we both wanted it at least twice a day... It was also a bit of a turn on that I couldn't guarantee the women wouldn't change their minds and have the kid... Bit like playing roulette. It could have not worked out but it did.
by the way I don't approve of late abortion, like after three months ~but I can't get worked up about terminations in the first 4 to 6 weeks... It's just a blob of cells basically at that point.0 1 0 0- Show More (9)
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