What is the next step in a new relationship?

[Anonymous]

I've been seeing somebody for almost two months now. We haven't progressed very far from making out, light touching, and bedtime grinding. I want to initiate the next step. But I'm not sure what that would be. Lately, I've been fantasizing about giving him a handjob, but I'm not sure if that's the natural next step. Guys and girls, what are some helpful tips and techniques to giving a good handjob. And how should I go about initiating? Also, when he's ready to orgasm, where should I aim?

[Anonymous]

A handjob is the next step, although outside clothing is unfulfilling and can be abrasive.

If you want to take baby steps, and there is no reason not to, over his underwear is next. You can grip him through them and get good results. Give him something to do while you are doing this. I suggest a bare breast. The excitement if that will get him off in short order.

Yes, you can initiate. Unbutton and give him your breast first. The may think that's the end of the show. But while he is at your breast, unzip him and go to work. Let him come in his underwear. He may peek over the wasteband. If he does, cup your hand loosely over the tip and against his body when he comes so the shot in contained and doesn't get semen on the outside of his clothes or yours. Wipe it on his underwear (it will dry) or bring a face cloth with you to wipe up with.

Technique through underwear? Two fingers on the vein beneath and your thumb on top. Grip just tightly enough so his underwear strokes as a unit with his penis and doesn't rub against it. If you decide to dispense with outside of underwear, use the same hand technique. Discreetly spit into your hand for lune before you start. When he starts getting wet (precum) wipe it into your palm and use it as lube. When he comes, just position your other hand over, but not touching the end and let him shoot into it.

[Opinion Owner]

lune = lube

[unknown_artist]

okay, do whatever you want to do :) Trust me you won't fail :)

[dongesec]

yes a handjob would be the next step...

when you're making out just unzip his pants and reach in. he won't object to that :)

you want to have a firm grip, but not too firm. I've been told to use a grip similar to one you would use to hold a baby chick in your hand :P

i would suggest aiming straight up when he's about to orgasm

hope it works out for you :)

[dave216]

There are no "steps" you have to follow. You do what you want to do. 2 months? Why didn't you have sex a month or more ago? Don;t you enjoy sex? Don't you like him? If no to either of those, why are you wasting his time?

[TheScenario]

Handjob is the next step for sure. Firm grip, play with balls, steady stroke. Grab right below the head, not on it - too sensitive.

[Anonymous]

Over the pants HJ and let him blow in his pants.