How can I make my girlfriend un-sensitive down there after she achieves orgasm?

[umpirejoe]

Hello, My girlfriend and I love having sex with each other, but there is a small problem. I can make my girlfriend easily orgasm from oral and vaginal sex. She doesn't let me finish her off orally because she prefers to climax through sex. I love pleasing her, however, after I stop giving her oral and then we have sex, it isn't as long as I'd like. After she cums (is that OK to say?), she really prefers that I do soon after because she gets too sensitive. I prefer to have long sex sessions as the experience is more enjoyable for me than the result. I am somewhat typical, though, that I'm not overly interested in sex (or can't get it up again soon after) for a little while after I've finished, which is why I prefer the longer experience. Is there a way that I can have her not be so sensitive after she climaxes so that she'll want to keep going or even eventually get her to orgasm more than once?

[eithyy]

Not really. It's basically the same feeling YOU get after finishing. It's just too much to handle any sensation. Instead try doing less oral/fingering and spending more time on sex. If she's about to orgasm, stop moving for a moment or two until she's calmed down. Keep doing that until you're both ready to finish. Simple. As an upside, the orgasm should be more intense for both of you the longer it takes.

[rgtsc01]

I think I recall some stuff you can buy to de-sensitize a woman, like a gel of some kind. Can't say I've ever checked it out but I recall seeing something about it.

[Anonymous]

Go use her face or ass for a while until get less sensitive. Watch the ass to vag though.