Why do black guys only like thick girls?

[anonymous17]

First off I'm 5'3 about 126 and my butt is not flat but its not a 40 inch butt either. Its just a good butt for my size. Its not like guys don't like me at all but even when I ask them they say they like thick girls with big butts, so sometimes I think y do you like me. I had guys that like me say you need to eat cornbread (which by the way having a big butt is genetic) and that really hurts my feelings. It is like they can't accept me the way I am. Even my boyfriend makes fun of me a little and that hurts me the most because even though he has imperfections I still like them and don't make fun of him. mind you my butt isn't flat its just normal for a skinny black girl.

[DiamondKutt]

A lot of them do like extremely big butts. From my experience that is (I'm black). But then some don't care. Or some care more about boobs. However, I do think that being skinny is sometimes looked down upon in the black community. Most skinny black girls I know say they hate being skinny.

But be proud of yourself girl. Don't hold your held down just because you don't meet someone's standards. Skinny is beautiful too. :] Just tell him how you feel. Tell him that it hurts your feelings & he should stop. He might be joking around & not realizing that it's hurting you. If he respects you, he'll stop if you tell him to.

[DiamondKutt]

head*

[YobootyStank]

really?

where I live I've had black guys talk to me before and my butt isn't 40inches either. guys that only want a girl because of how big her butt is, are really shallow. maybe its because your black and black girls are quite know to be big on the bottom just like how asians are know for pin straight hair so its expected of you to have a huge bottom. my best friend who is black has the flattest butt I have ever seen and she goes through sh*t about her butt too

[anonymous17]

yea I figured all black guys just expect black girls to have a big butt when in reality there are a lot that dont.

[Butterfly_kisses09]

That's not true. I'm a petite girl, 5'5", 110 pounds, 34B boobs, and not a flat butt however like you said, not 40 inches either. Lol and my boyfriend is black. He loves my size. What you said is a BIG generalization. Not all black guys feel that way, I see black guys in my school with skinny girls ALL the time. It just depends on the guy:)

[anonymous17]

ok well maybe this has to do with me living in atlanta. Where it seems a whole bunch of black girls have big butts because they are a whole lot of strippers here. (home of the strip club you know) But many of these girls get illegal hydrogel shots that could kill them jus for a little ass.

[Butterfly_kisses09]

Oh I see. I live in Virginia. Well I think you should definitely tell your boyfriend that it hurts your feelings and if he doesn't straighten up, kick him to the curb and find a guy that loves EVERYTHING about you:)

[Married-in-PA]

All kinds of guys like thick girls, not just black guys. Take me for instance... I am a white, 38, and married with children.

My wife is a lovely size 14, with an ass to die for... I call her my "Whooty" or sometimes my PAWG.

In any case, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Find a man who love you for you, not for something he wants you to become.

And don't let anyone tell you that you should be a "certain" body type - there are all kinds, all shapes, sizes. I just happen to like babes with "sway in the bay", if you know what I mean...

You know, a little swing on the back porch.

[FrancoBattiato]

okay, first lets stop generalising about the black population, there are blacks that like skinny girls and blacks that like whales, and whites that (you get the picture?) If it hurts your feelings TELL your boyfriend to stfu or you'll beat the crap out of him. And if he doesn't stop, leave because he doesn't care for your feelings.

[peace-love-couture]

They don't...break up with him

[Kurosaki]

This is a stupid question.

[anonymous17]

so why did you click on it and take time out of your day to answer it

[Kurosaki]

It took all of 20-30 seconds.

[l-hedoniste]

Birds of a feather, flock together.

If you're in a room, and all the black guys there like thick butts, then you're in the wrong room. Find the room with the petite girls, and hit on the black guys there.

[Southern_Belle]

It isn't just black guys. Some guys, no matter what color they are, just happen to like big butts, while some just happen to like smaller butts. There is no need to generalize a group of people (although it does seem to be a trend on this site). Anyway, you should be with someone who likes you for you.

[tyt_2012]

It`s not just about black guys...some people just like meat on the bones

[G-Daz]

Urghh...Not true at all, that's a generalization. Move where I live and its more like 60:40 leaning more towards black guys liking skinnier girls. Stereotypically speaking which you hear vocalised more they do but that doesn't mean all guys don't have individual tastes. I personally LOVE girls with thick thighs and a big ass :P. I'm not black but I'm attracted to it, I guess your boyfreind may either be joking or he personally just has a general preference for thinner girls. I'm sorry to hear that but if he can't be happy with you than he is not worth it

[anonymous17]

where you live lol

[G-Daz]

England lol :Dl, don't assume our race determines our preference though. We are all individuals with different likes and dislikes.

[anonymous17]

I kno not 100% of black guys like thick guys and 100% of white guys like slim girls. but where I live all I hear is you need to eat cornbread. and I have actually heard that a lot of black guys in england like slimmer girls lol

[G-Daz]

:) yeah I don't get what this cornbread thing is though if I'm honest lol. Never seen the bread in my life, at least I think so. yeah a lot of black guys here do like very thin girls but still depends. iv seen variations

[anonymous17]

lol you never seen cornbread? and its not really bread it must be a southern thing though

[G-Daz]

Well I think iv seen it before but its by no means common at all, you eat a lot of cornbread?

[anonymous17]

lol no not really it doesn't really taste good. But anyway cornbread does not make your butt big its your genetic makeup that decides where people store fat

[G-Daz]

corn bread is supposively meant ot make your butt bigger! :0. I was wondering what it meant lol. well if it doesn't I guess that's just a thought. yeah your right though, a good ass is a good ass doesn't have to be big

[cutekid]

I like girls whether god damned thick or not..

[DanHendo]

I don't like thick girls. I am black, I just like a girl slim or toned.

[Anonymous]

racist much?

[anonymous17]

Its not racist. That's pretty much all I hear from black guys. You got to be thick with a big butt

[peace-love-couture]

Someone is wayy to sensitive to be on the net

[Anonymous]

Maybe because most black girls are thick with big butts. I saw one grazing at a buffet once that had a butt so big you could sit a dinner plate on top of it as she waddled along the trough.

[hALLDAY]

"grazing" ahahahha

[anonymous17]

I definitely don't want one that you can sit a dinner plate on. There is a point where it jus gets nasty and I wouldn't kno if guys like me for me or jus my ass lol