What does a girl think if a guy gets hard while dancing with her?

I realize that this can either be good or bad depending on the specific situation... but this typically happens to me in the following situation and I'm not sure what a girl thinks about it: You meet a girl out, and there clearly is an attraction between you, you are already into hand holding, heavy flirting, or perhaps have even made out already. But it hasn't got really dirty or anything. You head to the dance floor and start dancing very close - and probably some making out as well. You can definitely feel her body against your crotch, and she is letting your hands wander, but again, nothing massively sexual - no hands in pants or anything, and she is not heavily grinding against your crotch to obviously try and get you hard. At this point, I'm generally pretty hard and start getting quite uneasy as I know from how we are dancing that she must be able to feel it... and I tend to back away as much as I can to try cool off. What does a girl think about this? Does a guy being hard from making out and some close dancing turn you off?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Dude, if the girl is grinding on ypu, she is TRYING to get you hard! Most girls love the feeling - that's why they do it. They take it as a compliment. Should should enjoy it too. Having a girl grind on your boner is hot! After a a while- you miight get too excited and fell like your gonig to come in your pants- maybe this should be the time to cool off. Buy her a drink or something. But don't be embasrred by the boner- you should be proud. I reckon any girl will tell you they like it. I just wished I knew more girls to grind with me!

  • Ask her if her p**** is as wet as your d*** is hard. I bet it is.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Haha, if it is a guy I like and know, I am totally cool with it :) Its great, but if I don't know him very well it can be kind of awkward. But I mean it's hard to not be a little flattered, because he obviously is attracted to you and sometimes with dancing, rubbing bodies together just make an environment where a boner is totally possible. I wouldn't get mad unless he was a creeper :P In which case if he was a creeper, I wouldn't be dancing with him :P

  • I would say that the girl would be really MOTHERF***ING HOT.

  • Not at all, I would like it if that happened.

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  • It would definitely turn me on...

  • If That Happened, Id Take It As A Compliment.

  • its awkward for me

  • interesting