Are girls turned on by bi guys or not?

If yes why if no why not?


Most Helpful Girl

  • Honestly, not at all. That is not to say that I'm turned off. But to be completely honest, the sight of a guy doing something sexual with another guy would merely make me chuckle. There's just something about two grown men giving each other sexual attention that looks completely unnatural and almost humorous.

    I also know that I would never be able to date a bisexual guy. I just don't know how I could handle the fact that my boyfriend could potentially be attracted to every single human being he meets. I am not a jealous person, but the thought still frightens me. And not to draw stereotypes, but I've witnessed firsthand some situations in which the bisexual guy dating a girl 'hooked up' with other guys and felt it wasn't cheating because he was only doing stuff with the opposite gender. Plus, the uncertainty of whether or not he was actually into females as much as males would freak me out quite a bit.

    On the other hand, I do know many girls who love bisexual guys and think it's 'sexy' and whatnot.


What Girls Said 17

  • Oh totally! I love the bi guys. I'm into the more metro scene with my guy. the clean cut, cares about his presentation, etc. that seems to be more prevalent in bi guys than strictly straight ones. The testosterone hogs that plague this area are horrible wastes of space and while maybe they're educated and well-mannered elsewhere, the bi and metro guys are much more in line with what I want in a guy. Usually they don't have some need to prove themselves to the world, have an actual skill-set, are calmer and more sophisticated. They are happier and I've noticed that bi and gay guys (and lesbians) have had to fight against "traditional sexuality" and justify their identity to the masses of idiots that pester them. They can be the most centered and balanced people around, with their "accept me of eff-off attitudes," and their energy does wonders for me!

    • If your guy is "metro" I swear to you that it is all in your heads. a feminine guy can be born fem looking and not be into usual guy stuff. I am a bi guy. I was never into sports that much, but I am ex-military. I laugh at any guy that thinks that his sexual orientation makes him act differently. sex doesn't control your ENTIRE life. your preference can't make you look in the mirror. that's called being insecure and everyone is at least a little bit. I am pretty macho but I am bi...natural actin

  • For a relationship: makes no difference. I'm into strict monogramy - whether the guy is straight or bi has no real relevance to our relationship because either way we'll be exclusive.

    For just f***ing around: oh hell yes. Especially if he's willing to do a threesome.

  • I was when I was younger. Now I have come to the realization that when two guys make out they probably could care less about making out with me and I lost interest. I have a big fantasy about two guys at once but both focused on me not each other. Doesn't turn me on or off now.

  • I would think bi women are into bi men. I would think many straight women aren't.

    I only like men who are interested in women.

  • No. They seem to almost always be in some sort of transitional phase and afterwards they end up being totally gay. Which is fine, but doesn't do anything for me, as a girl.

  • I like bi guys. I'm turned on by seeing a guy do another guy. I think it's hot to be with a guy who enjoys giving bjs or eating pussies as much as I do.

    I know it's kinda kinky, but there it is.

    • Wow I'm a bi guy looking to get with a girl like yourself how do I approach or know if a girl is like that

  • NO.

  • I am extremely turned on by bi guys. There is just something about two guys doing sexual things to each other that's really hot to me.

    • How can I tell a girl will like seeing mecwith another guy without looking wierd

    • Wow... interesting to read such an outspoken answer!

    • @jaysonmar I think most bi girls are cool with bi guys making out (I'm bi, and most bi girls I know are like that... we know that you guys have to deal with a lot of stereotypes and BS). But if you didn't know if she's bi or straight, I think checking out if she's supportive of the LGBTQ community could work.

  • No not at all. turn off!

  • I am very UNattracted to bi guys, because I like my men to be men, and there is something feminine about liking other men. Not that I'd judge them as a person, I just wouldn't want to date them. (friends, I'd be fine with). Call me judgmental, but I also usually think that if a guy is bi, he really just likes men and doesn't want to fully take the plunge. perhaps it's not really that way though--in my experience with friends it's been a "transitional period". However I have heard of people who are truly bisexual. (certainly there are a lot of bisexual girls out there, lol). But in any regard, I'd also be concerned about him having affairs with men and bringing home diseases. while there are a ton of diseases in the straight community, gay sex is more high-risk due to certain exchanges, and you are more likely to catch an std that way.

  • It is really a turn on for me.

    I don't know why... really.

  • no not least I'm not.but then again I am the most superficial girl around so I only want the gorgeous with the smoking body - guys. stupid I know. but I can't help it. so as an awnser to your question.a definite NO

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  • Yes!

    Its such a turn on to see two hot guys all over each other!

    And if I can get with one of just makes the whole thing better tbh.

  • oh hell yeah

    i mean why are guys turned on by two girls

    i think there is nothing hotter then seeing two guy together

    and when I know I can get with one or both of them

    well that's just better

    it's just hot as hell

    there really isn't any explaining it

    • Where do I get a guy and a girl to get down with me see ur straight up ready for anything that's a big turn on for me

  • not to me because I think that the thought of a guy kissing another guy is just wrong but if you want to be bi than that all you dude I'm not here to judge


What Guys Said 4

  • A very, very small minority of women find it really really hot and would love to do a threesome with you and another guy. Most just view it as a threat and vector for disease. Most bi men I know don't tell people they are bi unless the partner brings it up in a positive light.

  • My girlfriend had me into a threesome with her an a shemale, I actually liked it, does it turn anyone on?

  • My ex and I fantasized about bringing a man and a tranny to the bedroom. We never did but would watch a lot of gay, MMF, and Tranny p*rn during sex. She was bi herself and I find bi woman more excepting to the idea of bi men. I'm very comfortable in my sexuality and if a woman doesn't like me for being bi, then that's her loss.

  • really stupid to say "he might be attracted to anyone he meets" that's a classic example of ignorance surrounding bi people. Just like you don't fuck any guy who gives you the time of day, bi people are just as discriminatory in their selection of partners... fuck you