Some men aren't somewhere in their lives where they're ready or open to a relationship, and just want to sow their wild oats, so to speak. Women who dress and act provocatively appear to want the same thing, so the guys who only want sex, go after girls who in their opinion seem more likely to fall for it.
If you want a piece of advice, don't look at it as some girls hogging all the men. Instead, look at it as some girls weeding out the men you're not interested in. I have a friend who's a smooth-talker who can charm the panties off most girls he talks to on town. Now, do I complain that he steals all the men, or shouldn't I rather think that if someone falls for his crap, they're not worth my attention?
Because those men are sluts themselves. Be thankful that the slutty girls are getting them out of your way and helping to keep them seperated from the guys you really want to know. It's not rocket science. You walk into a club for example: 90% of the girls and guys there can try to act all brand new all they want and can say what they want, but they are there to get laid or hook up, or stumple upon some situation that will eventually lead to that. they all find each other and the good girls go home and say: "The sluts get all the men". And the good guys go home and say: "The bad boy/man whores get all the girls".
one thing you got to understand is our d***s rule our heads 80% of the time, we don't really want sex, our d***s do, our hormones do, if we get sex offered to us on a plate, more aften than not we are gonna take it.
id much rather go for the cute lovely girl and I wish I didn't think about sex, t*ts, snogging.
all I want to do now is wank when I wish I could be excersizing because I'm quite chubby and want to lose my weight, tbh I wish there was a drug to stop me feeling horny and getting hard-ons just so I could focus on other things
The easy girls are easier to approach so even if the guy isn't just after sex he's more likely to go for a confident girl so he doesn't have to put in much effort. Aside from that though a lot of men are after only one thing so yeah, that's probably why the sluts get their attention.
Good girls win in the end though because men aren't going to want to marry a whore : /
im not a slut.. and well I don't have trouble getting guys, I think its all about the way a girl presents herself.. sluts get d***s not guys there's a difference, don't think that just because a guy f***s a girl he respects her, I don't know about you but I'd rather get respect and I usually do and I do this with out a d*** in my mouth ;)
i personally think that they get guys easier because the guys that they get just want to use them for sex. those girls are the ones that get STD's. the guys that they get usually aren't quality guys. don't be envious of them. because you could easily go out there & do the same thing that they do. But those men will think less of you & you will probably think less or yourself too.
I always ponder on this question myself. WHY do the slut's get all the guys? It's kind of a simple answer. It's an easy lay. Do you think if they were that desperate (And I'm not saying all guys are, because there not) for a quick sex session they would go for a girl who want's a relationship before they have sex? Or make them wait a few months? No. They want someone who they can 'woo' easily, to get into their knickers. They'll say some sh*t like 'Your my number 1 girl' or 'Your so beautiful babe' They'll be all nice to the girl at first, they after they've shagged, they'll stop talking to them, stop meeting them and overall have nothing to do with them. Girls who'd rather wait and have sex, rather than sleep around, will generally have more respect and less of a bad reputation for doing these deeds. And when it come's down to it - will a guy want to be with the girl who doesn't sleep around, or the girl who is KNOWN for sleeping around. I think the answer is obvious. I hope this helped. :)
Because unfortunately thats how mucked up society is, lack of self respect and people only wanting one thing. I do remember when I was young a few years back... I used to be the girl who wore jogging bottoms with crop tops/vests (not saying that is bad) but pushing my boobs up in my bra so they'd appear bigger, sticking my bum out in pictures and wearing tight thongs which to me was 'so cool' but unfortunately that didn't end up getting me anywhere. I hung out with the girls who were popular & slutty/beautiful which they were obviously aware of that (which I figured out in a few years) who got all the male attention, unfortunately they don't see that most of those guys only want them for one thing and see themselves as beautiful for it, it really didn't pay me off when I took advantage of this, most of the girls I know now that popped their boobs/bum out are now not s successful as the classy girls with self respect that I used to see as 'boring' but I really wish I was that way now, it didn't help me out, and so it will be for most of these girls and it will not pay off, they don't notice that. You want a guy who treats you with respect, not as a whore.
(Self experience and knowledge of people I knew). (Don't do it for attention girls, its not a good form of attention (sorry to disappoint you).
I think that the sluts are the girls that guys want for a one night stand.. kinda like it's just a f*** for the guy and it wouldn't be the girl they take home to meet mom. I have a lot of guy friends that tell me this. One of my friends said that girls in p*rn are hot but only in a sexual way not for a serious relationship. Unless the guy is a man whore than he might want a relationship with the slut.
Yes Most of them do and because they are just not through playing around and nowadays there are so many easy girls around that a lot don't care to work for it if they don't have too. Nice girls usually win last when the guys are more older and maturer but most now at our age just want to have fun. That's it. They don't respect girls also and Society is so crazy is a big part of why these guys are so horny and want Ms. Right Now instead of Mrs. Right.