Can't stay wet during sex , so he thinks I'm not into it..Why ?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend for 3 months now we just got into a heated fight because he thinks I'm not attracted to him or not into the sex because I get all dried up after like the 4th time we had sex in a day.. Like isn't it true that a girl can't go all day long staying wet ? It's like I'm not like most girls that stay wet through out the whole day. I wanna use lube but he thinks that I should be naturally wet and not have to have him go down on me or use any lube. I love him and want to have sex with him more than anything but I do need help sometimes with keeping it wet because it hurts after a while if I dry up.

[l-hedoniste]

"I wanna use lube but he thinks that I should be naturally wet and not have to have him go down on me or use any lube."

This is the most idiotic thing I've ever heard, just really damn dumb. You do NOT have to have sex dry just because you're boyfriend's an idiot.

Get the lube, use the lube. Make it non-negotiable: "I get dry. It makes sex hurt. I don't like painful sex. So either I use lube or I don't have sex. With you. Ever."

[lananoel]

Ahhh! love it totally agree

[Anonymous]

I agree with the comment by "toulouse". He sounds like an idiot. It's not your fault if you dry up, if you're having sex that often he should be happy. Can't stay wet all day, doubt there's even enough fluid there ahah.

[NicoletteBonbon]

It's normal that after some time (a while) you stop lubricating (getting wet). You have to either wait a bit to get wet again (use foreplay techniques to achieve it faster) or use some lubrication if you want to keep going (I suggest this better, plus the feeling of the lubricant might get you wet naturally). It happens to me also and to most women.

[toulouse]

Hes being an Asshole. Tell him to get a clue be practical / rational & stop solving issues with his ego -& or the other thing that isn't his intellect.