When you're at the movies with your boyfriend or girlfriend do you find it awkward when it's a sex scene?

i was recently at the movies with my boyfriend when the girl in the movie started undressing.. my boyfriend turned to me and said "this is kind awkward I'm not going to watch" and so he watched me until it was over. I was wondering if its like this for you? or has someone said that to you?
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  • My boyfriend and I walked into an X-rated movie, and initially I thought it would just be showing some boobs or and some normal humping. But what turned out was much more explicit. There were frequent and very hot sex scenes (boobs only, still), a lot of nudity, but the whole movie was still much more than porn, having a major storyline and all.
    It was torture sitting there next to him and watch it going on, I even tried looking away from the woman's boobs and focusing on some other areas on the screen. It's not like I haven't seen porn before, but it was way too awkward for me.
    I kind of wished I never suggested to go watch that movie, knowing it is X-rated.
    Part of me was worrying about what he'd think of me, whether he'd thought I am the kind of person who is ok with watching that/ ok with him seeing that. Deep down I think I'm just not ready to experience this with him together. I was really too anxious and worked up to be aroused. They would make pretty hot sex scenes if I were to watch it on my own, but with him beside me I just wanted it to be over.
    After the movie we just avoided talking about it, and focused on other parts of the movie. I wished I hadn't watched it with him.

    • It's the same for me when we are watching a show. I get very uncomfortable. It seems to ruin the entire movie for me.

  • hehehehe this question made me giggled :). If its with my boyfriend I would be so turned on, specially if it was one of those cliche sex scenes lol I would probably would love to go back home and do the same thing :D. If it was with another guy who I was dating, like getting to know, it would be pretty awkward, specially if he feels awkward as well.

  • my boyfriend done that to me one time we were at his house watching the movie and he said he was doing it because he thought I might have gotten mad if he watched it.. I told him I didn't care that it didn't bother me and we both just sat there and watched the scene. I think it just depends on how comfortable two people are in a relationship...

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  • BAHAHAHAHA. Oh man I just have to reply to this. Just about a month ago I watched "Black Swan" with my girlfriend, and the trailer looked pretty good so she suggested we go watch it. During the movie there were times when...it got pretty...well awkward...it first started out with some guy telling the girl to go touch herself at night then there was this one scene where 2 girls were making out and one of them was well uhh...eating the other one out...

    When the scenes came around I felt so awkward and I just had to advert my eyes to the side, I didn't want to look at her because I thought that would be even worse, trying to not watch some really sexual scene and look at my girlfriend. In the end I checked on her really quick during the scenes and we were both kinda looking towards our opposite sides so I just didn't bother watching them. Probably the most awkward moment with my girlfriend, I hope I don't watch another movie like that again with her.

    • yeaa... that's the movie.. lol I really didn't think it would turn oout to be like it was

  • When he watch you did you watch him, or the movie? It could be an awkward situation. Normally if a girl watches a movie like that with me at the movie theatre we either watch the scene in silence or sometimes crack jokes about it. It's always interesting to look around the theatre to see if anybody else is watching the scene.

    • yes I watched him lol

    • Lol :)

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  • No, I don't personally find it awkward.

    Your boyfriend may have found it awkward because he might not have much experience watching "racy" stuff with someone of the opposite sex (or particularly someone he likes), and/or he may have worried that you'd get jealous, insecure, or mad about him watching it.

  • I don't think there is anything awkward about it but my boyfriend and I also watch p*rn together sometimes. But you are also underage so he may still feel uncomftorable with it which is fine.

  • no never happens to us we normally have some kind off sex as well

  • Being a person, with severe insecurity issues, we go through this all the time. He claims that he doesn't like movies for the sex, and nudity scenes but for the actual story. I have always felt that sex should be seen as an intimate thing between two people and the media exploits it all the time. It makes me feel weird, like a slight hint of cheating, I don't have any sexual contact with him after watching them because I am completely turned off by him. Maybe a 30-40 mins after the movie, maybe but it varies.

    • i feel the same way, i get super annoyed and turned off during these movies and i feel like it turns him on which pisses me off because i feel like he's getting turned on by someone else.. we were watching a movie the other day and this girl was in the shower touching herself and he turned and looked at me and i was just like what? and he said nothing but i knew exactly what he was thinking... and he knew i was annoyed. same thing we watched dirty grandpa the other night and there was a lot of sluttier girls in that movie and it pissed me off cause he was laughing and kept slamming my ass and saying babe.. and i was so annoying and didn't want him touching me or even watching the movie anymore

    • Same!!