I actually went through the same thing with my boyfriend. When we were first friends he told me and I said that's cool and stuff. After we started really having feelings for each other I was really nervous about it I don't like feet either! Not mine or anyone Else's so it seemed weird to let someone touch them or kiss them or do anything sexual with them! I also felt like that was another part of my body I'm always gonna have to worried about. Like is it good enough! Now we have been together two years and I don't know what I was so worried about I get great foot massages not in a sexual way just a nice relaxing way. Sexually I found it to be a turn on and a fun new thing to try. We didn't do it off the bat but he was nice and let me build up to everything it did take some time getting use to it. Also That isn't the only part of my body he likes I think that if he constantly thought about my feet more than me it might have turned out a bit different. So he isn't a obsessed p*rn freak about it. If I were you I would just talk to the guy about it and maybe say you'll need time to get comfortable with it if you think you can.
thanks so much this was really helpful! I was hoping someone would say it turned out to be a turn on or something like that because I've never had anything like that done to me, so maybe ill like it :)
i had never done anything like that either or even thought about it but found out it was pretty fun lol glad I could help :)
If there's something you don't like him doing you should tell him because if you don't then he may continue to do it without even thinking there was a problem to begin with. But remember that, like you, he's his own person with his own likes and interests. I know it sounds like a ridiculous topic to talk about but if your literally terrified of him doing it then something needs to be done.
haha yeah I know, it is ridiculous, they are just feet after all, but we are just on opposite ends of the spectrum of it, so, just not something I'm used to. thanks though :)
Why do you hate feet? Feet have less bacteria then the mouth (unless you just brushed your teeth), the hands (think about all the stuff you touch with them). I mean come on. As long as his foot fetish isn't out of control it shouldn't be a problem. I like feet too ... then again there isn't a part of the womans body that I don't like.
i dunno, I just have always found them gross. you do make a really good point though that I have never thought of before (the hands dirtier thing) thanks for your advice :)
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