Talking to one guy and sleeping with another: Girls why do you do this?

[Anonymous]

So I have talked to so many girls and come to find out they are talking to another guy, or she has even slept with another guy while talking to me. What has gotten into your dman minds that you will ever find a good guy if you do this. I think women are incapable of finding someone good, all they know is how to find all the pricks and jerks out there. im a nice guy and I can connect to almost any girl. but there have been countless girls I have talked to that seem to be interested in me. we swap numbers and start texting and talking on the phone. we plan on hangingout then they stop talking to me for like a week. I assume that its because girls are busy and they don't make males a priority in their life. but turns out she's banging some jerk that doesn't give a rats ass about her. women why do you feel that's OK to do? why is it OK for your sluty selves to screw some guy and talking to a few others. yall sure ass hell cry wolf all the time, blaming guys for all your problems when infact your incompitent ass cannot look past your own two feet and see oh! I am the root of all this, better blame this guy I'm talking to or my boyfriend or my husband. and if it doesn't work out oh well I can keep banging this guy because he really cares about me- yet in reality he doesn't have a sh*t and just is using you. why can't you look past all that and open your eyes. take off the rose colored glasses and see sh*t for what it is. see that the guy who is all over you just wants your body not you for who you are. yet while the nicer guy takes a less intrucive approach and gets to know you before moving closer. but women choose the more agressive one, the one who just wants to screw them whenever possible. its sickening to think that women even have hearts. heartless b*tch, and when things go wrong you blame the guy when it was your fault for making a poor choice. its sad to think that women are better at relationships than men. women why do you flaunt your body around a guy just to entice a guy to talk to you or give you attention. you use your body to get further in careers and in life, and to me it looks so trashy, it attracts the wrong kind of guy. you get the hormone crazed men and sick pervs after you when the catch you really want doesn't like what he sees. basically I'm so fed up with talking to a girl to just find out she hasn't talked to me in a few days because yes she was busy... screwing some pig down the street. oh how wonderful it must be to see how fast he gets dressed and leaves while your loose self is still laying on your backing feeling empty and wishing you had the good guy instead of someone who can't give a damn. I wish that type of female got what's she deserved for treating all the good guys like sh*t and making a royal throne for all the pigs to rest on. Quite pathetic indeed!

[Belgie]

You are basically acting like a "friend" in the hopes that the girls will choose you and sleep with you. But they don't. And they won't.

Girls are attracted to strong confident men. And you know the jerks and assholes? They at least can appear strong and confident.

You, it seems, appear weak and needy. And you're holding a lot of anger because women have rejected your friendly advances because you don't excite them. Very immature.

Get your own life in order first. Get some confidence. And learn how be a cocky self-assured guy, who ISN'T a jerk or an asshole. And you'll find the women will love you for it.

But don't start off trying to be Mr. Nice and their best friend. They have girl friends for that sort of emotional support.

And do something about your rage issues. It's not healthy, and you're heading down the path of hating all women... you know, the path that serial nutters have all walked before.

[Asker]

funny how you think you know me, id laugh in your face because your ignorance is so incredibly apparent. who doesn't like a good rant? you know let off some steam, you act like I am being f***n serious about this. I honestly don't give a sh*t what your opinion is, until you are a psychologist and can tell me who I am, which you are not. then really your answer is nothing that a fraudulent case against me by some mock therapist with a lowsy office. dude you NEED a life

[defiantdragonfly]

you were the one asking, why are you so angry at the responses you are getting? Most people asking questions on here aren't just "ranting" to blow off steam because "some slut" irritated them beyond belief. You want to attract women, be a man, you want to attract girls, keep acting like a little boy

[Asker]

girls are a nice appetizer for a women, if you differentiate a women from a girl by maturity then your wrong, I attract women, if you do it by core values then it seems these sluts are all little girls that don't know what they want

[Jaguarman33]

The worst person to get advice of what a woman wants is the woman themselves. Sure she will give you the basics ice cream or yogurt, paper or plastic, pizza or salad but the intimate details of her life she will never tell. She will give you the "company line" every time. The problem with the " friend" is when the guy believes her and gives his all to her words she is forced to think "this guy does not understand me" The man who has sex with the girl and "uses her" which I doubt very seriously this accurately describes his original intentions he temporarily taps into a part of her soul she does not reveal to men or boys. When this girl goes off as you say and has sex for a week, and ignores you. She is doing this because it is part of her wanting to become a complete woman, and you are not making this happen being a friend You think you can slide down easy street by being a friend but to be honest it takes taking chances, getting it wrong and trying again email me Jaguarman27@gmail. com

[makesumwake]

you seem to be asking - why do girls like bad boys?

simple.

its more fun and exciting.

lots of girls like to just get laid, just like most guys. while you are talking about feelings and emotions, the girl is wishing she was getting f*cked.

girls like no strings attached sex. maybe she just wants to get laid, without having to deal with a relationship she might not want. she sees that you are a relationship kind of guy, and that if you had sex with her, you would want her to be your girlfriend. maybe she doesn't want that.

girls SAY they want a nice guy, they want a relationship, they arnt "like that", blah blah blah.

they are lying. they are trying to not look like a slut. stop listening to what girls and and start paying attention to what they do.

[Asker]

yeah and when I act like that, like all I want is sex then they girl doesn't want it, its like a chess match and its so stupid.

[makesumwake]

the assholes arnt just acting like they want sex. they first establish themselves as someone the girl wants to be with, then they just push for sex. you got to first be the kind of guy the girl wants to be with, or nothing will work!

[caligirlswagg1001]

Its different for each girl & sometimes you meet a guy that's sweet but then you meet a guy who's sweet yet he's a bad boy & when a guy is a jerk girls want them more cause it feels good knowing that there unpredictable & it makes everything a thrill

[toosexualcat]

I'm not sure why you keep dating the girls you're dating... Maybe try dating women. Maybe then you'll stop hating our gender for stuff stupid girls do...

And maybe you like the slutty type...that's not our fault...

[Asker]

its quite apparent that I dislike sluts very much. I'm not a hypocrit so your last statement makes no sense. don't know she's a slut till she pulls a move like this

[toosexualcat]

Sure you do... sluts give themselves away all the time. Maybe you're just not paying attention. Still, you haven't solved the major problem. STOP DATING GIRLS. Start dating women. Then you won't have to worry about this bs.

[alex_the_fox]

I'd never do it. Well, is said pretty common but if you cheat on a guy you are "inlove" with this is the same like you cheat on yourselves.

[Elcristoph]

It's becouse your s nice guy wich makes you weak, boring, and forgetable so you don't turn her on and she doesn't want to be with you. It's that simple. I know you don't want to hear this but you need to.. I'm what you would describe as a good guy, in that I have my morals but I'm not a wimp and I know how to have fun. I don't put up with womens crap and I'm not afraid to break up with her if she's to much agro, crazy. Bad boys atract women becouse women feel the need to change them. But nice guys are just wimps who don't offer sexual escalation. You need to "grow a pair" and know what you want.

[Asker]

mhmm see it wasn't focused on me at all and yet you try and troll on me. dude I have a f***n pair and I have had so many girlfriends, this just seems like a common trend. been laid so many times and countless girlfriends but I didn't need to say that in my question. this wasn't focused on me it was focused on women, how about you read more carefully numb nuts

[lefthand]

Wow.

You're not a nice guy,

You're a bastard.

How many women have you raped "because they deserve it"?

Get help.

[Rated_R]

You do make a good point in some ways. Are there any good women left ? I will rate this 5 stars.

[toosexualcat]

There are a TON of good women. There are also a ton of misbehaving brat girls. Unfortunately, you guys tend to like girls more... I have no idea why... BUT eventually you grow up or something and start dating women.

[Rated_R]

women at my age and even older are straight up bitches that don't know what they want and waste others time and feelings. So I could see if these girls were young but they are not. You complain no good men well there are no good women maybe 1 in a billion.

[BoobMan]

Why do you think that just because you're TALKING to a girl she can't have any other life outside you? You DO realize that a girl talking to you isn't the same thing as a girl being in an EXCLUSIVE RELATIONSHIP with you, right?

Alright, I'm off to ask the barista for a coffee. I hope she doesn't think she has the right to bang her boyfriend or her date tonight after TALKNG to ME!

[Julezzz]

worddddd. .. I wonder the same things.

but you know... there are also good girls out there :)

[Asker]

yes, a few but I have met some

[Anonymous]

keep it real:)

[Anonymous]

not classy.