Girls: Would you date a 21 year old virgin?

[Anonymous]

I'll be turning 21 this month and I'm still a virgin. It's not that I can't get girls, it's just that I'm really picky when it comes to dating or even going out with someone. If I don't like her a lot I probably won't even go out with her, even if I know she likes me. I was always busy with school, and in fact, I'm graduating Vet school this year and I barely have any free time. I was wondering, if I do end up dating someone, would being a virgin be an issue? Would you date a 21 year old virgin?

[Hyped_up_on_coffee]

Im sorry I don't think I would, but its because I'm 18 and the only reason I date older guys is because they are more experienced. Its not the type of relationship I need at this point in my life because in my mind I need a boyfriend that will have sex with me eventually. But I know some girls love virgins because they think its sweet, so don't worry too much about it.

[caramelsugar]

I don't have a problem dating a virgin, but if the guy wants to have sex pretty soon, that would kind of me a turn off for me. I have no problem with having sex when I'm in a relationship, but I wouldn't want a virgin to have sex with me right away just so that he's not a virgin anymore.

[eithyy]

Sure. I don't see a problem with being a virgin at 21. Hell, two years from now I'll probably be in the same position. It shouldn't be a big deal.

[tokioangel95]

I would date you

[earliea]

deffinately! it doesn't matter I'm 21 and still a virgin too, there is no rush just waiting for the perfect guy...prince charming to come my way. :-)

[alex_the_fox]

Sure I would. Why not. This is ways better than you change your girls like they're hand napkins. And it's cute in some way. ^^

[Thelotuslily]

I would, it doesn't matter if you are, well not to me.its a good thing in away cause that means STDs :)

[Anonymous]

Yes. I think it's very respectable for people to wait that long to have sex. A girl worthy of your time would never make you feel bad about that. I am a 22 year old virgin and I've been lucky enough to find guys that are okay with that. If any girl thinks it's a turnoff, she's probably not the right one for you. But I think most girls would find your virginity attractive more often than not because it speaks volumes about your character.

[Anonymous]

I'm 22 and currently dating a 23 year old virgin.

I find it very romantic that he waited to be with someone he actually liked, not just any drunk girl at a party and he's chosen me : )

If she has hang ups about something as minor as virginity, they're probably not the kind of person you'd want to be with.

Good luck!

[Anonymous]

I would, because I am also saving it for somebody I know I am serious about, I'd like to wait till I'm married if anything. I would prefer that he has at least made out before though like I have, one time I was a guy's first kiss and I had already made out with other guys and it felt really awkward knowing that I was his first. (I guess the fact that it bothered me showed that I wasn't really that into him, but still)

[Anonymous]

I would definitely date a 21 year old virgin. This is not a turn off at all, but actually I would like it, because I am a 22 year old virgin, and I just got my first kiss a couple months ago. I would like dating someone like that, because we could be each others firsts.