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Guys disrespecting girls with big boobs?

I know that girls with large chests get a lot of extra (often unwanted) attention, and that some girls get implants because they just want to be this way that badly, even though it is no picnic. Now I am kind of asking the reverse question, and I hope it doesn't sound stupid-do you think a girl with a large chest automatically gets less respect from guys? Guys, if you meet a girl who has big boobs, will you automatically think of her in a more sexual way than you would a girl with normal sized ones? What about a girl with normal sized ones who is dressed slutty compared to a girl with big boobs who dresses modestly? Some girls with large chests complain that guys give them the wrong kind of attention, even when they are dressed modestly and not asking for it. Is this true? I know they (boobs) get distracting, but we have personalities too, not to mention that large boobs on a thin body make finding clothing very difficult at times.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • I have large boobs, and guys will stare, But I have come to just except that this is how things will be with men who are just 'looking' I don't have to give them the time of day, and I don't dress 'slutty' either...I have ocassionally picked up a top and brought it without trying it on, and then when I go to wear it, I suddenly realize I look like a photo finish in a led zeplin race...lol

    But I actually embrace the fact I have big boobs, for these reasons

    A) I didn't have to pay

    B) I didn't have to pay

    c)I didn't have to pay...

    Wait, did I mention that I didn't have to pay?...

    On a more serious note, I wouldn't say that because I have big boobs, I get 'unwanted' attention, OR that I get more dates then any other.

    I have a very natual attitude to my large boobs, and that is this. Men are supposed to like boobs as a sexual organ, and if they are looking its because that's how they are..JUST like if I were to see a massive **** out in the open..i'm hardly (no pun intended) going to walk away with out looking...come on...embrace your sexual organs. Why does sex always have to be discussed like its a 'bad' thing or its 'disgusting'

  • I have DDs and guys treat me with respect. Why? Because I don't allow disrespect. I respect myself, I respect others, and I will not put up with a guy disrespecting me. It's how you respond to it. I love my body and I would never let some idiot make me feel bad for being the way I was made. Body type doesn't have a whole lot to do with it because I've seen skinny girls, big booty girls, flat chested girls, fat girls, etc. all be disrespected by guys if they carry themselves in a way that shows they tolerate it. I don't dress slutty unless I'm at the club with my friends. Most of the time I dress normally. I know that guys are gonna look but they better not make any comments because I have a slick mouth and I will correct him if I have to. I'm not super thin though, I'm shaped more like a video girl. Yeah they think about you in a sexual way but who cares? He can think all he wants it doesn't mean it's gonna happen.

  • I am a DDD and a size 9! I have gotten a lot of attention all my life because of this. People usually call be my name and say "Oh you know Tina with the big boobs?" My name is always followed with that phrase. For many years I was very self concious because of that. Although at 24 I now embrace the attention. There is nothing I can change about my size and smaller frame. It's just how I was built. I do think that guys fantasize sleeping with me a lot and a lot of the times I feel that a lot of them are disappointed when they find out that I am not a complete slut in bed. So that does suck.

    • my name is also followed by that phrase lol...thats how pepl at skool identify me..even b4 they kno my actually name...but my boobs aren't even really tht big...only compaired to my body, its jus because I'm skinny and I've gottem nd I'm 15 almost 16..so the immature teenagers are a big factor too...its OK tho, I kinda like the attention sumtimes

Most Helpful Guys

  • So I absolutely LOVE big boobs on a thing body. And if you're having a tough time finding clothes, you're going to the wrong stores. There are plenty that cater to that body type. Also, you shouldn't feel that you need to dress to "hide" it because you have a beautiful body.

    Now in terms of getting, less respect, I don't think that's true at all. If I'm sexually attracted to a thin and busty girl, I'm going to pay attention to EVERYTHING about her. What she says, how smart she is, what her personality is like. So actually, I often end up having more respect for a big boobed girl, but only because I've spent more time listening to her and relating to what she's saying. Attraction does NOT equal disrespect! If it does, then the guy who's disrespecting you is an immature douche! That goes for any guy who disrespects you regardless of how you look! A mature, classy guy treats everyone with respect, especially women and ESPECIALLY a girl he's attracted to! This isn't the 3rd grade. . .

  • > do you think a girl with a large chest automatically gets less respect from guys?

    No.

    > Guys, if you meet a girl who has big boobs, will you automatically think of her in a more sexual way than you would a girl with normal sized ones?

    No. Pretty much any size of boobs are inspiring if I'm objectifying. I don't correlate boob size with sexiness or any personality trait or the level of any skill that someone has. In a non sexual context when I am dealing with a woman I don't notice her breasts.

    >What about a girl with normal sized ones who is dressed slutty compared to a girl with big boobs who dresses modestly?

    Both may look sexy. Neither look would be relevant if the context wasn't sexual.

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  • Honestly, some guys just can't help it. They're probably not doing it intentionally but the fact that you have bigger boobs than other girls is kind of a turn on and they'll always look at you more sexually. That doesn't mean that they think you're a slut, it just means that they like your boobs.

    • i guess it's also a maturity thing. as I get older I find that guys don't talk to my chest as much and will wait until they know me better to mention that they like my chest. when I and the guys were younger, they were worse about it. as guys get older I find that they want to know more than just the boobs and merely look at them as a bonus, because they want a relationship and not just sex.

  • There are not enough thin girls with big t*ts on this planet. I can only pray that I find one before they become extinct. God I promise as soon as you send her my way I will propose to her and not f*** it up. Cheers God.

  • May sound weird, but I very rarely think of girls sexually straight away I prefer looking for relationships, I never care to much about breast size, I'd go for anyone who I got along with and thought they were cute

  • There's two ways I will see a woman with big boobs as something more than just sexual. One, is if a hot woman is wearing something classy and sophisticated looking and doesn't show her cleavage. And she better not have a lot of makeup on. The second is that she should be cute.

    I would pick a woman with big boobs who dresses modestly over the slutty women with smaller boobs.

  • I'm a 34DDD and I often got unwanted attention becasue of my size , I do dress more conservativily which helps a little but some guys strae even if I'm just wearing a t-shirt...and I agree with you about the clothes sometimes its hard to find tops that fit my boobs lol

  • I have the same question. I have big boobs and ahve been recognized for it disrespectfully. I don't like having big boobs and am actually occasionally self concious about them. Since I am still in high school I believe that some guys just want to talk to me and/or flirt with me cause I have large boobs. Guy input please?

    • High school? Yep, your big boobs are a pretty big factor (haha). Seriously though, that's how many men function. They see big boobs, they think sex. Don't worry, not all men are like this.

    • Haha, thanks. One of my guys friends who everyone thinks is perverted claims that he is "honest" and that all guys think the same way as him but he's the only one who actually says what he thinks. I can only hope that this is false for some men.

  • well.. yeah.

  • You are right. Some men disrespect women with bigger boobs because they associate boobs with sex, & they think of women with big breast as a sexual object. I know this because I am naturally big breasted, & was always picked on by men because of my big breast. They would try to throw things down my shirt, touch them, & make unappropriate comments to me. It's not better to have bigger boobs, women who get implants are so stupid, no offfense.

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