Hymen breaking?

is there any way I can break my own hymen? I'm still a virgin, and I don't want to bleed or anything the first time having sex. can anyone help?

Updates:
I was a gymnast for nine years and I use tampons. do you think it's already broken? I can't really tell.i know that sounds so stupid!

Most Helpful Girl

  • It can happen when you use tampons (during your period) or if you use a vibrator (the kind that you stick up into you).

    • It's not stupid. Most girls these days don't bleed their first time. You should be fine.