How do I feel sexy with small breasts?

My main hang up about my body is my small breasts. I'm an A-cup and it's really hard for me to feel desireable. What are some ways to help me feel better about my body?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • A lot of men PREFER small breasts to large ones.

    Trust me - I have been on the internet long enough, and have enough guy friends to know. I always notice these comments because mine are big and I get super insecure when everyone starts going on about how "big breasts have stretch marks" and "big breasts sag" and "they only look good until the girl is like 25."

    Your breasts will stay perky and beautiful way longer than mine will.

    PLUS, most clothing - especially high fashion - is made for a B cup or lower. Big breasts make me look 1-2 sizes bigger than I am if I don't wear tight clothing, as everythign just falls off them. You have the freedom to wear tubetops, spaghetti straps, low-backed shirts/dresses, halter tops, etc, as you don't need a heavy-duty bra with everything. Your bras will be cheaper and easier to find and you can buy them based on how pretty they are, rather than how supportive they are. You can wear low-cut tops without looking like a slut!

    There are tons of benefits to small breasts.

    I try to love my body, but I seriously envy the clothing options my smaller-breasted friends can wear.

    • VERY well said! "You can wear low-cut tops without looking like a slut!" SO TRUE!!! You could put the same dress on a women with an A or B cup and one with a C or D cup ~ it's totally SEXY vs slutty...

  • wear things that flatter the other parts of your body. wear skinny jeans to show your figure. let your hair down. Smile more. Smiling actually helpy you feel happier. Associate yourself with more positive people that won't talk badly about you to make you feel insecure. Mean girls are the worst friends to have. You, although its not necessary, can also wear a little makeup. Also, work on having an approachable personality that guys will find themselves attracted to. ...btw v-neck t shirts will look good on any female...big boobs or not.and to make your boobs look bigger, you can wear padded bras or chicken cutlets. However, guys usually like a girl who doesn't hide behind these enhancements in order to look good. So just be yourself and love yourself. Ignore all negativity in your life.

  • Here is one good reason of why your small breasts should make you extrimly happy.1. I have a double d size and they are wayyyyyy to heavy, I can't sleep on me back as they hurt and disturb my breathing they are heavy on me chest not to mention how the bra cuts through my shoulders like hot knife through butter...i gave you more than one reason on how you should celebrate your small breasts.and besides that, girls with small breasts have a lot of nice sexy cool tops, we have to make something made for you guys to fit us and it ends up looking like I'm wearing a tent or my little sisters top.Hope all this try to help your situation.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Make sure EVERYTHING else is VERY VERY feminine about you. Keep your skin soft, smooth and glowing. Have a vey sexy hair style that takes the attention away from your chest. Also, take extra care of your hands and feet. If you have a nice belly, show a little bit of it; show the belly button if it makes sense in what you are wearing.

    • I agree with what the previous poster said. But, I have to be honest, I think smaller breasts are far hotter than ridiculously huge breasts. Put on that beautiful smile and you will find a guy like me or better yet, this you're gorgeous just the way you are!

  • Its not about breast size its about posture and body composition. For instance ballet dancers often are small breasted but still attractive. If you work on building your upper body strength it should help tremendously with posture. Try going to a gym and building some muscle.

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  • Learn to love your body before going out and have sex. If you don't like your body how are you going to be naked in front of the guys. No one like to have sex in the dark. You want to see what you are doing. Guys love all type of body and shape. Trust me not all guys care if your breasts are too small ok.

  • Find a guy that can see past that. Tits aren't everything even though most guys act like it. Don't worry about it too much. You can be very desirable as you are. Just need to find the right guy who loves you for more than that.

  • I will honestly say that if your ass is nice I will not care one bit.

  • Most people with larger boobs want smaller boobs and vice versa. We have to work with what we got. Don't feel as if its making you less desirable because most guys (mature ones) wouldn't mind things about that. There are many other things men find very sexy about women, especially confidence. Don't be so hard on yourself !

  • Breasts are just one feature of many, personally I don't care much for breasts (unless they are freakishly huge, lol) and am more of a butt/legs man. I've seen a lot of women with small breasts and have found them attractive because of other features very easily. imo breasts are overrated as a sexual fixation. Thighs are far more sexy

  • boobs are the LAST thing I care about on a woman, its hard to believe I know but its true, I tell my female friends and they don't believe me, but some of us are just not that into them. my main attraction is stomach and thighs.

  • A person who is able to think like a real man will appreciate you for what you have to offer their "manhood." Unfortunately, little boy's mental capacity can only stretch as wide as the bra size they will pay (or, can find find for free on the internet) to see.

  • Just stop thinking about your breast size. There's lots of guys out there(like me) who LOVE small breasts. I personally prefer A and B cups over any other breast size. Anything over C is too big for me except on a few exceptional girls.

  • um...EVERYTHING. You get to rock the cutest bras out there, you can go bra-less and feel wonderful and free and happy! you don't have to worry about guys only liking you for your boobs. As a 34 D, I am jealous and would trade you any day.

    • I think going braless in public is just weird (unless your shirt/dress has padding) regardless of you bra size. (I'm an A cup)

  • If you have a great smile and personality, you will be more attractive.

  • you can do really awsome things wiht that advantage...like wearing really low cut dresses and sweaters and you cann work it without looking like a fool! LOL and you can go braless and just wear petals in the summer...that makes guys drool if the know your NOT wearing a bra LOL! work what you have and be confident that's a big turn on! :)

  • Let me know when you find out

  • 1st are your boobs perky at a A cup?

    Do you wear bras at all?

    A cami always looks sexy... wear them

  • Enjoy what you have.

    Big Breast, Small Breast Whatever size as long as you're confident and have a great personality anyone would want you.(:

    Also there are tons of guys who'd prefer small breast over bigger ones.

  • I knew a chick that was as flat as the walls but damn she made up for it in other parts. She was probably the hottest chick in my grade back in highschool

  • fix your teeth and get a great looking ass

  • You are great. Small boobs are better. Make better sex and make girls more needing for boys. Be please with your body. You will get a boy

  • Use your body to its advantage and show off your small proportions with tight dresses etc. I guarntee you wil get welcomed attention from guys who love your small body, rather than using push up bras and trying to be something you're not.

  • If you have a b/f or partner as them for advice. RD

  • Try using pushup bras that accent your cleaveage. Show a little skin. Let people know you are proud of your boobs. Draw attention to them.

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