Why shouldn't we objectify women?

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hear me out. women objectify men all the time. so many of them have a checklist of superficial things he must have. job, car, money. right kind of job, car, certain amount of money, etc. women judge men on the way they look. so many of these poor bastards out there can't get p**** because women take one look at them and turn them down. one of my friends is like that and I'm trying to help him improve his look, taking him to the gym, etc. I meet the criteria, I'm good looking, charming, I tell women what they want to hear until I get them in bed, I have money from family and I'm doing well in school, I have a nice car, and I take a girl out to the places she wants to go and its no big deal for me. that doesn't mean I don't see women for what they are, and use them accordingly. if women objectify men on material things, why can't I objectify them? I want a valid reason why. i do objectify women for sex. I will treat a lot of these women like the whores they are, and think nothing of it afterward. I want women, they are sexy and they have what I want sexually. I follow the formula for being attractive to them so why can't I hold them to my own formula. I will judge your ass, t*ts, and when it comes down to it how tight your p**** feels, how it looks, what your face looks like, how young you are, whether you have dsl or not, etc. its how the world works. we are totally justified in treating women like meat. like a piece of meat, they have to do virtually nothing but look, taste, and smell delicious. we men have to war at each other and compete like dogs to get it to ourselves.

bijinbijinbijin · Accepted Answer

NO you got it all wrong. Women look for thoes qualities because they want trust, love and security. And its not always the guy that looks like a movie star with loads of money that the woman settles for. See you only pretend that you have all the qualities that woman want because you just want to fool them into giving you sex.

If a woman just wanted to have sex with a guy then the only thing that would matter is if he is physically attractive. Just like how you only look at a woman's physical characteristics when choosing a mate.

If she was really that interested in you than she wouldn't be judging you on your body.

Same for men. If a man was really that into a woman he wouldn't be judging her because of her body.

Now your friend, if all he is looking for is sex, then there are plenty available skanks out there. But that's all you and your friend could ever get is a skank. With this attitude of yours there is no way you or your friend could ever love a 10. You are only good enough for the skanks.

Cerigo · Accepted Answer

You sound really bitter.

Most people is shallow to a certain degree, I am shallow.

It is the way we have been taught to be. But it is not an excuse to disrespect anyone and completely disregard their feelings.

lionqueen420 · Accepted Answer

excellent point. but nothing of the above is what true love consists, not all of us are whores

JohnGPL · Accepted Answer

Your rationalization of your behavior is essentially based on the "eye for an eye" ethic. Playground morality at its finest. It only serves as fuel for women who hold a similar ethic to objectify men, thus driving more people towards an ethical lowest common denominator. As Ghandi said "an eye for an eye leaves the whole world blind."

As for the danger this view holds for yourself, all I'll say is that while you most likely can't imagine it now, someday sexual fulfillment won't be enough. You will want more than that, and you will be woefully unpracticed at the skills necessary to maintain a deeper type of relationship. Your old habits will bubble to the surface, potentially ruining future attempts at more meaningful relationships. I've seen it happen to quite a few guys who used to think like you. I recommend you don't get married until you honestly believe that your current view of women is ridiculous and immature.

Killfest400 · Accepted Answer

While most people with your general attitude are people I disagree with, I actually do agree with you on this.  So long as you're content with what you're doing, I see absolutely no reason not to do it.  You're making the choice to be objectified, and you're the women you're getting are the ones who objectify you in the first place, so you're not hurting anyone.  Like you said, it's not for everyone (myself included), but if that's what you want to do, then there isn't anything wrong with it.

TheGoodTheBadTheHOT · Answer

its plain and simple. Life just isn't fair. For anyone.

take this for instance; societys view towards sexually active people:

- man = "he's cool."

- woman = "She's a dirty."

society has 'evolved' to allow for different actions against others that are otherwise taboo.

Jonny_ · Answer

Excellent, expect a lot of stick for this one... Objectifying isn't right in any case, not just this case or their case. I think you're generalising overly, I've dated a lot of girls who are nothing like that.

l-hedoniste · Answer

If you're dating pool consists of golddiggers and rentals, well and good. You're entitled to get what you're pay for. Don't think that's what women are, however; character-wise you're drawing from the bottom of the barrel.

Camilus · Answer

And on that note, I need another beer.

dwiller943 · Answer

Because it's trashy and disrespectful.

cyrus7 · Answer

any woman that wastes their time on you probably deserves u, so meh

Anonymous · Answer

Being judged by means of profession is a moral justification in things you were able to obtain that has nothing to do with your physical aspects. These are things that everyone must have to ensure stability in a moderately developed society for future success. Being used for your body is far more diminishing. Like astronomically far more, this isn't a rational argument.

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