Ladies, does penis size make a difference?

I've never had sex before, and I'm just curious if the size of a man's penis influences your pleasure? I've heard it's better if the penis is bigger, but I've also heard that bigger ones hurt, so smaller is better. Can you provide some insight? Thank you!
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Personally, size influences my pleasure in two ways.

    Most of the pleasure I experience through intercourse comes from the pressure and friction of his penis on my vaginal walls. In that sense, it's more about girth than length. For me, it isn't "the thicker, the better", it's about a partner who is a "good fit" for me. Just as penises vary in size, vaginas do as well. A snug fit is preferable---and I imagine that's true for both my pleasure and his pleasure, since I can't imagine it being as pleasurable for him if my vagina isn't a snug fit for him. If his penis is too thick for me, it can be uncomfortable and sometimes a little painful because I can feel it stretching me (a little stretch is okay, but not too much). Also keep in mind that position can affect the tightness of your vagina, and if you have good control over your muscles, you can squeeze your vagina around his penis for a closer "fit".

    The second thing to consider is length. Length is only important to me in the sense that sometimes when a guy is on the shorter side, it can be easier for him to "fall out" during sex, which can be a little frustrating because you have to pause for a second to put it back in. If you're very close to orgasming, that pause can sometimes mean "losing" your orgasm. On the other hand, being too long can be painful because, personally, it hurts when a guy is hitting my cervix. I know that the female Anonymous User said that she prefers 7-10 inches---but honestly, my vagina isn't 7-10 inches deep. I don't need someone that long to "fill me", and if he's that long, he's probably hitting my cervix if he penetrates me fully.

    And keep in mind that even if a guy is a perfect "fit" for you, that doesn't guarantee great sex; nor does it mean bad sex if the guy is smaller or bigger than your perfect fit. I find that sexual chemistry, enthusiasm, open-mindedness, confidence, good communication, and my own mindset have a lot bigger impact on my sexual pleasure than penis size.

  • LMAOO THEYRE LYIING TO U

    the bigger the better. well ofcourse not no 24 inch

    but I mean like 7-10 inch is awesome. and fat ones are also awesome

    the bigger, the more it feels good, ofcourse it might hurt at first but you get used to it and its so good when they can go deep like in diff positions, and they can still reach deep inside... but when its small, it doesn't feel as good and slips out in certain positions =/

  • Personally, I don't want anything bigger than 7 inches. Bigger than that and it's painful and they start hitting your cervix which is not a pleasant feeling, in my experience at least. Smaller than 5-6 inches though and it slips out. I'd say anywhere between 5-7 inches is most pleasurable.

Most Helpful Guys

  • A woman that has MADE LOVE while being REALLY in love knows that size does NOT matter, all those girls that crave for a horse **** have never made love or being really in love!

  • It depends on how its used. My opinion is average is the best to most. But as stated its all about how the size is worked.

    • Im flattered thanks ladies. Lol

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