How do I play with his penis?

Its been a few months since me an my boyfriend have been together. He is my first boyfriend I'm real shy and I don't know what to do AT ALL I know it makes him mad that I'm not experienced what so ever I'm scared to try I let him touch me where ever but what can I do?

 

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  • "I'm real shy and I don't know what to do AT ALL I know it makes him mad that I'm not experienced what so ever I'm scared to try"

    u won't be comfortable doing anything if he's going to be an asshole about it- he should be happy to help you. he needs to shape up or you should leave him its already a vulnerable situation, just by being intimate- he's making it worse.. Sorry about your situation, good luck:)

    oh & just google foreplay or hj or fondling a penis etc- you'll get tons of info,

    • Thanks, this is all really new for me. he's not really an asshole about it but I can just tell when he gets frustrated at first I used to push him off me while makeing out then slowly I got into it he's mostly the one doing all the work I wanna satisfy him to but I don't know what to do and I don't really have anyone to talk to because I want our relationship to be on the down low

What Guys Said 3

  • Honestly, I don't know what kind of ass hole guy would get pissed about that. You have be be understanding with girls with no experience, and for me, it's a turn on and a huge positive to think that I'm the first guy she'll do stuff with. You need to ask him what he wants you to do, and if he doesn't help you, or gets pissed that you don't know, you need to dump his ass! Seriously. You need a supportive man, and he sounds like the opposite.

    • So then talk to him! So many problems can be solved just by talking to each other. Sure it may be a little awkward conversation, but if you want to have a successful relationship you need to talk about these things.

    • trust me he's not an asshole, the most sweetest man ever he does everything for me without me even asking, he goes out of his way in any situation for me I just wanna please him and make him happy but don't really know what to do

  • Maybe this could help you:

    1. First you need to get him turned on - be more aggressive, grab his stuff, slowly massage his balls through his pants, it's important that you act as seductive as possible - the more you're turned on - the more he'll be turned on. Pull his pants down slowly and act as naughty as possible - this is a great turn on.

    2. Grab his hand and lick on his fingers slowly before you give him head - just put his middle finger slowly into your mouth and suck on it, up and down, slide it slowly and moan - you have to moan a lot so he feels like a king.

    3. As you're licking one finger, slowly start stroking his shaft (penis) with your other hand, you have to be on your knees and he should be standing, look him in the eyes - this way you can see his reactions. You need to love giving him head if you want him to really enjoy it.

    4. Most girls make the mistake of being too soft - don't do that, grab his penis tightly and stroke it hard, as you're twisting his shaft with one hand slowly start sucking on the head (the tip) of his penis, curl your tongue around it, twist it in circles, then point it upwards and slowly lick it while you're watching him.

    5. Say something like "mmmmm I love it" then smile, smiling is very important - it conveys that you love it. Keep on stroking and sucking harder.

    6. Start talking dirty to him, put your hands around his balls and tickle them gently - make sure you are gentle 'cause his balls are very sensitive, as you're tickling, keep on stroking and sucking.

    7. Once you see that he's getting closer start stroking harder - and don't even think about slowing down. Scream at him, tell him you want it - tell him where you want it (swallowing will make him go crazy just as you want it) - then as he starts to come, you have 2 options - you can hold his penis or he can hold it - I suggest you let him hold it and squeeze it out.

    8. Then hold his penis and stroke it slowly, just as if you were trying to squeeze every last drop out of him into your mouth, give it a few more finishing licks.

    9. Then smile at him, open your mouth and show him what you've got in your mouth, smile, then swallow all of it - then look up at him again and open your mouth to show him it's gone. If you REALLY want to learn how to give a blow job then you have to read Jack's Blowjob Lessons ----> link

    10. Smile again, believe me he'll love you for it.

    Good luck

  • An in-detail description of some techniques could be found here:

    www.sexinfo101.com/pm_handtechniques.shtml

What Girls Said 1

  • you should talk to him about him being your first and that you might not know what you are doing that how you can find out what he likes and don't like

    also don't shy at all, when I was in your spott I was scared what if he don't like this or that , what if am not doing it right, so many things come to my mind that got mi worried but at the end every thing worked out great!

    if you really want to play with his penis you can give him head or use your hand s to play with it there are lots of things girls can do with a guys penis.

    • well you should really watchh come p*rn or tell him to show yu

    • yeah honestly I'm clueless

      you can just imagine how he feels

    • you really don't know...?

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