My guy friend is calling me a slut?

[Prettygurl12]

My guy friend is calling me a slut? I don't understand why. He says that because I have blond hair, I'm trying too hard to make guys like me. Can I help that I have blond hair? I mean, I could dye it, but I like my hair color. He says I dress provocatively. So I tried to change what I wore. But it didn't matter. If I wore jeans, tennis shoes, and a t-shirt, like I usually do, he said I looked like a slut. If I wore skinny jeans, I was a slut. If I dressed nice (not a t-shirt, but one of those form fitting ones) I was a slut. I even wore pajamas to school one day (mostly cause it was Friday and I was lazy :p) but he still said I was a slut. I don't act like a slut at all. I'm very modest in how I dress, and I don't wear a lot of make up. He calls me a slut in front of all our friends, even his girlfriend, and she does nothing about it. I have only had two real boyfriends in my life and it's not like I jumped from one to the other. Why would he call me a slut if I don't dress, or act like one? Any ideas?

[Anonymous]

He sounds like a really mean person (that is saying it nice) and you should not listen to what some guy has obviously no idea what he is talking about. No guy has a right to call a girl a slut whether you are being one which it sounds like you are not. Personally, I think you should cut this "friend" out of your life. You don't need that and if he was a real friend he wouldn't degrade you like that. It looks like he is doing it to make himself look cool or get some kind of attention. I think maybe you should call him out on it and tell him you don't appreciate his comments and if it doesn't end then you guys don't need to be friends anymore.

[brizzo]

If I were you, I wouldn't waste my time being friends with someone who speaks to me like that.

But if you feel like he's kidding, tell him that it's annoying!

[Prettygurl12]

It's hard to not be his friend. His girlfriend is my best friend and he's in my circle of friends at school so it's hard to avoid him.

[hafinjun]

Okay I'm confused this guy is supposedly just a friend of yours Not Your Lover and why do you keep him around at all he's obviously not a friend or he wouldn't do that to you do you have a history with him or something I think you need to dump him personally

[TwistedLogic]

He's just being a jerk, and playing with your head. Ignore him, do whatever you want and have some more self-esteem. And trust me, when you are a slut, you will know it by yourself. :D

[Ds4739]

Sounds like he is either hoping that you are one and will be with him or that he likes you and doesn't know how to show it so he's picking on you like an adolescent.

[bunny420]

Sounds like he's joking and you're an idiot. Also it's so funny when girls wear pajamas around.

[Talldaddy69]

Move on and start pole jumping until you find the one that treats you right

[Anonymous]

u "tried to change your look so that he wouldn't call you a slut".

u must like him, otherwise you wouldn't have cared what he said to you

[Prettygurl12]

Oh trust me, I don't.

[Opinion Owner]

people don't change for other people unless they like them. why do you think so many girls try to turn bad guys into nice guys

[Prettygurl12]

Well now he's screwing my friend so the issue I have with him is gone.

[Opinion Owner]

ok

[Talldaddy69]

I think he is saying these things because that’s what he wants you to do! He wants you to do everything he saying to you because it’s what he really likes I believe.