How can I find a guy who PREFERS small breasts?

[Anonymous]

I've never met a guy who prefers small breasts to big ones. All of them just settle. To them small breasts are OK or acceptable, but they all think bigger is more of a turn on and I'm sick of it. My last boyfriend was one fan of bigger, and the only reason he paid attention to my breasts in bed, was because he knew I liked it and could even orgasm by that. Once I had my orgasm, poof! It's like my breasts disappeared! But when a girl with big breasts walked by us, he couldn't get his eyes off! He also always watched big tit p*rn and all... so yeah, he was a lover of big. Incidentally, I also believe personally that my breasts are one of my nicest assets. My butt is big but I don't like it, I think my boobs look better even though they're small. But I've always felt they're under appreciated. I'm TIRED of that! So how can I find a guy who won't think small breasts are acceptable, but who will think they're actually better than big ones? I'm sick of guys not paying attention to one of my best looking body parts, only to find them ogling a girl who has more up top. Should I ask that in the first date or what? I mean, I've met guys to whom my small breasts have been very obvious, I haven't deceived them making them think they were bigger, yet I still found myself in that same old situation (no attention paid to them, looking at other girls' big boobs!). They say looking is harmless but it sure has taken a dent on my confidence!

[Anonymous]

Your former boyfriend sounds kind of like a douche, and so are a number of the other guys commenting here.

There are definitely guys out there who like or even prefer smaller breasts. I'm not sure if they have a support group or some way to identify them, but that's besides the point.

I think what you really need to be looking for is a classier kind of guy, not the kind who compares women to p*rn stars! This last guy tried to make you feel insecure, when you have no reason not to love your body.

You have the right attitude about your breasts. If they please you, then that's what matters the most. It's sexy when a girl is actually confident enough to like herself. And the guys who are whining about penis size just need to get over it. Two wrongs don't make a right -- just because they feel insecure about their penis doesn't give them an automatic right to pass judgment on others. I'm happy with my penis the way I was born with it, and the hell with anyone who thinks differently.

Maybe I sound too much of an idealist? I know we all have some insecurities. It's because we want people to love us. But if you dig deeper, you realize it's more than that...we want people to love us for who we are. And that's why trying to change ourselves rarely brings us the solace we're looking for. I mean, there are some insecurities that reflect things we really don't think represent us, like a scar or pimple. But most of the insecurities coming from the world, the peer pressure trying to challenge us because we're different, is something you just have to ignore. You just want to focus on being the best version of yourself, who you know you are, not what someone else wants you to be.

I know none of us are perfect, and most of us do objectify beauty to some extent. There are guys who who have the preference for large breasts so in-grained in their head that they can't really accept otherwise. Maybe guys like that are even common, but who says you have to settle for the average schmuck? I know I'm not perfect either, and while breast size isn't the issue for me, there are other preferences that are so strong I can't look past, and I wouldn't want to give grief to anyone by misleading them on that. When I go for a girl, I never feel like I'm settling in any way.

But what I'm saying is that while I'm sure you could find a guy who loves you specifically because you have small breasts (like a fetish), what I think you really should be looking for is a guy who loves you for who you are in total.

When I'm truly in love with a woman, I find myself loving every part of her. It's not like I find myself saying, "I love this part of her, but this part of her not so much." Every woman is special, and every part of her unique. As I said, I don't settle. You shouldn't either.

And it's kind of funny, because once I dated a woman who was very different than me. In fact, she was a vegetarian and I like meat. But just thinking about her, I found I lost my taste for meat.

[TigerRoseBear]

Hurry up and give this guy best answer! :)

[dance_backwards]

Yeah that's pretty much a really well articulated answer.

[LaLa19Inu7]

I LOVEDDDD your comment! ;D You Go Anonymous User! Woot Woot! ^_^

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks :)

[TrueGuardianAngel]

Although i think all women look beautiful, I would have to say I prefer women with smaller breasts. I love girls who seem more innocent, and that seems to go with it. :P

[OtaconX]

I find women with small breasts far cuter and beautiful then women with big breasts.

[Anonymous]

I think you may be misinterpreting things.

I would say I probably prefer small breasts. But that's on a naked woman. Big breasts probably look better to me clothed. They benefit more from a good bra and a tight top holding them up. But you get naked, and its not as good, and this becomes increasingly true as you get older. Small, perky breasts excite me a lot more naked.

So I would guess I would be the sort of guy you're looking for (apart from being married, too old, etc ;) ) so hopefully I can speak for guys your age who would be looking for the same. And like I said, even though I _prefer_ smaller breasts, I'm _still_ more likely to rubberneck at large (clothed) ones in public. If you all walked around naked, then I'd be eyeing the small perky ones more. So just because a guy you're with looks at some large breasts going by does NOT mean he wishes yours were larger.

I think you have a second 'issue' as well though, which is that most 'breast guys' like large breasts. I think that most guys who like smaller breasts are more focused on the butt and legs (though we still like breasts). Since your breasts are so sensitive, you'd sort of be best off with a breast obsessed guy who preferred them small, rather then a butt obsessed guy who preferred them small. That may be harder to find - initially. People _do_ get more or less in to certain acts based on experiences. I strongly suspect that if I were to spend months or years with a small breasted woman who could _orgasm_ from nipple stimulation, I would become more and more and more into breasts.

My only other tip is to make sure you let them know what they're doing is good. Most guys don't _really_ know how women want their breasts stimulated, and could use some advice and more importantly, confirmation. Orgasming might be enough, but make sure you let new guys know how much you're enjoying what they're doing. You might also want to introduce play where you are stimulating him WHILE he's stimulating your breasts.

[Anonymous]

this is stupid. you mean to tell me that every guy you ever date is your physical and personality ideal and that you never happen to prefer a physical attribute that your boyfriend doesn't have? you always get your physically perfect male specimen ? really? well then you might be really lucky.

otherwise this is stupid. you shouldn't cancel someone out because they usually prefer a physical aspect that you don't have. if anything its a compliment that they like you anyway because it means they like enough about you otherwise, including your personality usually, to overlook one thing that they see as a flaw.

i have big t*ts (36DD) and a smaller butt. I've dated guys who prefer small boobs. okay I dated one guy who preferred them, as far as my knowledge goes. I know you want what you see as your best asset to be appreciated, but don't you see something a bit ridiculous about judging who is a good match based on your t*ts? like really girl. get a grip.

you also see small boobs everywhere in the media. lots of celebs have small boobs and tons of runway models are skinny with small boobs.

there are plenty of guys who like small breasts and I'm sure youve met some. if its that serious you could ask them on the first date, but if they can obviously see you're on the itty bitty titty committee, then I doubt many guys are going to be bluntly honest if they prefer bigger ones. they might not want to hurt your feelings. you could try e-dating or something idk.

i think you need to work on your confidence. to have so much need for validation in your breasts is a bit pathetic imo. I have big t*ts, but that's not my main feature. I also have a face, legs, etc. and most importantly personality and intelligence.

insecurity is natural but letting it consume you is silly. I have a smaller butt. I think big butts are sexy as hell and I love looking at girls who have them. I used to want one, a curvy lower body shape but I got over it because there's nothing I can or would do about it. I could sit here and wonder if any guy prefers small butts, and I do sometimes, then obsess over that preference, and then try to seek out guys who like that feature. that's not going to ensure that they like me as a person, that we have good chemistry, that I'm even going to be attracted to them, etc. I just learn to embrace my body. its going to be here with me for a while after all.

and as a bisexual girl, I can tell you that small boobs can be very sexy, especially if you can orgasm from them. I can't orgasm from boob stimulation! I wish! I don't prefer either, I like different sizes and some guys are that way as well. don't stress it.

[Asker]

Have you ever been called masculine by another man or woman? I have. Despite the fact that I have a vagina for starters and that I have a curvy lower half. I have long hair and long eyelashes. Yet I've been called masculine by that one particular feature. Call me traumatized, I don't know, but it sucks. I don't know what it's like to have big t*ts, sure it brings problems... but I've also been told to get implants by exs... so yeah, I'm done with that, I don't think that's ridiculous.

[Asker]

And as for guys... I don't have a ridiculously long list of physical standards... so I have a wide variety of features that I like. But if I don't feel attracted to a guy, I simply won't force myself to be. I just let it happen. So yeah, every guy I've been with I've thought of as 'perfect', 'cause I was madly attracted to them and would've changed nothing. a lot of them turned me down. I haven't been with many guys, I'm selective. There have been typically hot guys after me but I wasn't...

[Asker]

...attracted to them, despite other girls calling me crazy for not going after them. But whatever. Then, I've also been attracted to guys who other girls have told me are hideous, but who cares, they had a certain something that drove me wild. I usually like that type of guy... quiet ones... nerdy, geeky types... not "hot" jocks or any of that... I'm just sayin' that I won't go after a guy I'm not physically attracted to, I always strive for the whole package.

[LaLa19Inu7]

Woah. Believe me...I doubt you will care about this when you are 35. Just wait until you are that age and then come back to the site and see if you still feel the same way.

It's simple. Be confident. Accept yourself the way you are. Realize that the opinion on your self and body that is the most important is your own. Stop whining. Life's too freaking short.

So you have small boobs, who cares. So people have teased you about it, who cares. So all your boyfriends appeared to prefer bigger boobs..who cares. WHO THE F*** CARES! Suck it up and move on.

It's not a big deal. Can you smile, laugh, write, read, go on a roller coaster, watch movies, enjoy life, paint, walk, talk, see, breathe, live...if you can do these things you are fine.

Love your boobs and love them too much and love them alot. Stop being a baby. People are starving and dying in the world and your complaining about your t*ts?

Get over it. Think: Will any of it matter when your 60?

Sheesh. What do you want to do: You want to find a guy that prefers smaller boobs over big ones? Ask every guy you see and pass by on the street. Where a poster that says that. If you are really that DESPERATE! >.<

Good God. You are so irritating. Get a life and move on. Be Confident and Love Yourself. And realize that you don't need a guy to love your boobs unconditionally to be happy. A guy just has to love you! And love your boobs because they are yours not because he has to compare it to someone else and say that yours are better just so you feel great.

You are beautiful just the way you are and when you find that lucky guy he'll think so too and it won't be because of just your boobs it will be because you are YOU.

Now shut the hell up and start loving yourself and letting confidence ooze out of every corner of your being and get ready for that awesome guy to notice and sweep you off your feet.

You Got It! Now Work It! You know you don't look like guy because of your boobs! You don't You don't! YOU DON'T!

You are beautiful! Your boobs are beautiful! You're Beautiful! You're Beautiful! YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL! YOUR BOOBS ARE BEAUTIFUL!YOUR BOOBS ARE BEAUTIFUL! BELIEVE IT! AND MOVE THE HELL ON! :)

Don't find a guy that prefers small breasts (it's stupid, shallow, and lame...and you are just as bad as a shallow guy who makes a big deal about breasts by you making it all about looks), find a guy who prefers YOU over any other girl! Y-O-U-R B-O-O-B-S R-O-C-K! SAY IT TO YOURSELF EVERY F***ING MORNING! YOU GO GIRL! ^_* <3

[Anonymous]

First offf, if a man doesn't want to be with you because of the size of your breasts you should be thankful that you are not dateing him! I know I am a girl and it might not seem valid having an answer from me, but the size of the boobs don't matter to a guy who cares about you. I have big boobs and I think it sucks. Although I might get attention for them, whyy would anyone want attention just because of the size of their boobs. That's messed up on every level. Girls are not just sex objects we have hearts and minds too. I think with the right guy, the only thing that matters is you being yourself...AND to be honest I've noticed that most guys like a girls butt to loook good rather then her boobs! PLUSS... beingg a girl with a flat chest is awesome in my perspective because you can wear whatevr shirt you want whenever you want and you don't have to worry about looking like a total skeeze! A good man will value your body for how it is, if he is not good then be happy your not with him! There is a lot more to deal with in a relationship then the size of boobs!

[caring__1]

I can definitely understand your desire to find a partner who truly appreciates what you appreciate in yourself. It is very special when we connect on that level. Unfortunately, it is rare to find it. I personally have always preferred small breasts, but I've discovered it is hard to find women with small breasts who don't feel inadequate and insecure. After all, society doesn't promote small as the ideal in any area. I have yet to find a situation where bigger or more is better... even if you're talking about money. It is very rare to find people with more who are truly happier or more fulfilled. It's miserable to be in a relationship with someone who feels insecure, for every compliment you share is immediately minimized and made irrelevant. It's very hard to enjoy something that is constantly being minimized or complained about.

It would be wonderful to find someone who appreciates my love of nature, my dogs and open/honest communication, but the more specifics we seek, the more we limit our opportunities. Would I ideally want to be with someone who truly appreciates me as I am? Sure I would. Is it realistic to think we'll find someone who appreciates multiple aspects of who we are (when those aspects aren't promoted as ideal by society)? No, it isn't. I definitely would not be interested in someone who didn't like some aspect of who I am (or merely tolerated it), but I've realized it is possible to learn to truly enjoy something that is close to, but not exactly like, our ideal preference.

As we get older, we get set in our ways. We've had experiences and have discovered what works best for us. This tends to lead us to limit our opportunities, as we don't want to partake of that which we don't enjoy or can merely tolerate. We tend to be more open when we are young and inexperienced (unless we've been indoctrinated with limitations based on the hangups of others). For instance, older women are more likely to be seeking a provider of a lifestyle than a quality connection (though they rarely admit to that). It becomes obvious in their demands and criticisms.

In reality, your breasts are just part of the woman you are. Yes, you want your partner to enjoy your breasts as much as you do, but you also want your partner to appreciate all other aspects of yourself. It's common for people to focus on body parts, but body parts alone won't hold a relationship together long-term (even when they might be intense initial attractions). It's not what you have but how you use what you have that keeps a relationship new and alive. You don't want your breasts to become an obligatory chore, just as you wouldn't want to be in a relationship where you were obligated to orally please your partner whenever, wherever and however he wished. Let them be a beautiful part of the package. Could you write a symphony composed of just one note? Would an artwork be seen as a masterpiece if it was just a single shade of a single color evenly covering an entire canvas?

[caring__1]

If you want to raise the likelihood of finding a potential partner who appreciates you as you are, learn to become more observant. There are signs you can look for that show someone is drawn to you. If he is looking at or touching your breasts, it is obvious if what he sees or feels is energizing him just because he is gaining access to any breast or if yours, in particular, give him a special boost. His words and actions will show you where his interest lies. Never ask him if he likes your breasts, as he'll tend to give you what he thinks you want to hear. Ask him to describe your breasts and how they impact him. You can also ask him to do the same for other parts of your body, so you can see how the descriptions differ. Don't just see what you want to see and make assumptions, for that will only lead to frustration and disappointment. I admit I will no longer settle for anyone who doesn't see value in what I bring to a relationship, but that may very well lead to my spending the rest of my life finding unconditional love only from my dogs. I can definitely relate to what you desire, but limiting your options won't make it easier to find what you seek. Learn how to draw attention to that which you want others to notice and appreciate. Teach them the value that exists; don't expect them to already know. Helping people to explore and discover has a greater positive impact than talking at them. I hope you find the special connection you seek. Everyone deserves to be enjoyed and appreciated as they are, not for the potential they can become.

[madlittledevil]

Big boobs in movies and p*rn but did you know most fashion models have smaller breasts in fact most girls get turned down for modeling gigs because of bigger breasts. I have bigger boobs and I lost a bit of weight and I find my boobs more attractive smaller than when they were bigger. Love the boobs you have! they are better than fake ones for sure.

[xxsassygirl]

Babe it all of depends on how you feel about your self. If you have small boobs look at it this way, you can wear anything and not feel like a slut. Seriously, I have C's and no they aren't small but I still can wear anything I want and not feel like a town tramp. Small boobs are really easy to maintain and not feel cheap. But it depends on how you feel. Period. I know a lot a guys who love small boobs. You can't please everybody! You only have to please yourself and if getting a big rack is it then do it and if you are happy with what God gave you then do that. There are guys who love all naturael.

[Lovelesspassion]

I like small breasts.. Even though the girl I like right now has big ones.. She always says there her best feature and tries to get me to look at them by saying crazy stuff but breast size isant that important to me.. Her eyes and her smile keep me looking.. Every time she says one of thoughs crazy things she smiles so I look at her face..

As I said I like smaller breasts.. But I don't really care as long as she's got a great smile..

As for all guys ya we look at girls with big breasts its hard not to usually they dress it up to get guys to look.. Its instinct... But if you where my girl my eyes would always return to you.. Id try my hardest not too look away from you.. Id hope youd see it and give me some slack.

Also girls do it to.. Not breasts but if you see a guy without his shirt or sleavless shirt... girls look at those guys... And we notice... I'm not sure why anyone says you look for penises its the mucsles girls look at...

[sirens007]

I have the opposite problem; my breasts are huge and my ass is small. Do I share an insecurity about the size of my ass, you betcha! But the men I date will never effing know, because I don't demonstrate that insecurity with them. Yeah, they may prefer a big bodonkadonk, but I'll give them a reason to prefer my body instead. Maybe you should focus less on why your chest is not an asset and focus on why you find them incredible. Breasts are beautiful no matter their size so men and women are going to look. Sorry kiddo, just because you may find a man that may end up loving your breast size isn't going to stop him from looking at other breasts too. Start feeling more confident about yourself and you will realize this will be a turn on for men. Then it won't matter what size your breasts are because your t*ts rock too!

[Asker]

I don't care if men look at other women's breasts, but to be honest, it gets old having boyfriends practically ignore mine in bed and in general and then drool over women like you.

[Asker]

The point is, if I get a boyfriend who prefers small breasts, then at least he'll pay more attention to them in bed and will look at them in general and even if he looks at other women's breasts, I know I'll have what he wants... especially if he prefers looking at women with smaller breasts.

[jacquesvol]

"a big bodonkadonk," LOL :D you're great!

[LaLa19Inu7]

*you're

[peace-love-couture]

If he's with you,then why would it matter if he glances at women who happen to have big breasts or even if he prefers big breasts?Guys have eyes and preferences are not standards.

[Asker]

I know, but it still sucks and gets old. Guys look at breasts lustfully, it kind of sucks seeing a boyfriend get all worked up over some other girl. Plus you see big boobs and cleavage everywhere. Like I said, it gets old. It'd be way refreshing to find a guy who thinks differently. Trust me, I know a guy won't ever stop looking. But knowing I have what he wants would feel much better. I always go for guys I like inside AND out. Most guys I've been with have ignored my boobs anyway.

[peace-love-couture]

Maybe those guys aren't boob guys?Some guys aren't and will completely ignore any boobs at all.And if they are gawking at any other girls in front of you,whether big or small breasts,then they aren't exactly the best guys from the beginning

[Antigone3]

I think you are missing the point Evangelina. The fact is he basically ignored her breasts, while ogling large ones. I think we can both agree that is pretty hurtful and would make many women feel under-valued and insecure. The truth is she is starting to feel bad about a body part that she actually likes.

[peace-love-couture]

Um,actually no I didn't miss the point,but thanks for giving me your irrelevant opinion?

[Antigone3]

Do you really think the only standard a women should have is if a man is with her or not? I've seen many of your posts and you don't like your own large breasts, yet you comment on every breast question, and you DEFINATELY are resentful of small breasted women. How are you even sympathetic to anyone who is not like you?

[peace-love-couture]

Yea,I'm totally jealous of small breasts. Actually,if you had your sh*t right,you'd know I like my size,I just have imperfections,so could you get your sh*t right?Or no.Cause if you're gonna speak,get it right. But again,thanks for your irrelevant opinion.I like my big breasts though. And why are you commenting on my answer if you dislike what I had to say and had to butt in?

[Antigone3]

You are welcome.

[peace-love-couture]

Again,irrelevant opinion.

[Asker]

Well, Antigone kinda has a point. Sure if a guy is with you he probably loves you and blah, blah, but if he ignores my breasts in bed and then goes drooling after women who have big breasts, of course I'm gonna feel like SHIT! I mean if he actually looks at other women's big t*ts, then he must be a boob guy, and if he ignores mine he obviously doesn't like them, so yeah it affects confidence.

[peace-love-couture]

Big boobs are obvious,a guy is gonna look whether he prefers big breasts or not. Sometimes you gotta tell a guy to pay attention to them or give them "permission"

[Marshall33]

I have ALWAYS preferred smaller breasts myself including in visual media. It is the fact that often the nipples are smaller on smaller breasts that is attractive to me whereas when they are too large I tend to be less attracted especially when a woman stands up and the breasts hang. Perkiness goes a long way. Point is there are many men that prefer smaller breasts. Its why in most cases breasts in adult films are B cup. That should tell you something.

[anonymous1422]

aww I don't know how to help you out, but I'll try. Asking on the first date seems like it is coming on a bit strong and would scare the right type of guy off. Wait to have sex until the guy worships you. He will love whatever you have if he truly loves you, especially if he had to chase it for a long time. When the moment comes that he "catches his prey" he will be amazed. There are a few guys out there who prefer smaller over larger breasts from the beginning but your best bet is so find someone who isn't obsessed with ogling women and teach him to love your boobs.

[Asker]

My ex loved me tons, but he still was like that in bed. He worshipped me, etc., said there was nothing wrong with my small breasts, but his actions spoke louder I guess.

[anonymous1422]

Well hopefully your next guy will love your body the way it is. Good luck! (btw I think small breasts are sexier than droopy big ones but I don't really know because I'm not attracted to any boobs)

[Vasillilaw]

You are dating idiots. lol. You'll find a nice guy that likes you for you! (:

[scar1]

certain preference = idiot ?

[Asker]

No, but guy who has a "ceratain preference" and makes his girlfriend feel like sh*t about it = idiot!

[DamieWamie]

Why are you looking for a guy that has a boob preference? You SHOULD be looking for a guy that has a YOU preference! Boobs do not make or break a woman, not even in terms of looks. I was just checking out this girl yesterday on campus that was fiiiine as heeeelll.

Her chest looked the bottom side of a carboard box, and she was STILL fine. She litterally had almost no breast tissue.

If a guy actually acts like he doesn't like your boob size, literally tell him to eff off because you don't need that ittish. I've like tons of girls who have hella small boobs, it doesn't matter to me because I like THEM not their boobs. That's just revolting if you just sit and think about it for a while...

[zdagger]

I find myself asking the reverse of that question, how can I find someone I am attracted to like you, without sounding like a shallow idiot on the internet. Not only that I'm kind of antisocial, I spend most of my time at home (no opportunities to meet new people) so it's not as easy as that, I'm not dating breasts, so personality and intelligence are important as well. It's not about stereotypes but attraction.

You are anonymous, but if you do read this please contact me, I kind of have this oral fixation that would be to both our benefit ;)

[zdagger]

I can't answer for every guy, but a good indication would be a serious answer to your question on this website :D

This question has been running through my mind lately,"how do I find single girls with small breasts who are looking for guys?" I'm the blunt kind of person, I'd rather be asked up front. However, breast size isn't the only issue in the dating dept. There has to be some chemistry too,

If only it were this easy, I do see your point of view and agree, I myself would like to find someone whose body turns me on, but it just so happens that the feature that turns me on is small breasts, and with that comes the stigma or risk of being called a perv or pedophile so I don't generally broadcast to my guy friends that I'm only attracted to small breasts. Last but not least and because there are idiots on the internet I'd like to make it clear. I have no interest in dating or having sex with children. Being attracted to small breasts does not mean I'm attracted to children so get a life.

[misuzi]

This is a kind of silly question, just in the way that the size of your breasts is really not something that should matter at all as to how much someone does or does not like you.

I understand exactly what you're saying about most guys having an attraction to big boobs, it's certainly is no secret.

I guess from the way it sounds, my thinking is that you are spending too much trying to find someone who views your body as their most favorite part about you. While of course you want something who appreciates and enjoys the way you look, you have to admit that the cheesy sayings are true; such as "it's about what's on the inside that counts".

Look at people who are, well less attractive, they can be in a relationship and be happy and most likely it's not the looks aspect that makes them happy. It's that they have found a person who makes them happy. Everyone spends time worrying about how they look and what other people think of them.

Many people need to realize they simply can't control all the little details in their lives but that it doesn't matter. In the timeless words of Doc Brown "Your future is what you make of it, so make it a good one" (see what I did there; timeless, Doc Brown). To apply that to this situation, don't get so focused on how many guys are attracted to your breasts but rather how sincere they are and also how much you like them. There is more to you than just your breasts.

Don't think the other girls don't have it easy either. That girl with the large chest is probably steamed that nobody notices anything BUT her big boobs. She probably doesn't enjoy them that much either and besides they are going to sag like crazy when she's older.

I'll even throw in another boob comparison for you. Implants. Some guys love em, some hate em, others don't care at all cause boobs are boobs. It's the same thing, just personal preferences that are really silly and don't mean a thing.

[Asker]

Well, they're meaningful to me because I've been told I look like a boy, despite the fact that nobody that was downright stupid could confuse me with a biy since I have womanly hips and face. But I've been called masculine by both men and women, so yes, breasts are important and emotional to me. What's wrong with wanting a guy who likes what I offer best? Is that silly? I think not. Is it so hard to believe that there might be at least ONE guy who might prefer my breasts over DDs?

[DaveMicharl69]

That's not fair that you were made to feel this way! It's like a guy's biceps. You see a big bicep & you're like, oh wow, you work out, but it's just for SHOW & doesn't do anything! Likewise, I don't deny I'll NOTICE when a girl has big breasts sticking out, but her REAL beauty is in her face & in her heart. I've seen a girl with huge boobs that was bitchy & not that pretty in the face & I wasn't attracted at all. Yet, my BFF is an A cup, & she has SUCH A BIG HEART, I think she may be the cutest & most beautiful girl I've met...

[jennyPuss]

there's really not much you CAN do unless you want to get fat grafting from your booty to your boobs. people have various plus's and minus's. you could find the most perfect guy but his penis doesn't quite fill you up the way you prefer. you may love him but secretly may want or need that stretching out down there. you can't help that your body was made that way or that his was made the way it was. you need what you need. and he needs what he needs. some big 'ol titties.

[kiss_me_Kate]

Go out to a bar.

Leave the padded bra at home.

if he notices you, he likes you.

[Adam-UK]

Spot on! I'd be in there like a shot.

[l-hedoniste]

If you see the questions on this site over time, you'll notice that a lot of women, of all sizes, are unhappy with their breasts. The good news is that there are men (myself) that enjoy breasts of all sizes, and even others that prefer your size. (Two of my friends come to mind, Mr. "More Than A Handful Is A Waste" and Mr. "How Much Can You Put In Your Mouth? Exactly.")

Given that the media, as a policy, is horrendously fake on most things, what makes you think they get breasts right? Understand how media decisions are made. Media act to please their revenue source: advertisers. Ad agencies act to please their revenue source: large corporations. Are you really going to change your body so that it fits the tastes of large corporations? Does this even make sense?

I find it interesting that you went to a forum for big-breast lovers when, by typing "small breasts" into the search box above, you can find page after page of testimony from small-breast lovers. Is it possible that small-breast lovers just didn't occur to you? And before you even start with "they're lying" or "they're just being nice", remember: they have as much right to speak for themselves as you do to speak for yourself--don't punish them for enjoying what you can offer.

[l-hedoniste]

Took a look at your profile to see where your head is at, and found that you've made this proposal to (very) many others. In exactly the same words. And not much else. Hang around a bit, and if I get a good vibe about you I might take you up on your offer. For now, I must decline. P.S.: You shouldn't sling your e-mail address around like that. You'll be a magnet for crawlers and spambots.

[IHateMeganFox]

There are guys out thre trust me... and I'm not saying this in a rude way but you're hilarious! Some of the stuff you say is pretty funny especially when you said "so yeah, he was a lover of big." that cracked me up.

[bacca400]

You ask around. But your looks will only get you the first date. Your personality and relationship skills is what gets you LTR. Boobs are fun but they do not make a relationship work by themselves.