My girlfriend wants me to be the girl during sex. Is that weird?

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend told me she has this fantasy that during sex, I would be the girl. She wants to put makeup on me and make me wear lingerie and heels and all that other girl stuff. She also wants me to make girl sounds too. I thought this was really bizarre. I had never heard of someone having this kind of fantasy before. I asked her if she would be the guy and she said sometimes maybe, but I think mostly I'd just be me. Which...makes me question her sexuality now. I don't know. Just wondering what others thoughts would be about something like this. Weird?

[islands7]

I'm thinking she missed out on acting on these urges in HS/College - to experiment with other girls. Now I wondering what your position would be to offer a threesome and take advantage of this secret desire?

As far as you being dressed/made up as a woman, I'm not expecting anything as good as "Some Like It Hot" (movie), I'm thinking worse and once that image in the mirror burns a hole in your memory ... you might need therapy.

If you think this might be the hottest sex ever, then see if just a $5 mask/wig will do the trick, then evaluate what all that was later?

[CuriousEddie]

I think it sounds kinda kinky, in a fun way. She has imagination, and likes to play... and well, I guess I have submissive fantasies, so I'd consider it to be a huge turn-on.

If it was me, I'd buy her a strap-on and make it clear I'm interested...

[JustSayinn]

Kinky!

Haha just kidding that's a bit odd in my opinion.

But if you like it, and only if you do, then go along

with it. If it makes you uncomfortable don't do it and

talk to her about it. If she's still pushy and you told

her how you felt I would run away XD

[Butterfly_kisses09]

That's...odd. Tell her if she wants to f*** a girl then go out and find a girl. She shouldn't make you wear makeup, heels, and sh*t unless you want to and you're okay with it. But if you're not okay with it (as I don't think you are) then definitely tell her.

[Anonymous]

There are weirder fetishes. Try it out, you might like it. And she'll be grateful, and thus more likely to go along with any fantasies you have.

[Asker]

yeah I thought about that. no harm in trying

[Kelassin]

So... she wants you to be a transsexual so she can be a lesbian? That's wrong man. Go with your gut feeling, and whatever you do, do *not* do it.

[l-hedoniste]

If it lights her up, roll with it. No one else needs to know, and the happier your girl is, the better.

P.S.: It's called feminization if you want to google it. It's quite common.

[Xia90]

its wrong.

[l-hedoniste]

It's none of your business.

[200rabbits]

It is definitely weird, but she's not alone in having that kind of fantasy. It is a kink/fetish that does exist, there are a small number of guys (can't say I'm one but they're out there) who actually enjoy that themselves.

[faraday]

That sounds f***ed up, but hey, if it's in your comfort zone do it, but otherwise she should respect what you want.

[Lezpinup]

That's kinda hot lol

[CuriousEddie]

lol.. so only one girl out of 4 answers?

[Anonymous]

Holy s*** man that is so hot id go for it personally.

[Anonymous]

I would leave her right away man.

[Anonymous]

Yes, it is.