It's very possible to give a good blow job with small hands and a mouth.
Best thing to do is to do what feels natural. But here are some pointers.
Instead of just sucking on the head, direct your attention all over the penis, balls, and general area. I find they like it a lot better to lightly kiss, than lick, and than lightly suck all over.
Also, what everyone else said. Use your hands as an extension of your mouth.
A good blow job isn't just repetitive licks or hard sucking. I find most guys enjoy a variety of things, from swirling your tongue around the head, to grazing your teeth lightly on the head and shaft.
And another thing I've noticed...after you've licked a little and it's wet...lightly blow on it. Sensations of hot and cold are amazing. You can also try sucking on ice first, and then going down on him.
Although this is kind of random...I've read in a version of the Kama Sutra that a woman should be able to bring her man to orgasm by just licking. And it's definitely possible to do that.
Having small hands and a small mouth will definitely not hold you back :)
Don't worry about it, listen to his sounds of approval, and go with the flow :3
Oh yeah, you can definitely give a blow job. If you don't feel like you can put it down your throat, just lick the top, up & down the shaft, the balls. The best way to give a blow job is to enjoy it. If they see you are really enjoying sucking their package, that will be a turn on by itself. Also, you don't need to fit the whole penis in your hands, just rub what you can. I have small hands too, I don't let that stop me. Just have fun, & don't worry about what you can't do. Think about all the things you can do.
holy sh*t that was hot lol
Thank you
Use your mouth to just suck on the head and kinda use your hands as an extension of that. Your hands don't have to be big, just stroke it up and down as your sucking on the head (but make sure it's wet when you're stroking (lots if spit is your friend) sorry if that sounds gross but it's true, "the wetter, the better". After it's plenty wet, it's easier to fit more in your mouth. goodluck:)
You'll be fine. The BJ might take practice as it can make girls gag. If you really aren't comfortable, just do it slowly and only the tip or don't at all. As for hand jobs? You'll be fine. It'll probably be hot trying to work it with small girlie hands to the guy :P
That being said, are you really thinking about doing that already? lol. Haven't you only been dating this guy less than a week? Or just curious to be ready for such in the future? :P guessing that it's being you, it's the latter.
Seriously though, don't over think it for the hand jobs. Your hand will be fine and just stroke it and whatnot like you'd think. For a blow job, my ex had a problem at first, she had to take it slow and get used to it and get over her gag reflex.
Gonna add what I said below. COMMUNICATION IS KEY! Make sure he knows your inexperience, make sure he knows to tell you what's good and bad, and make sure he understands to be honest, but not harsh. And expect him to be ready for the same from you if he ever goes down on you. I.e. you telling him what you like and don't like. Too many never learn this most important thing :\ Hope you aren't rushing and will have a great relationship by the way :P
Yeah, we are pretty open with talking about things. Don't really know that we're necessarily headed into a relationship, I think it's going to end up being FWB.
Aww, disappointing tbh. I personally find FWB an entirely foolish concept. But, to each their own. I'm honestly a bit shocked. I didn't think of you the type to be into FWB :P you seemed more interested in a serious relationship and only doing things with someone in a serious relationship. At least, that's how you came off to me when you post around here. Just also seemed open minded and have fun flirting and whatnot. What is the appeal of FWB exactly? I still don't get it.
I have a long and thick penis... Scraping just totally ruins it for me. I won't lie, the best blowjobs I've had are girls who really got into it and could deepthroat.
BUT there are some girls who had small mouths that made up for it... KEEP YOUR HANDS/MOUTH REALLY WET BY PRODUCING A LOT OF SALIVA... LICK AROUND THE HEAD [most sensitive area, especially right below the head on the shaft.. press into that area with your tongue, lick UP AND DOWN THE SHAFT... TAKE DOWN WHAT YOU CAN TO WHERE YOU KNOW YOU WON'T SCRAPE, while USING A SOFT HAND GRIP TO STROKE IT WHILE IT'S REALLY WET WHILE YOUR LICKING ETC... AND THAT FEELS REALLY GOOD.
OR JUST FIND A "SMALL GUY" YOU FEEL MORE COMFORTABLE AND MORE APT AT GIVING BJS TO ;)
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Oh I have a small mouth and I seem to be doing okay :) The best thing is to just listen to your guy when you are working on him. See what he likes, he will tell you if you are doing something good. They love to have the head worked. Work your hands at the same time you are doing the blow job, it makes it twice as fun for the guy and you too :P Your hands might get tired so alternate!
To be honest. I doubt you'll have problems with the 'average' man.
Every girl thinks they have a small mouth. The only thing unwise would be to give up and not try.
Can you eat a banana? If so, then I'm sure you'll have no trouble with the average penis. I'm not sure if you've seen one in real life but they're really not so big that you'd any have trouble with it. Perhaps they make it look harder than it is in p*rn but it doesn't take much to pleasure a guy. Once you're actually in the situation I'm sure you'll do just fine at it.
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grab/stroke his shaft and put the "knob" in your mouth and suck, trust me, this'll probably feel better than any "normal" bj a big-mouth woman could give him
The red heads have it right. It's all about enjoying it and being willing to try. You will learn and get better. I wouldn't worry about being too small. There's nothing saying you need to take the whole thing in your mouth or anything. And for handjobs, if you can hold on to a water bottle, which I assume you can, chances are you'll do just fine with a penis. Like one of the guys said, you being smaller makes us feel bigger and if you haven't noticed from the questions on here, guys tend to be concerned about their size.
thats kind of a good thing; we guys, like you should already know, care about the size of our penises. your small hands will make the penis look bigger and the guy will like that.
as for the small mouth, it could go either way, he could like that he's too big for your mouth or he can get turned off, depends on the guy.
small hands is hot...because it makes our d*** seem bigger then it really is and small mouth just means your lips are tighter on our d***...so its actually a good thing no...scratch that..AN AMAZING THING
small hands is a good thing because it makes the guy think he is bigger than he really is. and what the girls said is good advice.
I would just try it. My first time wasn't too bad, but practice makes perfect ya know? You gotta keep doing it to get the hang of it, just don't use too much teeth when you give head. I'm not good at hand jobs, but what I usually do with my boyfriend is put on something sexy and talk dirty to him in his ear while he does that himself... No harm in trying!
I love giving head. And guys tell me I have a small mouth all the time, but I make it work. Just try, the first few times might not be great but when you get the hang of it,... oh the things you can do (:
I should add to this, to help, COMMUNICATE WITH HIM! Make sure he communicates with you too. Make sure he knows to tell you if you're doing something right or wrong or what feels good. Don't play guessing games, but actual talking that's honest so you know how to please him better. Just gotta spread my message of "Communication is key" ;)
I agree completely (:
My ex used this excuse, even though she expected me to go down on her at her whim. She was afraid of trying to put it in too far, and she basically wasn't into it at all.
If you want to give a BJ, you can find a way to please him even with a small mouth, as the female answers indicate.
In fairness, it's not like you can make someone enjoy doing it. That being said, being expected to go down on her whenever yet she won't try at all is just lame.
You can try if you liek to. It is not a problem. Use both hands. You certainly don't have that small hands that this will not work. And about blowjob. You don't have to put it in if you are not confortable. Kiss, lick instead. And it won't hurt to try anyway. Maybe you don't have that smll mouth.
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