Do you automatically assume that a girl with no gag reflex is a slut?

[WonderingNomad]

I know that guys say that they find this hot, or at the very least useful. However, I also know that many of the girls who can do this have had to practice quite a bit to be able to, and so I wonder whether many guys don't consider this trait slutty...like a trait in a girl you'd want to sleep with but not be serious with. I'm asking this because I've never had a gag reflex, or at the least mine is so small as to be unnoticeable (I can easily swallow a hot dog/banana/anything narrow enough to fit down my throat without chewing). However, I feel like this is the kind of "skill" most guys seem to think girls have to be kind of slutty to attain. But with me, it's just the way I've always been. In fact, when I was little my parents tried to induce vomiting in me by sticking their fingers down my throat (they were worried I may have swallowed something bad) and couldn't, so really I have just always been this way. Now, obviously, I don't go around performing my "hot dog trick" at parties or anything. Nor do I publicize my lack of a gag reflex. However, when I'm in a relationship and I have this "natural ability" (lol) it seems like a shame not to use it, right? Anyways, I worry, though that after I give a guy a deep throat blowjob he'll think that I'm slutty. In my last relationship I know that the guy got really weird right after I gave him one for the first time (I had already slept with him, and it was fine, so I don't think it was that we were "sexually active" too soon). SO, guys, would you assume that a girl who can deep throat and/or who has no gag reflex is automatically slutty?

[makesumwake]

first, that's pretty cool if you can do that.

i think most guys will think you are slutty if you do that right away.

i personally don't care if a girl is slutty or not, so I like finding a girl who can deep throat.

but I know tons of guys have issues with that.

maybe hold of for a while with a new guy,and then act like you want to practice going down farther.

pretend you are practicing, do some fake gagging, go down farther and father little by little, etc. practice until you get "good" at it. of course you get good really quick.

then you have a guy that you can please really well, but who doesn't think you are a slut, since you just "learned this new skill with him".

ps. can I have your number?

[WonderingNomad]

ah, the fragile male ego, lol. thanks for the advice. I hate being deceptive in a relationship but I think I might be able to pull off a "hey I wanna try this" and just testing it out at first and then progressively doing it more and more without actually lying to him. just kind of taking it slow, I guess. anyways, thanks for the advice; were you not a random guy online, my # might not be out of the question ;-)

[makesumwake]

glad I could help. I always felt special when girls told me I was the first to do X or Y or Z to them, so it made the girl seem special to me, like I was the only guy who could get her to do that, instead of making her seem like a slut or something.

[RealGoodD]

If you have no gag reflex - consider it a talent and skill which needs to be embraced. Take down as much di (k as you can, one after another, keep your mouth wide open and act like the filthy pig that you are.

[Oliviaarkansas]

ha. made me laugh w the comment about ur parents w the finger down th roat. brings back memory of my dad trying that and didn't work lol

[debsman]

Not slutty at all. Its a gift.

[MikeK]

Sounds good to me

[malealpha00]

usually cos their throats have been stretched more

[primrose97]

Being a slut is not to be confused with an eating disorder lmao

[Anonymous]

At firs thought I would think she's sucked a lot of d*** to be that pro

[WonderingNomad]

thanks for the honesty. +1