Saying, "daddy" during sex?

Question

some think it's the trademark of daddy issues, others see it as taboo, which may translate into mischievous [which results in sexy?].I'm not really a fan of the idea. when someone says, "who's your daddy?" in a sexual way, I think of my actual father, which is a major buzz kill. I'd like my ideal man to be able to provide & protect, which can be a fatherly role, but.. addressing my sex partner as 'daddy' doesn't really appeal.do males enjoy being called daddy? females like moaning it?

tfgmg · Accepted Answer

Let's really think about this and why it is NEVER sexy or good for great sex. The 3 generic recipients are young guy, guy with kids (young or old, doesn't matter) and old guy. Saying "daddy" to a young guy we will save for last. For the guy with kids. Dude, you're a dad. If you hear, "daddy", your kids need you. If you're still hard and thinking of sex, you need to exit the gene pool. Old guy, stop fucking your "daughter".

For the young lad without kids, how is "daddy" a turn on? Why on Earth do you want to be shagging someone who is calling "daddy"? Who are you "dad" of? No one. Maybe yourself now if you taking care of your business, but that's about it. You probably still aren't over your own parent "daddy" issues and are just finding yourself in the world. Is "daddy" the only moniker of respect that empowers you? It's weak and disturbing no matter how you paint it.

The only, very small window, where "daddy" might be sexy is when a couple are trying to start a family early on. The concept of becoming a dad could very much, and should really, be a turn on for a man.

Lesson for the Ladies...If your man is turned on by "daddy", with previous exception noted, you have problems. Run for the hills, the guy is President of Creepa Onya Dauta

Belgie · Accepted Answer

I think it depends on the girl. I don't dislike it, but I wouldn't make a point of asking her to call me daddy.

I don't think I'd ever use the phrase "Come to daddy" or "Who's your daddy?" unless specifically asked to.

Kagan · Accepted Answer

NO. I have never Will never I find it creepy. But hey to each their own>>>

l-hedoniste · Answer

I find it slightly creepy--it was a showstopper the first time I heard it--but some girls get a serious jolt from it, so I deal.

notamindreader · Answer

COME TO DADDY!

debsman · Answer

Never happened to me, but I think it would take the wind right out my sails. The only person that calls me daddy is my daughter and I have no desire to have sex with her.