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How does it feel to have a boner and come?

I always wanted to know what do guys feel when they have a boner and also when they come, but I didn't get much satisfactory answers like all I got was it feels amazing or can't really explain it and true as it may be but there has got to be aleast some kind of explanation of how you guys feel so please tell

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hey so every guy who reads this question please tell how you feel, I know its the same kind of feeling for evry guy but everyone has a different way of putting it,

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  • I'll explain it. lol You have a clitoris and it is basically made from the same tissues that the penis was made from - only way more sensitive, but who really knows unless they have both, right?Anyway, boners can have different feels coming on. Like for instance, if I am with a girl I really get turned on by there is a tingling feeling that happens in my penis when it is soft and it starts to get bigger like a balloon blowing up, but every "breath" is blood rushing in making my erection feel "hard" and each one of those breaths feels like a pulsing, like a really good pulsing, like I have seen my girlfriend's p**** clench when I touch her clit and she appears to be having the same type of sexual response that I have when I feel the boner waves coming on. If you have a big enough clit that you can "jerk it off" you can sort of feel the same thing I would imagine although the release is the biggy, and your clit cannot do that! It shouldn't anyway!When I am close to cumming, or orgasm, I feel like my entire d*** is throbbing like the balloon is full but it is trying to be fuller, and the fuller it gets the better it feels especially if it is in a girl's natural lubrication... and that feels like my penis is being bathed in pure heavenly awesomeness from start to tip and sometimes even deeper in. When I come it feels like the semen started out swimming up my d*** and waited at some myseterious trap door in there somewhere near the base of the head of my penis... and when the orgasm hits it feels like the trap door is being pushed open slowly and the intensity of the orgasm has begun. It feels like my d*** just had a head rush, and it travels through my legs and it feels way better on orgasm if I wiggle my toes for some reason. If I have a girl with me the orgasm is almost always 70% stronger or more. When that feeling like the trap door has finally broken free of its hinges that is the moment the orgasm is the best and most intense at the "release" when you see it fly out at top speed. It is almost as if the tube that the semen comes out of somewhere deep inside the penis has some trigger spot that releases the orgasm, but it does take a good hardon to have a good orgasm. Orgasms can be had with a softer penis but it sucks by comparison. What a waste. This is certainly not safe for work. It's honest though. :)

What Guys Said 8

  • Truthfully, lassie, its the most depressing fact in life: Nothing, there is no feeling, apart from your heart being emptied from discovering the news (Well, at least in Britain: Maybe its because we're such a depressing place XD)

  • To get a boner is probably similiar when you get wet. Man feels little bit good. (something nice must have happend). But it is just preparation. It really start to feel good to feel excited when girl touches us or we have sex. And to come ... mans mind goes ... hallelujah! Those feelings are so strong. No thought whatsoever! Whole body goes tense and then relaxed and it feels so great!

  • To have a boner is a feeling of power and it comes the wish to penetrate with it. More I can`t say.

  • when you masturbate you have a build up of tension and want to release it and that is cumming. first I get hard from thinking about a girl and what she could be doing to me. then as I'm about to come I feel this great feeling and my d*** twitches and there is the cum!

  • I have communicated with my girlfriend a lot about clitoral stimulation and I have managed to grip her clitoral hood and jerk off her clit for her and she responded as if she was me and I was being jerked off. Oh the hips were going up and down all wild and crap. Mmm... so play with your clit a little... it might not be all that different. Even girls have foreskins and that is the major sensitive part of an intact penis, or one that is not circumcized... the same as clits are not circumcized in North America, some people are realizing how barbaricly unnecessary it is to do it to anyone because it robs them of sexual pleasure. Picture your clit as a tiny penis and when your finger is on it do you feel it pulse? That is the blood going into it. It is noticable on a girl with a larger clit because you can see it pulse just like a boner. Try xtube for that if you want to make a visual comparison.

  • Mia.Erection and ejaculation are pre-programmed, automatic reactions. Erection is the product of arousal but it is not arousal. I can wake-up with an erection caused by a full bladder (“morning wood”) that is a mechanism to prevent a man from peeing involuntarily in his sleep. I don’t feel aroused because I have it. If I separate arousal from the sensation of erection, it is a bit like having a cramp…muscles (which an erection is not…it is hydraulic inflation) stiffening involuntarily and uncomfortable when I am standing up straight. It tends to bend you over when really hard.Ejaculation is accompanied by some degree of orgasm. Their intensities are tied together. An intense orgasm is accompanied by a strong mechanical sensation of ejaculation. The mechanical sensation is reciprocating, like abrupt Kegel exercises being done for me (like a TENS machine can, flexing muscles in my arms and legs). I experience up to ten or so, starting at 3 (shoot and reload) cycles per second and trailing off to one every 2 seconds. The pleasure of orgasm is a rush a lot like yours, but there is an additional pleasure where the prostate pushes semen, under a lot of pressure, through the tightly closed external sphincter outside the prostate (that won’t let me pee when I am hard). This gives me a sudden, intense sense of urgency with each contraction. When I was a teen in puberty, I got “pee shivers”, when I first let loose, that felt much the same sensation and it was more intense when I was young. The desire for that combination the orgasm rush and the urgency during ejaculation makes fools of men.Maybe this helps.

    • I agree the morning hard on is not necessarily a good boner feeling, although it can be turned into one if she's right there and willing to have a quickly, we can't pee through fully erect boners either, since toilets are not on the ceiling it is not a good idea to even try.(There is a valve in our penises that prevents us from peeing during sex or arousal.)

  • Well it is kind of hard to explain, lol, but I'll do the best I can.First you have to imagine the concept of having an appendage there. If you can imagine that, an erection, as best as I can personally describe it, kinda just feels like an external muscle that we can "flex". I suppose I'd describe cumming as a very intense, very pleasurable tingling (for lack of a better word) that you can feel on the entirety of the penis, the testicles, and deep inside the pelvis. The penis itself during orgasm is usually really hard and does that "flex" or throb with every ejaculation.Best I can describe it.

    • Girls can experience a boner feeling if they have larger clits,which a lot of girls do have,but everyone is not the same.My ex has a clit so small it looks like the ball point of a pen.But I have seen ones that appear to be very tiny penises, and that is what they are, the same tissue that makes our penis head is the clit tissue, and at one time our penises were all clits before we got our testosterone at the 6th week of being an embryo. Should feel the a similar "tingle" and it just gets hard.

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