On a scale of 1-10, how bad does sex hurt for the first time?

^^^^hmmm just wondering

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  • For me, it was 1 (or 2 at some points). It was hard to make him fit in the first time, and we never got him all the way in anyway, because I was too tight/nervous. There was a little stinging because my skin was getting stretched of course, but we went nice and slow so there was no tearing or anything too bad. When it did hurt, I got him to stop and try going slower. So a word of advice: go slowly if it starts to hurt; don't rush things, and don't be afraid to use lube or spit if you have to, to make sure things go smoothly.

    So to repeat: It didn't hurt that much, and the pain stopped as soon as he stopped stretching the skin with his thrusts. So don't worry about it :) As long as you communicate with your partner that first time, there will be hardly, if any, pain.

    Hope I helped :)

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