My boyfriends wants to masturbate while video chatting - what can I do to turn him on?

[beemad]

When he has to travel on business we video chat. he's a pleaser and he knows that I'm not comfortable being naked but he knows I really like his penis so he wants to show me and masturbate for me my question is does anyone have any tips on what I can do while he's doing that? I'm not very experienced and I want to do something other than just look. should I say something? talk dirty? what can I do or say that doesn't involve me taking my clothes off? I only know what to do when he's with me but when he's gone and we video chat I'm completely lost. he doesn't want me to take off my clothes and masturbate with him because he knows that I'm not comfortable with it but it's not completely out of the question. until I get comfortable being able to do it with him is there something I can do? just watching him seems selfish and I want to make him feel great too. please help!

[Anonymous]

I like to do it for my husband when I'm in the shower, thank god for water proof cases for iPhones. But sometimes if I don't want to show too much he likes it if I tell him what to do. Stuff like rub it faster, now stop and squeeze your balls. Tease him a bit. The more I turn him on the bigger the mess he makes. And I'm not there to clean it up 😃

[cut_up_story]

well, you could take your shirt off and play with your boobs or something, that's what my boyfriend likes, throw in a little moaning and an "oh baby I can't wait to have you here with me" and you're set :p

[KayKay19]

Exactly ;D

[debsman]

You're sitting there watching him stroking the object of your desire. What would you do to it if it was there? Whatever comes to mind...tell him that.

[debsman]

I guess it worked.

[beemad]

yes thank you for the advice I've since become way more comfortable sometimes I still don't know what to say but that's only for a minute. thanks you were a big help ;D

[debsman]

You're welcum.

[destroyer]

Talk dirty and strip for him

[Swampwater]

whip out your boobies?

[Seppelson]

Tell him what to do or unwear yourself