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I meet this guy, we date, he is very attractive - but finally we were getting the first sleep over...

find he is NOT well endowed at ALL - he is TINY -- and he is a black man so it is/was very shocking - I mean like 2 inches flacid MAYBE 3-4 inches with full erection... I AM NOT used to that the norm for a black man (and I am also black) is at least 5-6inches and THAT is small -- so NOW I don't know what to do... He told me how important sex was/is to him and I said same with me - VERY important for the relationship and even it is great for your health and well being-- so VERY into it and I stay in shape etc -- I am blessed with a great body and pretty chesty -- NOW I realize that this does not MAKE a relationship but I was NOT fully vested at all and that is a serious turn off - when your penis is 3-4 inches and I am used to a well endowed man - NEVER in my LIFE have I seen one so SMALL.. I even questioned if he were all male as again it I shockingly small... I don't know how I feel about him now and I fee like he lied -- or that he should have warned me it was so tiny... Females what do you think about this and males don't you guys realize that size IS very important especially when THAT small... Sex is very important to me -- now I have a hard time even talking to him and it is like an elephant in the room I want to mention it but then I don't want to offend him but I am SURE all woman both black and white which he dates have had the super surprise and disappointment on that =-- I mean he is 6'3, maybe 220lbs.. a good size man - but hung like a chicken... HELP!
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  • Really it's so simple.

    He'll have to find a female who has the equipment that fits him

    as do you (find a male that fits).

    If you really need something to say to break it off or push him into just friends, it's OK to avoid the subject and direct the excuse to rekindled feelings for an old flame that re emerged out of state. I'm sure you can do better, just think what you'd like to hear if the roles were reversed.

    • THANK you -- that is WHAT I was looking for a way to delicately stop seeing this guy and NOT hurt his feelings - I really really feel bad for him... and ANY guy I have EVER dated is bigger than this guy he has NOTHING it is so sad -- but I am sure this is why his wife cheated on him also... BUT I would never say anything to him but I don't want him to touch me with THAT ever... YIKES.

  • Maybe YOU are just too BIG?

    How many guys have stretched that thing?

    OK, seriously I hope you find a big d*** that fits you perfectly AND he treats you well enough that you find love.

    • YOURS must really be small that you are still trying to attack me -- You bettter make a lot of MONEY you sound like you are ALSO hung like a mouse... SO FUNNY.. so you better make some MONEY>.. I am not stretched out at all I don't sleep around... LOL -- BUT You "stubby" need to relax and stop taking this so personal... LOL

    • hahahahahahahahahahaha

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  • If you think 5 - 6 is small then you got problems lady…need to tighten up that vag

  • What's the question again?

    • what do you do when a guy I has a tiny penis... keep up... jeeze.. I know I am verbose but that is to give a full picture of the situation... can't follow? wtf... are you kidding. never mind if it is THAT complicated...

  • Wow - just read those comments below. The things people say when they hide behind ANONYMOUS.

    • That's funny and ironinc.

    • yes and it is REALLY hilarious to find some OTHER man hung like a mouse is getting so offended here... LOL -- they should start a club for MEN that SHOULD Have been woman cause NO woman will want a man that can NOT please HER... ! LOL very funny --

  • You sound like a tool.

    Did that answer your question?

    • so do you -- and ha ha sounds like you have a 2 incher also... YIKES...LOL Oh well take heed now you know how we woman feel about you guys with TINY WANKERS.. NO THANX..LOL

    • best answer?!?!?

  • I think you're a guy. I don't know too many women that refer to other women as "females".

    Loser.

    • thank s but no thanks that does not even make any sense... WTF -- you must have been offended by the topic... does it apply to you too? lol

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