I'm a virgin, he's my fourth boyfriend but first official one that I presented to my family. We've been going out for about 6 months, I told him I want to wait until we have full intimacy, I wanted to wait till we I get married but I've been considering at least after we go out for a year. meanwhile he's wanted to do other stuff, he's licked and bit my boobs and has fingered me but now he wants to try something different, he asked me if he could lick me ~down~ there and I told him idk, but really I'm scared he won't like what he see's and tastes. I honestly didn't know what it was until he asked me and explained, he told me I would like it but I'm not sure, and I'm not sure if my virginity would be at risk, what do I do?
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Neither oral nor even fingers or dildos affect virginity, which is not an intact hymen, but a state of not having had penetrative intercourse. Satisfying intimacy at Third Base (both ways, of course) can enable you to have your first intercourse with a ring on your left hand. Looking back at how good third base can be, I would have been willing to wait.
If you decide to experience oral from him, open up and swish out in a warm bath with a mild soap like Dove pink. Groom the forest so is is short at the top and down the sides so it doesn't get in the way. Hartmut is not correct. Men who give oral like doing it and the various fragrances and tastes if a healthy, clean Vag are a pleasure to the giver.
Have him wash his hands, trim his nails and (!) brush his teeth before dining.