Im scared to let my boyfriend go down on me, he wants to try it but idk?

i know I will enjoy it, but what if he doesn't like it, what if it smells bad and tastes weird?. ( I shower all the time so its clean, but still )
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  • Go down on him first, come doesn't taste like strawberries either, then you won't feel bad about it. Besides, if you wash before it really doesn't taste of anything. If your'e very concerned about the smell, shave. Problem solved. Might be a bit prickly for him tho, another option is trim it short, its less prickly.

    Guys sense of smell registers the smell of our parts in a different way, its got to do with feromones. Chances are that even if you think there's a faint smell, he most probably doesn't register it!

    Especially if its less then half an hour since you washed.

    If he could smell you he wouldn't wanna go down on you.

    Oh, your natural lubricant doesn't smell of anything, don't worry.

    • i go down on him all the time.. & I do shave.

    • In that case its probably all in your head. Let him do it, you'll probably forget all your fears within the next few minutes and never look back. Have fun!

  • Has he fingered you before? Because if he has I'm sure he'll know what he's in for. Even if you don't smell wonderful he should love you enough to do it anyways. If you're not comfortable with it though, maybe it's best you don't do it at all, or wait a few weeks/months or however long it takes.

    • yeah he has. and he really wants to try it, like he will always bring it up.

    • Well, just make sure you're comfortable. That's the last step. (:

  • its a vagina. its not really supposed to taste AMAZING. the key is to not worry about him. who cares what its like for him? d***s don't taste amazing, but we go down on them. you don't taste bad, chill out. but its only great for you if you don't tense up. so be calm(: he's got you(:

Most Helpful Guys

  • Here's what my EX and I did:

    Buy a can of peaches, spread the juice and a couple of bits down there and let him go nuts. My EX didn't taste to fresh down there and at the time I was to immature to sit down and talk with her about it. If you don't decide to go with my fruit idea, than be smarter than I was, let him do it and ask him honestly if everything was OK, he'll tell you and you can always clean up better for next time (baking soda & water).

    Hope that helps ^_^

  • If he wants to just let him do it. I seem to remember you can get flavoured lubes and scents specifically for that area from suppliers like durex if that helps.

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  • I'm surprised that none of you girls have told what she could to be assure she's clean and balanced down below.

  • if your really worried then eat a can of pineapples or drink pineapple juice about an hour or less before he goes down...it makes your juices sweeter

  • just let the man do what he wants.

  • My ex has done it to me, and he didn't complain about it. He just wanted to make me happy. And since he wants to try it, maybe you should just let him. If he doesn't want to do it again after he's done it once, there's other things you can do.

  • If he really wants to then let him! Have you ever gone down on him?

    • yeah, I do it all the time. :) he doesn't make me, or ask me though.

    • exactly, and it doesn't taste weird or smell bad..ha:) he just wants to do it too