um girls the part where guys really like to be kissed is actuallyy everywhere. but here's a tip. start kissing him softly on their lips (not to soft), then start going down but not to fast and rub your tongue when you go up(sorry don't go lower his chest yet though) to his neck and start kissing him on his neck and go directly with your tongue around his ear and bite his ear in a sexy way (not wildly), then kiss him again on his lips in a sexy way but a little roughly (that's a turn on trust me) now you can start going a little lower untill you get "THERE". but remember as you're going down kiss him and rub your tongue everywhere on his chest but kiss him at the same time. You are so having an awesome night if you try this belive me. Remember to ALWAYS use new ways to really trun a guy on.