Hey, I'm a gril and I wanna know, mostly because I've never been visually aroused and well, I mostly care about a guy's face, but I've been told that I have awful taste, well I don't care, every guy I've crushed on has been the hottest to me at the time. My current boyfriend is the hottest man to me and I wouldn't trade him for anything.
I've never cared about muscles, or that stupid Hollywood crap. Also, large penises seem useless to me (have you noticed how in porn they never enter the whole way? lol it must be painful if they do!)
But do guys think these chicks are hotter? If so, why? What's the ideal female shape guys like? How do you truly feel about your partner's physique after watching lots of porn, or just in general?
(Please guys, don't go turning the tables on me, I'm not saying porn is right or wrong, it depends on the person, plus I accept it as a fact of life even though I don't have an interest in it, and don't see it as cheating. I'm not calling anyone a perv or any other stupid insult. I'm also not an insecure, controlling prick. I'm just sayin'. It's usually what people say to women asking these questions).
Thanks guys, you've all been very helpful. Thank you, thank you, thank you! :)
Every guy has different tastes when it comes to girls they are attracted to.
As for the appeal of porn. well its more about the fantasy. I am pretty sure most guys would not want a relationship with a porn star. They want to see a fantasy play out with an attractive girl where there is no emotional attachment.
Another main reason is because it is convenient and easy. If a guy is in the mood they throw on a porn and don't have to worry about how it will end, its a sure thing. The girls are usually attractive and if she wasn't a porn star and a guy ran into her they may hit on her. But, like I said before every guy has a different taste in girls. That is why there is so much porn out there. Guys aren't watching porn to scout for girls though so the non porn stars out there shouldn't have anything to worry about.
Well I know my guy must at least compare me a little bit. He's brought it up in conversation and showed me how I did something just like one particular girl. Also there was one that he thought I looked like (I didn't think it was that close, but whatever).
Maybe it's just because I mostly see porn that he likes, but I don't see the plastic-looking women stereotype like what a lot of the guys said. It seems to me that a lot of the more popular girls look very natural, and more cute than slutty. I think when I first saw porn, like 15 years ago, the plastic girls were more in vogue. A lot of the porn stars I see today look like fairly normal girls who could be your waitress or whatever.
As for the hotness, I'm sure he thinks some of them are hotter than me. I know I do. The odds that he would find me the most attractive girl out of any he's seen are pretty low. I know that too. But I also know he finds me very attractive and I think that I'm probably the best package of looks, smarts, and personality that he's ever known. At least that's how he makes me feel, and I'm plenty happy for that. I don't want a guy who likes me just for my looks. No matter how much I fight it, they're going to fade eventually. I want to be more than a pretty face to the guy I love.