How to find a man with a foot fetish?

I am feeling frustrated because I am having difficulty finding a guy who is into the things I am into. I am attractive and kind but I have a sexual thing for guys into feet and bondage/light s&m. How do I find a guy to date into these things too? I want a LTR, but also need someone who can fulfill my sexual desires. I don't want to get stuck in another sexually unfulfilled relationship. I feel like no one understands me and guys might think I'm weird. Guys how do I know that he's into this too or where can I meet him?
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  • Have you tried going to bondage bars or clubs in your area? There's always people with interesting fetishes in those places and the minority will always have a thing for feet. Or feet worship! tehehehe.

    But serious though I recommend websites where other people seek out others for fetishes of there own taste.

    Oh and what I have notice is that Some guys are rare to find that would be into the whole bondage and foot fetish and or s&m so its a 50% chance you mite find the men your looking for. But don't give up hope!

    :-)

    • thanks tiger!

  • What exactly is bondage/light s&m? I'm imagining the latex suits with whips and stuff, but I really have no idea especially since you said "light." Have you ever brought any of this up to any of your boyfriends? My philosophy is to bring out our kinky sides slowly but surely and as long as it doesn't involve pain or other people in the bed room, I'd be willing to try it. My current girlfriend is really into getting her feet licked/sucked. I was hesitant at first, but it's not so bad now. I like it because she enjoys it.

    • yes, I have brought this up with my exe's. but by the time we were dating it was too late to break up over it. Both of my exes weren't into it. But we were too attached to each other to end it so I just went without. I would rather know if we are compatible sooner than later because of this. I want someone who enjoys it too, someone I can play with.

    • When my girlfriend first wanted to do this, I actually asked a question on here about it and they pretty much told me that I was being kind of selfish about it. They were right, so I have to turn around and say that your exes were being a bit selfish. Anyway, I don't know how you could just find out sooner without bluntly asking them. Sorry. You'd think they'd want to please their girlfriend in whatever way.

    • you are a good man then. Your girl is lucky. Maybe my exes were just being selfish?

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  • Try high heels, more open. Red is scientifically proven to draw more attention. If he likes tattoos try that. It depends on the guy. Get a pedicure and paint your toenails red. (Again the color ) Go barefoot on a beach. Just trying to help.

    • Yeah, I love red nail polish on girls' feet. Makes me want to hold and suck them so much. 💅😛

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    Go talk to that guy.

    • hehe! okay that guy is even a little weird for me. It's nice that he likes girls feet, but the voyeur thing is to weird for me. Nice idea though.

    • But seriously, a lot of men find a girls feet cute. We may not describe it as a fetish, but they can be cute if they are well kept

    • hey it is a fetish, I keep my feet nice, own lots of shoes. But what do you say "hey there, are you into feet?" "could you tie me up some day, I'd like that". how do you bring it up with a guy tactfully within the first few dates without being seen as a weirdo? I don't want it to get around either that I have this thing and sex sites (yes they are sex sites NOT dating sites) are not what I am going for. I guess I'm kinda stuck. Oh well. Ad on craigslist? :( now I'm depressed.

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  • Wear sandals often... and notice who notices...

  • it is really frustrating... I know how do you feel.. try maybe online dating where there is some sort of sexual chemistry test.. the problem that comes with that.. if you put a sexual preference like that you will get tons of requests even form people who are not into that stuff just because they think they can have sex... I don't know if there are any dating sites that would solve this issue. I am a guy and I wish I could land on a lady like you...
    I don't think it is weird.. usually women are not comfortable expressing their sexual desires which kills a lot of relationships. life is too short to hide what we like... enjoy it and embrace it

  • I love playing with girls feet its so arousing and I want to meet a girl that lets me :'( most girls think it is strange but hey ho its me I can't help it

  • i wish more girls were like you lol

  • You can find many on gag

  • Check out some of the fetish sites
    i prefer Fetlife (fetlife. com)
    But I know some people on alt (alt. com)

  • Well, I have one. I also am into BDSM a little bit, not like pain or anything hardcore, but like tease and denial, yes bondage would be hot. I am submissive.

    Write it in your profile maybe? Go to kinktalk/getdare perhaps. If you're dominant, it should be very easy because dominant girls are in demand.

  • Wait no Klatuu?

  • There are many dating sites where people can meet each other depending on their sexual desires. Just google them.

    • I am looking for a real person looking for a real relationship. There are no people on those sites within hours of were I live and those men are just looking for sex. I am asking how a man might present himself to hint about his preferences

    • Well, sometimes couples are sharing their sexual fantasies between each other. When you'll have a conversation like that, explain him your fantasy and ask for his opinion.

  • This is the internet so I'm guessing you'll find some through this website easily enough haha

  • there are many on here

  • @klatauu someone tagg him he loves feet quick!

  • I like feet actually lol I sucked a girls toe once.

    • how would a girl know you like feet, do you give hints when you start dating?

    • my fetish is everywhere honestly. and no I wouldn't give hints I'd just do it. you can add me and I'll explain

    • He is glancing and staring often, and may comment on your shoes--trying to give a foot rub is the ice-breaker; if you respond well and seem to enjoy that, then a kiss of your toes and now you know where are you located? You describe exactly what I am seeking, and I can't find it on my end either -- a real relationship where the foot fetish/mild bdsm etc. is natural and just part of our lifestyle and comfortable for both; wish I knew how to find it!

  • I have a foot fetish but it's not a big one gtfo with that bondage shit

  • I would love to find a girl that likes to have her feet played with.

  • I'm the one you are looking for. I love to suck girl's clean feet. :))

  • Hii dear.. Im going through sumthin similar to what u r.. Jus dat m on d opposite side.. I luv feet n wanna fulfill my fantasies of being dominated n all dat.. Like soft bdsm n worship n so on.. M sure u understand what i mean.. But i. ve not got dat at all n i wanna go ahead m fulfill my desires wid sum one of same understanding.. Guess u n me share d same feelings.. Contact me dear.. May b v jus met is not jus a co incidence but destiny.. Hit me up.. Waitin to hear frm u.. My id.. Nomi. is. back@gmail. com

  • hello,

    it is easy i love woman feet and would love to kiss massage and lick them, aswell as dominated by them and let woman walk all over me using me as there carpet and footslave.
    if you interested please write me at loopovermij@hotmail. com

    we can talk and maybe meet one day and i can serve you as your door, mat and footslave

  • e-mail me..joesammel@gmail.com I've been through this a lot, but just on the opposite side of things. I've created a couple good ways to approach this

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